When is it time for Nice Guys?

[Denae]

I would like to think that I'm a nice guy and I think that the woman that I meet around here respect me for that.

This is one vote in your corner ME.

 

[krazeekat]

My advice, shadow, is to quit thinking about it so much. You can worry about it constantly, which is a turn off (woman like a man with confidence in himself or so it usually seems) and exist in a state of misery because you can't find that special someone. Or, you can live your life and enjoy those things which bring you pleasure, and let what is going to happen, happen.

That's not saying you shouldn't go out and try to meet people, but quit thinking with your cock. Go out to meet people and have fun. If you find someone you like, both personality and otherwise, take interest in them. If something builds from that, run with it. Some women don't want to just drop em and get frisky. To many its something to only be shared with a person they are sure of and desire to be with for a long time.

Also, while online is another way to meet people, its just one way, and may not be the best way for you. You like anime... are there any events or places where people who show the same interests go? What books do you like? Pay attention to other people around you who seem to like the same titles. Keep your eye out for opportunities to meet people who share your interests.

And take all this with a grain of salt, becauseI consider myself a nice guy, and I haven't found my special someone yet, either. But I have made several friends who I treasure, and enjoy the company of. Hell, two of which I've helped set up with their current boyfriends, which is odd yet funny, and I take pleasure in their happiness.

*applause* *applause*

Bloody good post and right on the button.

 

[Shadowbender55]

Damn straight - on both.

Still, this is always a good question that I pose to the women in my class, whenever they go on this rant or tangent that men are shallow. I ask them:

"Okay, if men are shallow, then let me ask you this - does size matter?"

The room goes dead quiet.

Then I say, "Now let's see who the shallow one is."

Though recently I've started to think that maybe it's not penis size that women like, it's bank account size.

 

[mischevious eye]

This is one vote in your corner ME.

Thank you

 

[mischevious eye]

Damn straight - on both.

no it's a little curved. LOL

 

[spiritshadow67]

Still, this is always a good question that I pose to the women in my class, whenever they go on this rant or tangent that men are shallow. I ask them:

"Okay, if men are shallow, then let me ask you this - does size matter?"

The room goes dead quiet.

Then I say, "Now let's see who the shallow one is."

Though recently I've started to think that maybe it's not penis size that women like, it's bank account size.

okkk.... some men are shallow... but then there are women who are just as shallow or than can be 10x's worse.....

If you ask me if size matters... I'll answer no.... and in regards to the bank account.. honey... I'd rather be poor and well loved than have all the money in the world... and a cold bed room...

Money can not buy happiness nor can it buy love... I know this and speak of it first hand......

 

[mischevious eye]

okkk.... some men are shallow... but then there are women who are just as shallow or than can be 10x's worse.....

If you ask me if size matters... I'll answer no.... and in regards to the bank account.. honey... I'd rather be poor and well loved than have all the money in the world... and a cold <a style='text-decoration: none; border-bottom: 3px double;' href="http://www.serverlogic3.com/lm/rtl3.asp?si=22&k=bed%20room" onmouseover="window.status='bed room'; return true;" onmouseout="window.status=''; return true;">bed room</a>...

Money can not buy happiness nor can it buy love... I know this and speak of it first hand......

You can marry for love or money but not both.

 

[Shadowbender55]

okkk.... some men are shallow... but then there are women who are just as shallow or than can be 10x's worse.....

If you ask me if size matters... I'll answer no.... and in regards to the bank account.. honey... I'd rather be poor and well loved than have all the money in the world... and a cold bed room...

Money can not buy happiness nor can it buy love... I know this and speak of it first hand......

That may be true, though I"d like to think that money may not buy you happiness but you can sure choose your own misery. Hehehhee.

 

[Shadowbender55]

You can marry for love or money but not both.

Then again, in a culture where we want it all, who says that it's not possible to have it all. For me, I'd like to be in love and have a great sex life. Unfortunately I don't think that's possible, at least in the dating pool that I'm in. Since as I've mentioned, most of the women in East Idaho (where I live) are married and already have children.

 

[spiritshadow67]

You can marry for love or money but not both.

very true... and i would choose love over money....

 

[Cathleen]

no it's a little curved. LOL

This time I'll just say DAMN!

 

[krazeekat]

Still, this is always a good question that I pose to the women in my class, whenever they go on this rant or tangent that men are shallow. I ask them:

"Okay, if men are shallow, then let me ask you this - does size matter?"

The room goes dead quiet.

Then I say, "Now let's see who the shallow one is."

Though recently I've started to think that maybe it's not penis size that women like, it's bank account size.

Dude, you rant about nice guys finishing lasts and yet you alienate yourself by giving us mixed signals. Throwing lines like "now let's see who the shallow one is" is not going to win you any brownie points. You come across as antagonistic towards women and not a fun guy to be with.

I think you really need to read tastylover's post and ponder on it for a bit.

 

[mischevious eye]

This time I'll just say DAMN!

Impressed? LOL

 

[Cathleen]

Still, this is always a good question that I pose to the women in my class, whenever they go on this rant or tangent that men are shallow. I ask them:

"Okay, if men are shallow, then let me ask you this - does size matter?"

The room goes dead quiet.

Then I say, "Now let's see who the shallow one is."

Though recently I've started to think that maybe it's not penis size that women like, it's bank account size.

Size does not matter!!!!!!!!!!

Does the size of a woman's breasts, or body matter to you? Does the size of her bank account matter?

The issues isn't about men and women - it's about people.

 

[Denae]

Though recently I've started to think that maybe it's not penis size that women like, it's bank account size.

I really hope that you don't believe that is true. Then again, I know there are too many shallow women that do look for what is in the wallet.

 

[Cathleen]

Impressed? LOL

Umm, let's say I'll take the 5th.

 

[mischevious eye]

Size does not matter!!!!!!!!!!

Does the size of a woman's breasts, or body matter to you? Does the size of her bank account matter?

The issues isn't about men and women - it's about people.

I look for the spirit behind the eyes, or the way she smiles.

 

[mischevious eye]

Umm, let's say I'll take the 5th.

After you finish it we could get in trouble. LOL

 

[Klitz]

Money can not buy happiness nor can it buy love

"Money can't buy a sunset Dogbert".
"No, but I can license the digital rights".
-Scott Adams (Dilbert)

 

[spiritshadow67]

"Money can't buy a sunset Dogbert".
"No, but I can license the digital rights".
-Scott Adams (Dilbert)

*ggls* just got to love Dogbert lol

 

[tastylover]

"You can marry for love or money, not both..."

...kind of a true, not true kind of statement. They are different goals, but they don't necessarily exclude each other. You can marry for love and find success (especially with the support of your lover for when you are down). You can marry for money and find you share a lot in the way of interests and enjoyment (though this is more a matter of luck I'd guess =P ).

Basically, I hate absolute statements. =P

 

[RomanceNvelSlut]

Its time for the good guys, when they get they become more assertive, and not so shy. Ive always found it hard to stay in a relationship if they guy isnt assertive. Of course thats probly because im submissive and need somone that doesnt need my help agging them on.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Its time for the good guys, when they get they become more assertive, and not so shy. Ive always found it hard to stay in a relationship if they guy isnt assertive. Of course thats probly because im submissive and need somone that doesnt need my help agging them on.

I think that sometimes, nice guys just need a little hint how far they can go. Sometimes, the reason they don't move forward is just because they are concerned that if they try something assertive, they will screw up what they have and it will cause more problems.

 

[Shadowbender55]

I think that sometimes, nice guys just need a little hint how far they can go. Sometimes, the reason they don't move forward is just because they are concerned that if they try something assertive, they will screw up what they have and it will cause more problems.

I have to agree with that, coming from a genuine nice guy. I've done that several times and I've been told "no" so many times that I don't even wanna think about the number. Which does go a little hand-in-hand with what I was saying about "bad boys", since they're mroe assertive, women are more attracted to them. Then again, why is it always up to us guys to make the first move? I thought women were more independant in this day in age, shoudln't they make the first move to come to us?

 

[sinnamongyrl]

i would LOVE to meet a nice guy,,,but where the hell so I look?