What Turns you on? (Fetishes)

New ones I have as of right now.

Someone who types extremely well.
Growling. ;)
Longer hair on males.
Hands.

and the newest of all of them...

The idea of someone playing with my hair. It drives me insane. And I don't know why.

Well I think I can type pretty-well, and I'm a male with hair currently an inch or so above my waist whilst its tied back....

The hair one is an interesting one; Liking someone playing with your hair; I've a male friend with whom we occasionally get up to some naughty fun together. He's not overly 'sexually driven', but one of the things he really enjoys is having his hair played with.
Like me he's got fairly long hair, though not as long as mine, and he'll sit there as long as I'll do it; whilst I play with his hair, as he sits between my legs his head resting in my lap. I can kind of understand it, and its actually quite enjoyable from my point of view to be playing with his hair, I'm not sure if he really finds it a sexual turn-on as such, more a sensual type of thing... Not quite entirely my cup of tea, but he also rather likes me lavishing a lot of attention on to his feet, and well, that is a big sexual turn on for me, having a hot sweaty pair of feet up against my face for my senses to explore and enjoy... Actually we have some nice time together sometimes, and as he's not overly* sexual, it kind of takes some of the pressure off, as we're not going to start wanting to fuck or suck each other and so we can be more relaxed about it I guess...

Having said which, being roughly or even violently fucked is something I'd still not want to be without entirely... Especially if the person fucking me wants to really dominate me, hurt me, tie me up, chain me up, etc....
 
Fetishs:
Ties
Glasses (men or women)
Suits

Kinks:
Rape Play
Being choked/slapped in the face/bitten
Being forced to watch my husband fool around with another woman and being forced to lick up the mess after.
Going down on a girl who has her period. I've never actually done it, but I masturbate to the thought of it all the time.
 
Eyeliner? Really? I like eyeliner but it proved my most embarrassing moment

For reasons I won't go into, I was wearing eyeliner (eye shadow, rouge, lipstick etc) one Christmas eve when my 80 year-old neighbor knocked on my door and gave me a christmas snack platter (prepared by his wife). Did I mention I'm male?

I answered the door before I realized my state; then, immediately turned off the porch light to plunge my appearance into darkness -- it was glaring in his eyes, so he didn't mind. However, I'm certain he got a good look before the light went out. Why does it matter? Even at 80, this guy is twice the man I am. He still goes to Michigan to snowmobile and rides 8-10 hrs a day in temperatures and windchills that are, not just brutal, but dangerous. Surprisingly, his opinion matters to me. I'm not gay and don't consider myself homophobic; I could be wrong on both counts but I don't think so.

I haven't seen any evidence since, that he thinks I'm gay or plain weird but I've made it a point to stop trying to be a woman. I was going through a period where I needed to try to BE a woman - again, I don't think it's necessary to explain.

Having said all this, I still like eyeliner. I don't DO eyeliner as I did then but I like it.

I love men in eyeliner. I've always been attracted to scene guys, and the eyeliner always turns me on.
 
my fetishes,

While there are many, few things arouse me as much as a man standing over me with a look on of his face like he knows of my desire to please him and has made up his mind to take full advantage of that. I fantasize about a man making me beg just for the pleasure of servicing him. I don't think in reality I would want to be the object of a full on gang bang but in my dark recesses it is always there.
 
Daddy/daughter RP
auntie/Nephew RP
Blind folds
Rape Play
Bondage
Knife play (more curious)
Having my feet worshiped (a man with love of feet and shoes)
Bare handed spanking
Crops
Shibari
Hair pulling
Playing dress up
Treated like a princess and fucked like a dirty whore
Dirty Talk : being made to say dirty things..and being told I am a honry littile daddy's slut type thing...
mmmm I could go on lol.but I think that's enough..
lmao
Wouldn't want to spoil my image..
:devil:
 
Oh!
And one of my favorite lately...
Wresting to see who wins...by any means...
;)
 
Here's our kinky fetishes, fantasies and desires:
Having nipple clamps applied to her while licking pussy
Ass licking
Having ass licked
anal play (as the giver)
oral play (as the giver)
Food coverings (whipped cream, etc)
Compassionate dominance
Being dressed up like a girl
Submission to my Wife. I do call her mistress. I have come to think of myself as being owned by her.
Strapon play. Both oral and anal. Makes me (husband) feel very feminine and submissive.
forced to wear a cock cage
Watching porn together
Bi-Porn (men performing oral on each other while the wife watches)
watching gay men videos
Licking up my own cum
nipple clamps and Clothes Pins
nipple biting
Nipple suction
Giving my wife long slow massages while slowly building and teasing with sexual excitement
exploring limits (testing)
expressing sexuality honestly
exploring boundaries whole-heartedly
be dominated by my wife
being slapped, spanked
wife to take me over her knee and spank me and then teach me how to take a strap on.
See wife in high heel shoes
thigh high stockings
Being completely coerced into whatever she wants
telling wife (who love to hear) about me bisexual fantasies and experiences
wife kneeling before me and play with my cock anyway she desires
candle wax
Having a blindfold on, being naked and waiting to feel what happens next
Slapping cock with hand
Having wife sit on my face
I would love it after I cum in my wife; she squats over me and tells me clean her up
Domination/submission (husband is a switch, but prefer to be the sub)
Toys during sex (dildos, vibrators...)
wife's large erect nipples (they are HOT)
Explore unexplored sexual acts are important
Husband wants to try enemas, I like the idea of wife inserts her finger to lube my anus, then the Insertion of the
enema tip, the warm water flowing in and arousing my prostate.
 
Fetishes

Spanking
Voyeurism
Watching women take on large toys
Being in control


I also have a HUGE panty fetish!!!
 
Hmmmm I am unsure about how to state what I like. What's to far and what's not. What I want to hand out and what I want to keep private.
 
Where to start....
Hmmmm
Dom-sub
Age play
Rape
Forced
Breeding-see forced.
Collecting
Calling her names,degrading. Like saying she is a little pig.
Making her be a horse,or acting like one. Anal plug, latex mask with bit.
Torture, anything sick and twisted in my book.
Pissing
Forced anal
Cuckold
Maybe knife play
I like the idea of having the girl being around to be used. Like if cleaning I walk up and just fuck the shit out of her, dump my load, grab her shirt and wipe myself off or use her ass to wipe it off and walk off.
Facesitting on her.
Slapping-face ass pussy tits
Choking

I am sure there is more...Like I said sick and twisted
 
I crave being hurt and I NEED it to orgasm. But my boyfriend cant/wont give it to me. So now im online :/
 
I crave being hurt and I NEED it to orgasm. But my boyfriend cant/wont give it to me. So now im online :/

Ouch, that's unfortunate...I was actually in the position of your boyfriend for a time when I didn't understand my partner's needs. Luckily, I did some research and discussed it thoroughly with her and I began to change my mind on the subject...maybe he'll come around too! The only thing is, he has to be the one who wants to make it happen. If that ever happens, you should send him here. There are a lot of really compassionate, helpful people here on this board.
 
Ouch, that's unfortunate...I was actually in the position of your boyfriend for a time when I didn't understand my partner's needs. Luckily, I did some research and discussed it thoroughly with her and I began to change my mind on the subject...maybe he'll come around too! The only thing is, he has to be the one who wants to make it happen. If that ever happens, you should send him here. There are a lot of really compassionate, helpful people here on this board.

Ive met alot of great people on here to I'm glad he can find support on here too
 
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