What's Right with You?

[Homburg]

don't make me spank you.

There are LOTS of good things about you...

I agree. vffan is top drawer. Really top drawer.

*chewing on his pipestem*

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

I'm very intelligent and and can speak to many different people on many different levels.

I'm crafty, have a sense of humor and live life to the fullest of my ability.

I have great perseverance.

I don't let anything keep me down or hold me back from achieving my goals and dreams.

I am very good at giving people my all and my support.

There's nothing I wouldn't do for someone in true need.

I'm one helluva friend.

I dropped 4 sizes in 2005 and have kept them off, giving myself my own confidence.

I'm an excellent writer, allowing people to both see and feel my experiences.

I am a true submissive.

 

[Exogenous]

I have a great smile, a nice laugh, and a sexy voice.

I’m very good at teaching.

I am a fantastic cook.

I’m a giver and a nurturer.

I am passionate.

I am a great listener.

I am slow to trust, but once I do, I’m very loyal.

 

[WriterDom]

never mind

 

[LittleJade]

More things I like about me:

I'm a great cook. Like, great. Daughter of a chef, surrounded by friends who can cook... yeah, I kick ass in the kitchen.

I have a fabulous voice. Exogenous' post reminded me of that.

I'm motivated. I know what I want, and I'm working towards it.

I'm resilient.

I am passionate... when I'm happy, I'm extremely happy, when I'm sad, it breaks your heart.. when I'm angry, watch the fuck out (though I get angry about twice per year), etc. I've been told more than once, that my passion for life is exhausting.

I am beautiful. I have great eyes, and a lovely mouth. It took a LONG time for me to believe I was pretty... but now I do.

I am loved by some amazingly wonderful people... and that speaks volumes about them- because I am very difficult to love... but it speaks volumes about me, because they deem me worthy of their love.

 

[LittleJade]

I think it's somewhat sad that the 'what's wrong with you' thread has more posts than this one...

I suspected it would, but I had hoped it wouldn't.

Come on, people, practice some self-affirmation!

 

[rida]

I am sexy, I am passionate, and when I give ... I do it with all my soul

I am witty, I am smart, and when I take on a task I will get it done at the best of my skills

I am emphatic, I forgive easily and I tend to see the good/beauty in everybody

I am a very good reader of characters, I can talk with everybody and I take my promises very seriously

 

[nexis95]

Ok....
I am a good kisser and lover
I am smart
I am very tall, and im told i am very good looking
I give great back rubs!
I can get along with almost everyone
I am funny in a dry and witty way
I am still pretty athletic, decently built still.
I have great friends and even greater family.

 

[FurryFury]

I think it's somewhat sad that the 'what's wrong with you' thread has more posts than this one...

I suspected it would, but I had hoped it wouldn't.

Come on, people, practice some self-affirmation!

Actually, I think it's much better to be humble and aware of your flaws (leaving your room for improvement) than tooting your own horn like an arrogant ass. I mean if you have to pick between the two. We don't have to pick though. We can do both! Yay!

 

[Homburg]

Actually, I think it's much better to be humble and aware of your flaws (leaving your room for improvement) than tooting your own horn like an arrogant ass. I mean if you have to pick between the two. We don't have to pick though. We can do both! Yay!

D'oh! Thank you for reminding me. I did forget to add one thing that's right about me.

I'm an arrogant ass

 

[FurryFury]

D'oh! Thank you for reminding me. I did forget to add one thing that's right about me.

I'm an arrogant ass

*chuckles*

I see!

*sings*

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
when you're perfect in every way.

I can't wait to look in the mirror
cause I get better looking each day.

To know me is to love me
I must be a hell of a man.

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
but I'm doing the best that I can.

I used to have a girlfriend
but she just couldn't compete
with all of these love starved women
who keep clamoring at my feet.

Well I prob'ly could find me another
but I guess they're all in awe of me.
Who cares, I never get lonesome
cause I treasure my own company.

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
when you're perfect in every way,
I can't wait to look in the mirror
cause I get better looking each day
To know me is to love me
I must be a hell of a man.
Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
but I'm doing the best that I can.

I guess you could say I'm a loner,
a cowboy outlaw tough and proud.
I could have lots of friends if I want to
but then I wouldn't stand out from the crowd.
Some folks say that I'm egotistical.
Hell, I don't even know what that means.
I guess it has something to do with the way that I
fill out my skin tight blue jeans.

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
when you're perfect in every way,
I can't wait to look in the mirror
cause I get better looking each day
To know me is to love me
I must be a hell of a man.

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
but I'm doing the best that I can.
We're doing the best that we can

 

[Homburg]

I could make a comment here, but I've already admitted to being an arrogant ass. No need to beat the dead horse more.

 

[Mazuri]

What's right with me?

I have taken charge of my depression instead of letting it take charge of me...I have started therapy and it feels good.

I have a wonderful relationship with my 16 yr old daughter that is full of love and trust and openness.

I have started eating healthier and have lost weight and am proud of that.

I am valued at my job, which I do well, and have had to turn down two offers of promotion because I feel I need to work more on #1 above first.

I am starting to like me...and that makes me happy.

 

[rida]

......

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
when you're perfect in every way.

I can't wait to look in the mirror
cause I get better looking each day.

Oh Lord it's hard to be humble
but I'm doing the best that I can.

.....

Some folks say that I'm egotistical.
Hell, I don't even know what that means.
I guess it has something to do with the way that I
fill out my skin tight blue jeans.

........

LOVE IT!

the snipplets above ... that's me! LOL

" I am not ego-centric ... that is too vague: I am Rida-centric "
... to the point of self-quoting ...

 

[HottieMama]

I am loved by some amazingly wonderful people... and that speaks volumes about them- because I am very difficult to love... but it speaks volumes about me, because they deem me worthy of their love.

LittleJade..Thank you for posting this. You just helped me come to this realization.

 

[LittleJade]

Actually, I think it's much better to be humble and aware of your flaws (leaving your room for improvement) than tooting your own horn like an arrogant ass. I mean if you have to pick between the two. We don't have to pick though. We can do both! Yay!

I don't think it's arrogant to state what's great about yourself... I think it's perfectly healthy to know what you're good at.

I think it's terribly unhealthy to focus on the negatives, as well.

 

[vffan]

Ooooo! I finally thought of something I'm good at!!!!


Being self-depreciating

 

[FurryFury]

I don't think it's arrogant to state what's great about yourself... I think it's perfectly healthy to know what you're good at.

I think it's terribly unhealthy to focus on the negatives, as well.

Little Jade, I don't think it's necessarily arrogant to acknowledge good things about yourself. That was said sort of tongue in check. although I do HATE arrogance.

You were thinking it was a bad thing that more posts were in the what is wrong with them thread. What I was saying was that I don't think it's bad when people are more readily able to say what is bad about themselves than what is good. To me it means they are probably more humble and more willing to work at improving themselves.

I think it is hard for most people to say what is good about themselves. Perhaps we need more work on that. I know one of the toughest tasks I ever got was to write, I think it was 50 things that were good about me. I couldn't compete it.

Those that do who find it easy to say what they think is good about themselves, great! That's very healthy I guess.

I mean as long as they aren't living in denial, trying to make up for low self esteem with bull shit, or little punks that need to be knocked down a few pegs. (I've know a LOT of those sorts. It's a big red button for me. Not a good red button either.)

In essence, I think it's great the other thread has the most posts. I'm not looking at the fact that it does, in a negative way. That's all I was trying to say.

I've participated in both btw.

 

[FurryFury]

Ooooo! I finally thought of something I'm good at!!!!


Being self-depreciating

*chuckles and applauds*

That's awesome!

 

[Homburg]

Ooooo! I finally thought of something I'm good at!!!!


Being self-depreciating

*facepalm*

 

[TheBlackDahlia]

Other things I wanted to put down:

I'm sympathetic

I'm a strong person

I'm independent and deep-thinking

I have an ability to read others

I'm very good with children

Though I don't say a lot, I'll always listen when you need to vent