What Turns you on? (Fetishes)

[raybear26]

A fistful of long, thick soft hair to pull on, to use as a guide to show my lover just where I want her lips to go.

 

[subish2009]

Hypnotizing women into doing things they would normally not do or just controlling them period.

Giving a woman long slow massages while slowly building and teasing with sexual excitement, if she begs, tell her "No" and keep building until she is almost ready to orgasm... then having her orgasm exactly when I want her to.

Seducing a woman outdoors or in public locations... but not just having sex in those locations, I like some resistance where I slowly work past their defenses and build their arousal until they finally give in.

hot!!!

 

[subish2009]

The one thing that will always always always get me hotter than hell is being tickled, especially while tightly restrained.

I'm with you on that one!

 

[subish2009]

I have a coercive paraphilia. This means I can only become aroused when taking a woman by force, either physical force or otherwise.

Do you know what it's called if you're on the receiving end of this? The stories labeled "reluctance" are always my favs. I hadn't ever heard the term "coercive paraphilia" before and wondered what it's inverse would be cuz I think I would be it!

 

[chatbug]

Do you know what it's called if you're on the receiving end of this? The stories labeled "reluctance" are always my favs. I hadn't ever heard the term "coercive paraphilia" before and wondered what it's inverse would be cuz I think I would be it!

rape or ravishment fantasies

ravishment would be the more appropriate term, but most women call them rape fantasies.

 

[subish2009]

rape or ravishment fantasies

ravishment would be the more appropriate term, but most women call them rape fantasies.

No, I don't mean rape fantasies. Less violent than that. I like the word "reluctance"...think sex that is somewhat forced, but where the woman eventually gives in and gets really into it...like it was what she wanted all along deep down, but needed to be "forced" into it...

Anybody know what I'm talking about and/or what that would be called? Maybe there's no term for that. Maybe I'm just not good at explaining it!

 

[Spamasutra]

Ok here goes

- Having my asshole licked while being jerked off
- Licking womens assholes while finger fucking them
- High heeled shoes and well manicured feet (being able to ejaculate all over them even better)
- Alternating spanking a tight ass with my leather belt, then trailing the cold metal of the buckle over the spanked area
- Pissing on clits
- Pissing in a woman Im fucking
- Ejaculating on a womans face - marking her with my seed

 

[whiteswan]

can you help

hi there ..i am new and not sure that this is the suitable forum...but here goes
i think i am addicted to old women..a fetish i suppose you would call it...my first experience with women was when i was younger and raped by 2 older women and i have had sex with older women since then
however now that i am the older woman...i thought it had decreased
however thw 78yr old lady next door who i have been dropping in to keep an eye on .....put her hands up my shirt and started massaging my tits..saying sophie loves your titties..do you love sophie rubbing your titties....i let her do it ..it really turned me on ...
i eventually pulled away...telling her she was a naughty girl...
.however she said they were sophies titties now and to come in without my bra so she could play some more...i have been trying to resist .....but the closer it gets the more i want her to touch me
what do you all think.....should i be doing this with an old lady..is it the right thing do do for her sake...dunno
would appreciate your opinions
Ta
whiteswan

 

[cheapthrills]

hi there ..i am new and not sure that this is the suitable forum...but here goes
i think i am addicted to old women..a fetish i suppose you would call it...my first experience with women was when i was younger and raped by 2 older women and i have had sex with older women since then
however now that i am the older woman...i thought it had decreased
however thw 78yr old lady next door who i have been dropping in to keep an eye on .....put her hands up my shirt and started massaging my tits..saying sophie loves your titties..do you love sophie rubbing your titties....i let her do it ..it really turned me on ...
i eventually pulled away...telling her she was a naughty girl...
.however she said they were sophies titties now and to come in without my bra so she could play some more...i have been trying to resist .....but the closer it gets the more i want her to touch me
what do you all think.....should i be doing this with an old lady..is it the right thing do do for her sake...dunno
would appreciate your opinions
Ta
whiteswan

-- My opinion on this and for anything simular, is the same; If your enjoying it, and like doing it, and she likes it and wants you to do it; Go for it. Your two consenting adults, having fun doing waht you enjoy and what turns you on, let her have your tits, get to have her's, and just have fun and enjoy it all; I think this pretty-much applys to any fantasty; Whilst some might not be to my taste, I've probably got plenty that arn't to others taste, but when its two consenting adults partaking in the kink, fettish, or whatever, then its not only fine and natural to do so, it's more harmful to not express the kink/fettish/emotion than it is to express it... Just my opinion mind... Go for it!

 

[HisSexyPet]

hi there ..i am new and not sure that this is the suitable forum...but here goes
i think i am addicted to old women..a fetish i suppose you would call it...my first experience with women was when i was younger and raped by 2 older women and i have had sex with older women since then
however now that i am the older woman...i thought it had decreased
however thw 78yr old lady next door who i have been dropping in to keep an eye on .....put her hands up my shirt and started massaging my tits..saying sophie loves your titties..do you love sophie rubbing your titties....i let her do it ..it really turned me on ...
i eventually pulled away...telling her she was a naughty girl...
.however she said they were sophies titties now and to come in without my bra so she could play some more...i have been trying to resist .....but the closer it gets the more i want her to touch me
what do you all think.....should i be doing this with an old lady..is it the right thing do do for her sake...dunno
would appreciate your opinions
Ta
whiteswan

First I would have to know if this "old lady" was cognizant of her actions. As long as she is capable of making a rational decision I say go for it. As Cheapthrills said, consenting adults and all

 

[Satyrico]

"reluctance"

No, I don't mean rape fantasies. Less violent than that. I like the word "reluctance"...think sex that is somewhat forced, but where the woman eventually gives in and gets really into it...like it was what she wanted all along deep down, but needed to be "forced" into it...

Anybody know what I'm talking about and/or what that would be called? Maybe there's no term for that. Maybe I'm just not good at explaining it!

I am reminded of a girl I dated in university. She would snuggle under my arm and coo into my chest about how she would hate to face prof. Williams with a late assignment. Or, she would hate to be in a doctor's office and have him start making sexual advances towards her. I would question her concerning her fears and the various demands and actions of her tormentor.

She would blush and reluctantly reveal the details. There were even tears accompanying the revelation. I would force her to describe the most intimate of details. The next time we got together I would enter into the fantasy with exactitude and physical dominance. We had some of the best sex I have ever experienced. The more reluctant she became the more forcefully I would press the fantasy. I wonder where she is today and if her husband gets to enjoy her delicious imagination.

 

[jabez]

mind control stories.... a woman controlling me like that....

 

[whiteswan]

thanks heaps

-- My opinion on this and for anything simular, is the same; If your enjoying it, and like doing it, and she likes it and wants you to do it; Go for it. Your two consenting adults, having fun doing waht you enjoy and what turns you on, let her have your tits, get to have her's, and just have fun and enjoy it all; I think this pretty-much applys to any fantasty; Whilst some might not be to my taste, I've probably got plenty that arn't to others taste, but when its two consenting adults partaking in the kink, fettish, or whatever, then its not only fine and natural to do so, it's more harmful to not express the kink/fettish/emotion than it is to express it... Just my opinion mind... Go for it!

thanks ever so much for your opinions.....had a bit of a guilt thing happening ....but you are perfectly correct.....if it is ok with both parties..then go for it...i did...and i am so glad i did....my tits are a bit sore today..but it was worth every bruise...i was in the hands of an expert.....

 

[whiteswan]

First I would have to know if this "old lady" was cognizant of her actions. As long as she is capable of making a rational decision I say go for it. As Cheapthrills said, consenting adults and all

yes....extremely cognizant...she knew exactly what she was doing.....i cant say the same about me though..

 

[jabez]

the naughty school girl, tempting me to give her a better grade....

 

[hotpup]

Way to go!

thanks ever so much for your opinions.....had a bit of a guilt thing happening ....but you are perfectly correct.....if it is ok with both parties..then go for it...i did...and i am so glad i did....my tits are a bit sore today..but it was worth every bruise...i was in the hands of an expert.....

I am glad you enjoyed your experience! I bet the sore breasts are worth it and sounds like you'll visit her again!

 

[unrepentntharlo]

Things that make me whimper

My hair being wrapped in their fistst so they have control of my head movements.
Verbal nasty talk.
Nipple suction
biting
erotic hypnosis
collar
breath play/choking
bondage
kidnap/chloroform/sedative type of play (haven't done that yet, but i'm hoping..the feeling of knowing you shouldn't enjoy hsi taking of you, but unable to keep your body from betraying your mind)
Orgasm denial,
Exploring my partners dark deep fantasy with them.

 

[PassionateStars]

found this thread and about to read it

found this thread and about to read it

Looks quite interesting!

D

 

[alirk]

Hypnotizing women into doing things they would normally not do or just controlling them period.

Giving a woman long slow massages while slowly building and teasing with sexual excitement, if she begs, tell her "No" and keep building until she is almost ready to orgasm... then having her orgasm exactly when I want her to.

Seducing a woman outdoors or in public locations... but not just having sex in those locations, I like some resistance where I slowly work past their defenses and build their arousal until they finally give in.

In-shape women who don't shave their armpits... on out of shape women it's just squick.

I like women in glasses too.

A or B cup breasts... C cup and bigger are only good with fakes or women under 26

I have a fantasy of seeing my wife in a situation like this with a man.....She is a beautiful, petite, demure woman and I would just love to see a man break down her defenses until she gives in. I know she desires other men's attention because she has some self confidence issues and feels like no men find her attractive.(I tell her and try to show her all the time how attractive I find her) In my fantasy she keeps going along with this guy because he can manipulate her feelings until she is doing anything and everything he wants....Anywhere, anytime. Weird, I know.

 

[alirk]

I know it common

Serving a woman, doing anything and everything she wants.

My wife works out and often comes home hot and sweaty. I make sure that I am freshly showered and have shaved my face so there is no stubble. I keep hoping that she will decide that she wants me right then and there. Making me lick every inch of her moist body....putting me in all kinds of position, using me....teasing me....talking so dirty and enjoying my humiliation.

Sigh. Just a fantasy, she would neve go for it.

 

[Phat_Goddess]

choking, wax, hair pulling, whipping, restraints...others not yet known...but hopefully will be found

 

[Sayyid]

Lots but my favourites have to be: hair pulling, flagellation, biting, and maybe some waxplay and I'm partial to certain articles of clothing, especially stockings (fully fashioned with garter belt - awesome), heels and corsets/basques.

Mmm.

 

[nh23]

choking, wax, hair pulling, whipping, restraints...others not yet known...but hopefully will be found

Oh yay! I love your new AV!

 

[Phat_Goddess]

Oh yay! I love your new AV!

lol why thank you..i kept having some people say how they missed my av with me actually in it

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Turn Ons: BOOBS, not really a fetish i suppose...women in lingerie/heels/thigh highs, did i mention biting before?

 

[praefect]

A scent can drive me wild. I can sit on the couch, be board, she walks past me, a scent enters my nose and all my neurons go into fireworks mode.

I get a kick out of consensually corrupting innocence. To either be the first to give one kind of kinky experience or another, or to do it symbolically. A pretty women dressed in white, bound in white, cumming, a drop of my seed at the corner of her mouth.

I'm a voyeur, sometimes I just like to watch and direct.

Once things start to get hot I like - no - I need to possess, to hold, to take... to protect ... ( It makes sense to me dammit )

I'm really hesitant to list this, since it does so much more to me than just make me hot, infinitely more, but it does that as well, so... devotion.