What you REALLY want to know about WHOM

[Angel]

HSWriter: You are correct, this is not what I had hoped this thread would accomplish.

Nicole & Nobody Special: I apologize for this thread opening up old wounds. I did not mean for that to happen.

jcgirl and Angel: What are you two hungry for?

Dark naked males for my own personal amusement?

 

[Nicole]

Xander you have mail, and you know I no longer have ICQ I've mentioned it here enough times.

Look this is enough, I'll leave if you all want me too. Make it easier.

 

[jcgirl]

I hear you on that one. And I'm glad for you. As far as online friends I have one here as well. Who I trust completely. As far as A lot of other people that I've interacted with here. well they are no longer Online Friends. They are RL friends. Kinda happens when you meet them you know. [/B]

Xan, you sound downtrodden. im sorry. But some of us make great friends, if you take the time to look up our email addys or Im names.

 

[Angel]

Xander you have mail, and you know I no longer have ICQ I've mentioned it here enough times.

Look this is enough, I'll leave if you all want me too. Make it easier.

Hey don't do that! I'd miss your posts!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Nobody Special]

You know what it says to me?

It says that theese are two people that I have choosen to be in my life and trust and respect, something they give back to me Eric.

I also named Chuckus and Andy, but you keep bringing up Havoc and Rosebud ... WHY? Do you have a problem that I've trusted two people for 10 months now? I wasn't aiming the question at you personally, I was saying that not everyone enjoys IM's, I for one don't anymore, that is MY choice.

Just don't twist my words to suit you, please.

It has nothing to do with Ravenloft, Eric, it has to do with ME, and putting me first for the first time in my life. I knew that's what you were thinking when I said Havoc and Rosebud, but it has nothing to do with my friendship/relationship with Ravenloft.

I'm done with this crap, if you really wanted to talk to me you would have emailed me and at least asked why I didn't talk to you anymore, I would have told you.

You know Nicole I have sent you numorous letters with out a responce from you in the last 6 months, yet you say to E-mail you now. As I recall I didn't bring up Havocman and Rosebud, YOU DID.... I havn't said anything or critisised you on your relationship, I'm happy that you are happy and taking control of your life, I'm doing the same thing here, with the limited oprotunities offered to me at the moment.. and Yes it was about the time that you dumped Jason that you stopped talking to me.. stopped being on, stopped answering your E-MAIL being Invisible on Lit and ICQ and not getting on AIM..

SO, Nicole, What am I to think?? you drop off the face of the communication plane, at least to me, and then blame me for not sending you mail, wich I did, that didn't get a responce to..

Yea that sounds sounds like I'm bringing up Havoc and Rosebud for you not wanting to talk to me.. yea that really makes a lot of sence... Wake up Nicole............
Read the posts the way I write them not the way you think I write them..
E

 

[Xander]

I hear you on that one. And I'm glad for you. As far as online friends I have one here as well. Who I trust completely. As far as A lot of other people that I've interacted with here. well they are no longer Online Friends. They are RL friends. Kinda happens when you meet them you know.

Xan, you sound downtrodden. im sorry. But some of us make great friends, if you take the time to look up our email addys or Im names. [/B]

No I'm not JC, and I do look up addys and IM names and ICQ numbers. I do not believe I've ever spoken to you though. But I do. And I know you all make great friends, but that dont mean I would trust my life to you, if you know what I mean. That has to be earned.

 

[Nicole]

Enough is enough. I didn't get any mail from you Eric, sorry but I didn't.

Xander my computer was gone for like three weeks, I didn't let anyone know.

I'm not going to be jummped all over for something taken the wrong way.

Take Care.

 

[*Jennifer-In-Flares*]

i thought this was going to be a happy topic and its turned really sad. i've got a lump in my throat. i dont know who all you people are or how you got so hurt by each other by i hope you dont stop believing in people. i know what you mean about not trusting people 200% xander. ive been hurt by friends in the past and i wanted to shut myself away and not trust ANYONE but you can't live your life lioke that. you just gotta accept that people have things going on in their lifes nobody special. sometimes its not easy to be a 200% friend to everybody all of the time. that why i stopped icq and email relationships cause my life got busy and people got pissed at me when i didnt always write back. so i can understand you nicole and i hope you dont go away cause of this topic. sorry for taking over the topic like this but it made me think about my own life. i hope it works out for everyone. *jenny*

 

[jcgirl]

So how do you warrant a chance to earn it around here?

 

[TonyG]

jcgirl

Do you mean 'earning' friendship?

 

[Xander]

So how do you warrant a chance to earn it around here?

That's easy. Be truthful and dont lie. Dont pull a cloak and dagger stunt on me.
And if push comes to shove and you do have a problem with me. Say so to my face.
I will always return the favour. I'm not much for beating around the bush. I'll tell you straight up what I feel, and think. And I will always be honest with you.

 

[teresafannin]

There are several people here that I have trusted with my real name. I hope there will be more in the future, but because of certain circumstances, I have to be careful.I hope that people trust me, I would never betray a confidence. I very rarely get involved in the popularity lists, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, I come here to escape from RL & its stresses. If I don't feel comfortable with someone, I don't read their threads. I have ICQ & I will talk to just about anyone, it is under another name but my ICQ number is listed in my profile. I still have problems with it booting me, one of these days, I'll figure out how to reinstall it. I think the way to earn someone's trust is to be honest, as difficult as that may be sometimes, it is the best way.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I just want to know about Xander, Ravenloft, and balls...

 

[HSWriter]

I think that we all have a lot in common just by being here... so couldn't we consider each other as friends.. I think that it doesn't get ugly until people get into each other's real lives...

 

[Naked Hunny]

Well Muff if you must know whilei was on the phone with Ravenloft, Xander was playing with his balls!!

 

[Havocman]

Nobody Special...Although I find my name being tossed back and forth on this thread a bit more than usual, I won't say anything about this here other than...You have mail.

Xander...I...well I just don't know what to say to you *shaking head*...other than have NS let you look at that letter too.

Havoc

 

[Chuckus]

So how do you warrant a chance to earn it around here?

Am sure we can think of a few ways....

Wow this thread turned to mud pie quickly didn't it?

There are so many people I would like to get to know better and things I would like to know.........to name names would be difficult but I guess anyone that is here and I have conversed with at any point in a thread or responded to in essence. There are so many, it is hard to name names and that is really not what this BB is all about, if you want to know more about someone, take a chance and drop them an email you never know, they might just respond. I am pretty open minded and as long as anyone knows that I don't always have the time right then and there to respond to an email, I am open enough and willing enough, but to really get to know me, it takes time. I am limited with time to respond due to my workload and things going in my life (and a direct correlation can be construed therein as to why I have not been around the BB lately alot) and in the very least IF I am not interested or simply don't have the time, I will respond in kind quickly and say I don't have time for a lengthy reply,etc....... Good day and I hope somewhere this thread gets better like the intention of the thread originally.

 

[Xander]

i thought this was going to be a happy topic and its turned really sad. i've got a lump in my throat. i dont know who all you people are or how you got so hurt by each other by i hope you dont stop believing in people. i know what you mean about not trusting people 200% xander. ive been hurt by friends in the past and i wanted to shut myself away and not trust ANYONE but you can't live your life lioke that.

Well Jennifer. I can only speak for myself. No I have not lost faith in people. But because of circumstances I dont care to get into. I find it hard to hand over any degree of trust to anyone online. As I mentioned before. It has to be earned and. So far only a few have done so. After the incident. And I dont need more than five fingers to count them.
Only one of them has my 200% trust.
As far as living my life not trusting anyone. Well I dont. But it does take a long time for me to give the trust. A VERY long time.

 

[Ravenloft]

I just want to know about Xander, Ravenloft, and balls...

Okay then... He spun them around in a circle and made them chime... He wouldn't put them in his mouth though... I guess some guys just have to draw the line somewhere... *Sigh*

 

[Xander]

Xander...I...well I just don't know what to say to you *shaking head*...other than have NS let you look at that letter too.

Havoc [/B]

Havoc. not much to be said I guess. But I have seen the letter you send to NS, and I do hear you there. But it still hurts me, when someone who I really do see as a very good friend disappears without as much as a note. And furthermore dont respond to emails.
Then I honestly dont know what to think. I after all, do not have any damn clue about where I stand. Or if I've done or said anything that has caused her not to speak to me.
I still believe it is common courtisy to at least say goodbye, or/and respond to emails, or a simple "Fuck You" would do, if that's what is needed.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Oh THOSE balls. I have a pair of them myself, very relaxing to play with. Ringle dingle chime chime.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

I just want to know about Xander, Ravenloft, and balls...

Okay then... He spun them around in a circle and made them chime... He wouldn't put them in his mouth though... I guess some guys just have to draw the line somewhere... *Sigh*

Your just jealous because I can play with Xander and THe Hubbys BALLS

THE WIFE

P.S. *RAVENLOFT* Xander needs another beer ,I'm gettin him all warmed up

 

[Comshaw]

Hey ya'll. Yea over here in the corner! Can I play?
First does it always degenerate this way?
Now as I take it the point of this whole thread was:



"Post the name(s) of the person(s) you want to hear from and what you want to know about them. Maybe they will post an answer here or maybe they will email you (indicate if you will accept). Good luck and don't be shy."

Being aN FNG I'm slightly hesitant to jump into this, but here goes. I want to know what K. Muffin looks like. To put a face to that voice I hear in her posts. Care to elighten me K.M.?

Comshaw

 

[KillerMuffin]

bulld has my profile link posted on some thread of his, dun remember which one. Something with spit in it. *sigh* I'm forever linked with spit.