What Turns you on? (Fetishes)

[fenghuang]

Gloves - especailly opera gloves - silk, velvet, or best of all, rubber.
Boots - preferably knee length with laces all the way up.
Corsets. (Did I mention rubber?)
Strapons - though stangely not with the above.
Getting pissed on - but never tried it.
Mild CBT - ball weights, straps etc, but not pain.
Being told exactly what to do. (As opposed to being told what to stop doing, which is a major turn off.)

I almost forgot - shaving. Nothing quite compares with shaving your partner. The trust, the intimacy, the risk of mutilation if you sneeze ....

 

[operationorgasm]

Sooo much in common with both of you! And so borrowing much from both of you...

Men's hands
Sucking on his fingers
Being spanked, slapped, having my hair pulled, hands on my neck
Biting, scratching,
Being face-fucked
Being teased until I beg
Being slammed up against a wall, down on a surface (bed, table, whatever), general roughness
Being completely coerced into whatever he wants
Dirty talk, with some demeaning and degrading name-calling
Mild exhibitionism, but under his control
Being insolent to the point that he loses control, just a little, while "punishing" me
Wearing heels, stockings, garters, corsets
I'm sooooo very verbal, so a man with a better vocabulary, better use of grammar, very in control, dominant, slightly arrogant alpha-male...*sigh* I'm sold.

Now, seriously, where are they all hiding?!

 

[subish2009]

Now, seriously, where are they all hiding?!

The men fitting that description? They're out there. But it does take some looking to find them, yes.

 

[Sayyid]

Hey, I'd like to think I fit that description.

So yeah, send any girls who like those things my way.

 

[bruisedangel]

The men fitting that description? They're out there. But it does take some looking to find them, yes.

But where on Earth can you find them?!?

 

[subish2009]

But where on Earth can you find them?!?

I found one 13 years ago at a party when we were in college. Another found me a couple of months ago here on Lit. There have to be more....I can't be THAT lucky!

 

[petite34c]

This

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[bigdaddymackman]

My submissives eyes when she looks up at me from her knees

 

[Sayyid]

Doesn't everyone like that?

 

[PamelaPlaisir]

The combination of his control and my submission during:
Anal
Nipple play
Spanking
Induced lactation
Water Sports
Orgasm denial or Forced orgasm
Bondage (so far only breasts)

The jury is still out on the following:
Breath play
Knife play (no blood)
Branding
and one thats too naughty to put into type

 

[Sayyid]

Nothing is too naughty for this forum. Go on, tell us?

 

[risetoday3]

I love getting my freshly pedicured feet massaged and having it end in foot fucking. Lots of massage oil, hard penis cupped between my feet, fucking, fucking, fucking, ending with cum all over my stomach and a raunchy, hard kiss.

I got really hard just reading that. Female feet turn me on like nothing else

 

[bruisedangel]

I've just thought of another turn on. Finding out what new things turn me on.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I've just thought of another turn on. Finding out what new things turn me on.

amen to that

 

[Sayyid]

Lately I've gotten into choking, although I dislike breathplay. I just like the feeling of having my hand around someone's throat; it feels powerful and controlling.

 

[naughty_liza]

the best thing when your girl shit for you and piss and you smell her sweat fart

 

[Sayyid]

Ew that sounds absolutely revolting.

 

[Ninmar]

You name it, I'm interested in it or have fantasized it or have done it. Scat is the only thing that I'm not into. Also not interested in swallowing someone's pee.

My turn ons/ fantasies (have done a handfull of these):
Dominating people
Whipping
Fucking a man or a woman in the ass with a strap on or double ended dildo
Getting DP from two guys or a guy and a girl with a strapon
Peeing on people/ making them swallow it
Having a guy cum on my face
Spitting a guys cum on his face or mouth
Using a knife on someones genitals or ass
Plain old fucking (pussy or ass)
Getting fucked by someone and having another person masturbate while watching
Dirty talk
Feeling a nice hard wet cock rubbing against my clit
Eating ass and getting my ass eaten
Rubbing my clit against a guys ass and pretending to buttfuck him (omg, did this a few days ago, it was AWESOME, he can't take a dildo in his ass so this was the next best thing)
"Forced" facesitting

I could go on forever but I'll spare you.

I think I'm in love...

 

[operationorgasm]

Lately I've gotten into choking, although I dislike breathplay. I just like the feeling of having my hand around someone's throat; it feels powerful and controlling.

Breathplay has never tickled my fancy, either, though the idea of someone's hand around my throat, even exuding some pressure, turns me on. But, squeeze too tightly and it just kills it... so, I'm seconding your post

 

[ataxia.girl]

When Daddy says something profound or poignant that shows me on yet another level how well he understands me. Is the best treat in the world. Makes me very wet and squirmy.

 

[subish2009]

Lately I've gotten into choking, although I dislike breathplay. I just like the feeling of having my hand around someone's throat; it feels powerful and controlling.

I LOVE that! Though, from the other end of it, of course.

 

[Bran_Hopewell]

Fisting
Red heads
public nudity
her not wearing bra or panties
me not wearing underwear
sex in public
Red heads
Twins
Hot moms with hot daughters
object insertions
light food play
light domination
taking pictures
flashing
red heads
Asian girls with UK Accents.
erotic tattoos
red heads

 

[Sayyid]

What's the appeal of fisting anyway?

 

[nh23]

What's the appeal of fisting anyway?

Think about this meat puppet. I can't be fisted because of my pelvis, but I've seen women have incredibly strong orgasms from it. I think for the one doing the fisting it's probably a control thing.

 

[CurlyKat]

What's the appeal of fisting anyway?

For the receiver: The feeling of being that stretched out, and the amount of time and attention in that area to get that way is a huge turn on. It just feels good. To be fisted, you have to give up that control to the one fisting, so for a submissive, obviously a turn on. Feeling that full.... wow good. And yes, as nh said, humongous orgasms.

For the giver: Power, control, knowing you can inspire that kind of pleasure in someone.

It's probably not everyone's thing, but those are the main reasons for the appeal.