What Turns you on? (Fetishes)
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The most oddest thing (probably not) but the other night I wanted some serious nipple torture. I ended up sticking a safety pin through my nipple. Had some bourbon first and then numbed it with the left over ice. Grabbed a cork for backing and then pushed it in. It was the greatest feeling, in addition to the pain. Pulled it out after 10 minutes but I am dying to do it again. I did some checking and realized that this is maybe not a good thing - I didn't sterlize it at all. Just pushed it in so I am guessing I got lucky. Next time I want to do both and then put some weight on them...
ImOnIt
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I'm here on behalf of your conscience, registered nurses, your future partners and YOU! INDEED! YOUR FUTURE SELF brings you this message:
Don't be a silly sausage!Don't do things drunk! Get a real needle!
Okay - not drunk I understand but a bit of a buzz helps. About the needle if I flame it and then use rubbing alcohol would that be good enough? I also read that sewing needles were better because they were sharper but I kind of like the pain with a duller one...
world69peace
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Please, please, if you are going to engage in needle play (which can be SO fun) please please get some proper sterile needles! I think they are fairly easy to come across on line!
If you do not do this you are risking serious infection!! And NO rubbing alcohol and a flame are NOT enough! I engage in needle play, but have a very full understanding of the risks and do much work to prevent and reduce risks! Things such as:
-1st and foremost sterile needles, used only within one session and properly disposed of after wards.
-All surfaces including the body properly washed with antibacterial and alcohol.
-disposable gloves
-alcohol wipes that can be used safely on skin.
-Also understanding where on the body it is safe to poke..
Hands and feet are a no, as is neck. Arms and legs and tummy and such are better choices. Nerve damage is possible as is infection.
This is just a hint at the kind of things you should consider if engaging in needle play!
the more you know, the safer you can be, and thus the more fun! Sex and needles and blood! ooh my!! FUN!! But do it right and be safe!!
**there are on-line sources and books that can help with this sort of play!
twister947
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Please, please, if you are going to engage in needle play (which can be SO fun) please please get some proper sterile needles! I think they are fairly easy to come across on line!
If you do not do this you are risking serious infection!! And NO rubbing alcohol and a flame are NOT enough! I engage in needle play, but have a very full understanding of the risks and do much work to prevent and reduce risks! Things such as:
-1st and foremost sterile needles, used only within one session and properly disposed of after wards.
-All surfaces including the body properly washed with antibacterial and alcohol.
-disposable gloves
-alcohol wipes that can be used safely on skin.
-Also understanding where on the body it is safe to poke..
Hands and feet are a no, as is neck. Arms and legs and tummy and such are better choices. Nerve damage is possible as is infection.
This is just a hint at the kind of things you should consider if engaging in needle play!
Sex and needles and blood! ooh my!! FUN!! But do it right and be safe!!
**there are on-line sources and books that can help with this sort of play!
QFT
Bloodplay is wonderful, but should never, ever, be entered into casually. You can't be too careful.
aniserouge
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Well, I guess I should try to list em eventually.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but fetishes would be objects or traits that turn me on, and kinks are behaviors and scenes?
Fetishes: white cotton t-shirts, broad shoulders, day-old cologne, knives (they make me horny, but I wouldn't bring them into the bedroom. dunno. ) wearing high heels, wearing long black dresses, translucent shower stalls, strong noses, shirtless men still wearing jeans, thick hair (not long hair), loose cotton panties (on girls), wearing my lap suit, drinking from a beer bottle, cotton bedsheets, sun tanning, male tummies (I can't keep my lips off of them.)
Kinks
Blowjobs, dear god. (giving them)
Swallowing
giving blow jobs when he's doing something else.
Making him face-fuck me in excitement
gagging on his cock.
being told to stay perfectly still during sex, no restraints
being made to stay silent
Being ordered to do just about anything (within sexual situations)
washing him in the shower.
taking more than one cock at once (specifically one in my pussy, one in my mouth, preferably SO and his good friend)
wearing a butt plug and/or nipple clamps while doing house chores.
nipple clamps in general
denying myself orgasms.
Tight collars, or tight hands. Not breath control, but close to it.
ceremonial gang bang (hard to explain, but a pagan rite/virgin sacrifice kind of concept)
Being examined, like a dog show
being spanked, hard.
spanking another girl.
yard work/summer activities in less than sufficient clothing (braless, see-through, or too small)
Gosh I'm sure there's more, but that's all for now.
Funny how long that list gets when you really sit down and think about it.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but fetishes would be objects or traits that turn me on, and kinks are behaviors and scenes?
Fetishes: white cotton t-shirts, broad shoulders, day-old cologne, knives (they make me horny, but I wouldn't bring them into the bedroom. dunno. ) wearing high heels, wearing long black dresses, translucent shower stalls, strong noses, shirtless men still wearing jeans, thick hair (not long hair), loose cotton panties (on girls), wearing my lap suit, drinking from a beer bottle, cotton bedsheets, sun tanning, male tummies (I can't keep my lips off of them.)
Kinks
Blowjobs, dear god. (giving them)
Swallowing
giving blow jobs when he's doing something else.
Making him face-fuck me in excitement
gagging on his cock.
being told to stay perfectly still during sex, no restraints
being made to stay silent
Being ordered to do just about anything (within sexual situations)
washing him in the shower.
taking more than one cock at once (specifically one in my pussy, one in my mouth, preferably SO and his good friend)
wearing a butt plug and/or nipple clamps while doing house chores.
nipple clamps in general
denying myself orgasms.
Tight collars, or tight hands. Not breath control, but close to it.
ceremonial gang bang (hard to explain, but a pagan rite/virgin sacrifice kind of concept)
Being examined, like a dog show
being spanked, hard.
spanking another girl.
yard work/summer activities in less than sufficient clothing (braless, see-through, or too small)
Gosh I'm sure there's more, but that's all for now.
Funny how long that list gets when you really sit down and think about it.
Aurantica
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Well, I guess I should try to list em eventually.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but fetishes would be objects or traits that turn me on, and kinks are behaviors and scenes?
Fetishes: white cotton t-shirts, broad shoulders, day-old cologne, knives (they make me horny, but I wouldn't bring them into the bedroom. dunno. ) wearing high heels, wearing long black dresses, translucent shower stalls, strong noses, shirtless men still wearing jeans, thick hair (not long hair), loose cotton panties (on girls), wearing my lap suit, drinking from a beer bottle, cotton bedsheets, sun tanning, male tummies (I can't keep my lips off of them.)
Kinks
Blowjobs, dear god. (giving them)
Swallowing
giving blow jobs when he's doing something else.
Making him face-fuck me in excitement
gagging on his cock.
being told to stay perfectly still during sex, no restraints
being made to stay silent
Being ordered to do just about anything (within sexual situations)
washing him in the shower.
taking more than one cock at once (specifically one in my pussy, one in my mouth, preferably SO and his good friend)
wearing a butt plug and/or nipple clamps while doing house chores.
nipple clamps in general
denying myself orgasms.
Tight collars, or tight hands. Not breath control, but close to it.
ceremonial gang bang (hard to explain, but a pagan rite/virgin sacrifice kind of concept)
Being examined, like a dog show
being spanked, hard.
spanking another girl.
yard work/summer activities in less than sufficient clothing (braless, see-through, or too small)
Gosh I'm sure there's more, but that's all for now.
Funny how long that list gets when you really sit down and think about it.
ooooh, such yummy ideas.....
Ken65B
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i always found Barbie boring but she's looking far more interesting these days...
here is real barbie that I bet you would enjoy.
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OldGuy1026
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Oh come on now, that not a BDSM Barbie. She should have her hands behind her head showing off her ample bussum. And I prefer the Catholic Church method of kneeling straight up not sitting on her heels like a lazy slave.
Given that I am a dominant with a mild sadistic streak.
I like to give pain, not to the point of tears, just so they gasp sharply.
bandage
hair pulling
choking a slut with my cock
anal play
anal sex
breath play
orgasm play
forced organisms
spanking / punishment
and generally pushing every boundary and limit the person has
It isn't so much about what it is as about the affect it has on the person. I want to take something they said they would never like and make them take it, then like it, then love it, and in the end watch them beg for it.
I like to give pain, not to the point of tears, just so they gasp sharply.
bandage
hair pulling
choking a slut with my cock
anal play
anal sex
breath play
orgasm play
forced organisms
spanking / punishment
and generally pushing every boundary and limit the person has
It isn't so much about what it is as about the affect it has on the person. I want to take something they said they would never like and make them take it, then like it, then love it, and in the end watch them beg for it.
SharingofR
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Shared
I love being the center of attention between a couple or 2 mature gentleman and having them talk between each other about me while they are sharing me as if I am not even there. Just being enjoyed and used for their pleasure.
I love being the center of attention between a couple or 2 mature gentleman and having them talk between each other about me while they are sharing me as if I am not even there. Just being enjoyed and used for their pleasure.
Chiara_searches
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It's not a fetish, as I don't need it to achieve climax, but I found recently that writing erotic stories in a public place is a big turn on. The feeling that someone will inadvertently see what you are writing, or figure out why you are shifting in your seat, crossing and uncrossing your legs, is simple divine torture.
Fmature2play
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The thought of a woman that makes me crawl to her and teases me endlessly. Some times I go forever fantasizing just about bi or lesbian women. Other times its just the guys. I am funny like that.
OldGuy1026
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While not a fetish to me I often get a "boner" while at work and writing in my mind. Just so embarrassing.
tempest6913
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mine
blood and needle/knife , rape ,vampire, hair pulling, biting, nething really kinda of rough. i am a very kinky person and love it all
blood and needle/knife , rape ,vampire, hair pulling, biting, nething really kinda of rough. i am a very kinky person and love it all
blackstallion21
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I think I would say my fetish would be and could be involved with my nipples! I hated my nipples all of my life, as a bigger guy, But when one of my exes started licking my nipples during sex, and then started sucking on them and breathing hot hard breath onto them, and I SHOT OFF LIKE A ROCKET, I knew that I had found my niche!
Rolando2
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This does........yes,its a guy,the hair on his thighs above the stockings.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nh6MOX13mb4&feature=player_profilepage
and while you're there, look at the others
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nh6MOX13mb4&feature=player_profilepage
and while you're there, look at the others
littlebitsexy
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hmmm which ones should I post? being tied, spanked, bit, brutally fucked, sucking cock, and multiple orgasims. just to name a few
randy_dude23
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@littlebitsexy - all of those are great turn ons. What about talking about those things over the phone??? Something to think about!
PanicByNumbers
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The idea of a girl in a low cut top kneeling in front of me for some reason. I look down her top and she looks up at me smiling knowingly. Then without a word she undoes her top and reaches for my fly...
Very_Bad_Man
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HMMMMMMMM What turns me on?
My first inclination is to say a woman who knows to STFU when I am watching a game. But after deeper thought what really turns me on is her wearing a ball gag and fetching me another beer and slice of pizza while wearing just an apron.
Except one time this woman sucked my dick the whole first half. Nothing is sexier that watching a game, drinking a beer, eating pizza with my dick in a woman's mouth. All my needs being met (sigh).
My first inclination is to say a woman who knows to STFU when I am watching a game. But after deeper thought what really turns me on is her wearing a ball gag and fetching me another beer and slice of pizza while wearing just an apron.
Except one time this woman sucked my dick the whole first half. Nothing is sexier that watching a game, drinking a beer, eating pizza with my dick in a woman's mouth. All my needs being met (sigh).
LordByron78
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No one ever believes me when I say "books".
Agreed
NevaehLynn
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There are so many to list...Anything forceful (being raped, face fucked, bitten, forcefully shared), anal play, spanking, and gangbang/groupsex to name a few.
While I'm not a pain slut I do sometimes enjoy the extreme red bordering on light bruising a whipping or hard spanking can give, I love to look at it later and imagine it all over again. But it's the discipline that makes my pussy ache just as much as the spanking itself. Any discipline immediately makes me blush in humiliation and my pussy clench as is slowly gets wet.
Then there's my dirty little fantasy...I really would like to fuck a girl with a strapon while my sir fucks me in the ass, pulling my head back in an arch by my hair and biting me to leave his mark. Mmmmm...
While I'm not a pain slut I do sometimes enjoy the extreme red bordering on light bruising a whipping or hard spanking can give, I love to look at it later and imagine it all over again. But it's the discipline that makes my pussy ache just as much as the spanking itself. Any discipline immediately makes me blush in humiliation and my pussy clench as is slowly gets wet.
Then there's my dirty little fantasy...I really would like to fuck a girl with a strapon while my sir fucks me in the ass, pulling my head back in an arch by my hair and biting me to leave his mark. Mmmmm...
