When were you deflowered?

[QuietHurricane]

hmmm....

I think I take the cake.

::hiding face:: 26.

But it was perfect, it was wonderful, and I wouldn't change a thing. Plus, doing 'everything but' for a few years made it a that much fuller experience!

 

[chromefreak]

I was 17, She was 21.

Nothing to write home about...missionary position only, no oral whatsoever. She'd let me caress her clit, but wouldn't touch my dick, for that matter, she didn't even want to watch me touch it. I was FINALLY having sex and there were all these cool things I'd been wanting to try, but she shot down every one of them. Oh well.

 

[chromefreak]

OMG! That av is just........OMG!!

LMFAO! Your Sig Line KILLS me, StrawberryPez!

 

[liloleme]

17 years old. He was 22.

Date raped.

Wish I was still a virgin for my current b/f. The one I will marry.

But must say my experience has served me well. I've never given a blow job that has left a guy saying anything less than "WOW!"

 

[susan__32]

intersting

I was yonger than I should have been.. and too young to talk about on lit. I will say the 'lucky' guy was a friend of the family, home from college for the summer. The even occured on the deck by his family's pool in the early evening. It was neither awful, nor wonderful, but it was good enough that it continued to happen over the summer.

--susan

 

[Dr. B Evil]

...I was...

...23...and no, I wasn't the guy Susan was talking about.

 

[MeToo2]

Re: intersting

I was yonger than I should have been.. and too young to talk about on lit. I will say the 'lucky' guy was a friend of the family, home from college for the summer. The even occured on the deck by his family's pool in the early evening. It was neither awful, nor wonderful, but it was good enough that it continued to happen over the summer.

--susan

wooow. .. judging by the change in vote .... it must have been the last category

Early bird so to speak

 

[susan__32]

no.. not the youngest.. in the middle of the ages listed

as I said, too young to talk about here.. Im actually suprised Lit has let this thread stay up

oh well

 

[SexyWench]

He was 17 and I was 15. I chose him to be the one, he was experienced and I knew there was a chemistry between us. Unlike a lot of first times, it is still a great memory ... he was gentle and a great teacher. The memories of being satisfied both orally and physically have lasted all these years ....


SW

 

[just pet]

17


Wasn't by choice
He was 28
He married my sister, though she never knew until recently
I written about it here at Lit
Took me until this year to finally release it and early molestation. Found a miracle in the Landmark Forun
I am enjoying sex as never before. I actually feel worthy enough. I have an incredible lover/best friend who is journeying with me through my sexual re-discovery, the one without guilt, the one with a recently discovered "G" spot. I have been able to explore and talk about my submissiveness, fetishes and fantasies. We have looked at why rape re-enactment scenes are so compelling for me. We realized I love the release of being a fully consenting adult.
In my acupuncture practice, I deal with many adult survivors of molestation, abuse and rape. I am thankful now for the experiences. They made me who I am and I am able to truly help others. It seems a simple realization, but I was blaming my "perps" for all my problems. Landmark helped me to understand that I create my life. I can create possibilities for my life, create my future. Life is very, very good.


Oh, how I do carry on...

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Acupuncturist...

...I should have known.

 

[susan__32]

Pet

that is a very touching story..

thank you for sharing

and I wish you all the best on your rediscovery

--Susan

 

[just pet]

Re: Acupuncturist...

...I should have known.

Striving for a life in balance

 

[just pet]

Pet

that is a very touching story..

thank you for sharing

and I wish you all the best on your rediscovery

--Susan

Thank you Susan
That means so much to me

By the way, love the pic of you trying to cover up

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Balance...

Strewn amid life's windstorms comes venerable beauty for eternal eyes to grace.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Now on to my poll. When were you deflowered???????

19 i'm 23 now, i t wasnt no big thing to me, was thinking about what i had to do later that day, ,I wish IA was my first though

 

[jen72]

I was 20. It was right for me and I was sure he loved me.

 

[benciti19]

I was 19 SHE was 32. Do the math. LOL, we ended up dating for around 7 months. She taught me a lot. 24 now.

 

[just pet]

I was 20. It was right for me and I was sure he loved me.

I'm happy to hear that

 

[svenmn]

18 and been with her ever since. going on 20 years together

 

[just pet]

18 and been with her ever since. going on 20 years together

That's divine

 

[svenmn]

That's divine

Holding till the end but look out when that day comes

 

[just pet]

Holding till the end but look out when that day comes

I suspect there will many to calm that savage breast when you are ready

 

[thirstquencher]

How Old?

I was late 17. I have no idea how she was. She was so terrible I am surprised that I like sex. There was only one time with her but after that it opened up a whole new world.

 

[jen72]

Thrist Quencher, that is why I waited.
I didn't want to loss my virginity like that, on a one night stand.
Love was a very important, so is having a partner that will allow you to relax and find your own way. I also a man that was older, therefore wasn't an over excited teenager that just wanted a leg over.
I am sure your first got better, sex is a big learning curve.

Don't get me wrong just because I equate love with Sex, it does not mean that I am critical of those that do like one night stands. I sometimes envy the freedom but I have a latex allergy which makes that impossible for me. I have only had two lovers, one man and one woman. The man was my first.

I love sex, I love the sexual body and erotic art. I am always exploring things, I am bi sexual, I love women mostly and some men too.
I like this forum because I feel free here.