Islander55
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I have limited experience with black men but I do find they tend to be more confident that the woman wants to be fucked by them. Probably a simple cultural thing. When they get with a white woman, they are fairly sure she wants to try a black cock. At least that is what one black man told me and it makes sense to me.I think that most interracial dynamics are driven by culture, history and society more so than any actual biological or genetic differences. Those differences exist but I don't think they are as large as some might think and I don't think that they really affect our behaviour all that much. What black men have told me is that what they like about me and white women in general is a willingness to go with the flow. Some refer to it as submissiveness, but I don't see it that way. I don't let any men dominate me. I just don't feel the need to have something to say about everything or assert myself for the sake of proving that I can do so. I have no issue with asserting myself if I felt disrespected, but I don't start from that point. Does that come from how a perceive my place in society and western culture? Yes I think that it probably does. To the extent that some women of other races or societal status feel the need to assert themselves - and therefore fight the flow for the sake of demonstrating that they can - I expect that is largely a by-product of their lived experiences.
To the extent that the societal taboo of interracial sex makes it feel more primal I don't see anything wrong with that. Kind of like fucking a bad boy or someone of a certain status adds an element of danger or taboo which can make the experience more exciting. But there is a point at which it can drift into something more bigoted, which is unfortunate. Honestly, I have rarely seen any of that coming from the black men that I have been with, but I have seen some unhealthy attitudes towards black men - or rather white men vis-a-vis black men - from white women.