Who gets a one night stand?

[FurryFury]

I guess I've never actually had a one night stand, it always turns into more. Men stick to me like Velcro, or those little thistle burr things, oh yeah, beggar lice is what we called em.

I have slept with two guys right off. One on a first date. One I just called and asked if he wanted to come over and have sex, no promises, no commitments, just, let's hit it, right now.

'Nother guy, can't remember his name or face, not sure how soon I hit it with him but it had to be really quick, I do remember some of the sex though. *grins* He wanted to get married too. I didn't want to. I never wanted to get married. *grr*

Fury

 

[landcruisergal]

The moments I am talking about are not a favor. Its sort of like true love, except all in your crotch. You know you want that woman, no other woman will do, and you will have her. No female is strong enough to resist that kind of raw chi being poured in her direction. It's like hunting deer with a bazooka.

Thats a different kind of energy, its a sexual, almost paplable magnetic pull.
Thats up there with an orgasm IMHO. It sends shivers and thrills down your spine. A look or a touch from someone who evokes that reaction is electric and inescapable.
Rational thought flies out the window.If you turn and they have gone ,you feel drained and aimless...*sigh*

 

[ammre]

No female is strong enough to resist that kind of raw chi being poured in her direction. It's like hunting deer with a bazooka.

hahahahaha

if anyone ever used "raw chi" on me i'd probably laugh at them... a lot.
I'll flirt shamefully with guys who are really trying with that lustful desire going on, but at the end of the night.. it dosen't woo me at all. It's a fun fantasy, being taken and seduced, having estatic pleasure and all that jazz...
But when you don't orgasm form others and your a pessimist about sex, you kinda smirk at fantasies and go for the safe fun ones...

yeah, i'm all about breaking gender boundries...

although a guy in a doublet does score some points, but i'd still need to know them first before i let their peepee near me.

 

[Killishandra]

I went to my one-hour weapons class, my one-hour JKD class, and then went to the gym for 45 minutes tonight. woohoo!

I love how my huge 3-story gym is empty at this time of night (midnight to 1AM-ish, the normal time I go) EXCEPT for alot of really big muscley types. You know, the kind of bulls that are actually at the gym pumping iron this late. (Like, when DO they sleep? Do they all work nights like me? It's Tuesday for godsakes! And there were over a dozen of them just on my the floor I was on!)

Hmph. If I really desired a ONS, it dawned on me tonight that I could probably get one there. I'd just have to go up to them one by one until I got some interest... "Excuse me... oh my god, I just know you're going to think this is the silliest question EVER, but.. Could you show me how to use this machine? I think I'm doing it wrong and I'm scared of hurting myself... Wow, thanks SO much! "



*Vomit* I refuse to play dumb.. even in the interest of getting laid.

 

[Pelagie]

I don't really have ONS. The one time I did it was with a guy who had I been sober probably would never have even talked to. So I guess my criterion for a ONS is alcohol and a willingness to act stupid. The other person is just a variable.

 

[Killishandra]

I don't really have ONS. The one time I did it was with a guy who had I been sober probably would never have even talked to. So I guess my criterion for a ONS is alcohol and a willingness to act stupid. The other person is just a variable.

LOL!! I think that was succinctly said, Pelagie. That is probably the criterion more often than people like to admit.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I've had all of one one night stand... we knew each other long before we fucked, and were friends for some time after. Not sure that counts.

 

[jasonlf]

I went to my one-hour weapons class, my one-hour JKD class, and then went to the gym for 45 minutes tonight. woohoo!

I love how my huge 3-story gym is empty at this time of night (midnight to 1AM-ish, the normal time I go) EXCEPT for alot of really big muscley types. You know, the kind of bulls that are actually at the gym pumping iron this late. (Like, when DO they sleep? Do they all work nights like me? It's Tuesday for godsakes! And there were over a dozen of them just on my the floor I was on!)

Hmph. If I really desired a ONS, it dawned on me tonight that I could probably get one there. I'd just have to go up to them one by one until I got some interest... "Excuse me... oh my god, I just know you're going to think this is the silliest question EVER, but.. Could you show me how to use this machine? I think I'm doing it wrong and I'm scared of hurting myself... Wow, thanks SO much! "



*Vomit* I refuse to play dumb.. even in the interest of getting laid.

Who said you have to play dumb.

Take this:

Killi: Hi there, Mr. Bigman, would you like to have sex?

Bigman: Yes, I would. My place or yours?

 

[Killishandra]

Who said you have to play dumb.

Take this:

Killi: Hi there, Mr. Bigman, would you like to have sex?

Bigman: Yes, I would. My place or yours?

ROFL!!

Oh my gawd... hey, do you think I should actually refer to him (whoever "him" is) as "Mr. Bigman"?

Anyway, I'm off to bed. see you guys tomorrow!

 

[kerker_miester]

lucky people

*smiling*
I have only had one offer for a one night stand some 20 years ago about two months after I got married lol guess what she was drunk. Stupid me turned her down wish I knew then what I know now about my ex. Any way I am usually the guy that can't get a ONS offer even if they are drunk. I am not sure but one woman once told me "your the kind of guy I can take my clothes off in front of and feel you wont try anything" and she did by the way and again stupid me. Oh well such is youth she wont want to try that right now though.

 

[Netzach]

Quite sexist of you to say that, if I do say so.

I know there are tons of females who view casual sex the same way you do. Anyway, I think even you, sleeping with a vanilla or dominant girl for a significant length of time, would start to develop some sort of emotional attachment even if it were slight. *shrug* Just IMO, of course.

Anyway, I develop feelings and attachments rather easily. I take even casual friendships more serious than most people do, and emphasize with others easily. Sometimes t'is a blessing... sometimes a curse. Doesn't mean I'm not a bitch at times, but I save that side for people who really deserve it. I could definitely see myself getting attached to another 'nilla boy, only to have to break his heart when I told him there's no future for us. Why would I want to put myself in that position?

But I'm meeting a male switch from collarme for dinner tonight. Who knows? Maybe he will actually be the Dom or sidekick subbie of my dreams.

For now, I am grabbing my Kali sticks and going to beat up some big muscely boys in class.

I am an emphatic proponant of switch/switch fuckbuddy relationships as rebounds. Simply having things up in the air can be...unpredictable and fun.

 

[Netzach]

hahahahaha

if anyone ever used "raw chi" on me i'd probably laugh at them... a lot.
I'll flirt shamefully with guys who are really trying with that lustful desire going on, but at the end of the night.. it dosen't woo me at all. It's a fun fantasy, being taken and seduced, having estatic pleasure and all that jazz...
But when you don't orgasm form others and your a pessimist about sex, you kinda smirk at fantasies and go for the safe fun ones...

yeah, i'm all about breaking gender boundries...

although a guy in a doublet does score some points, but i'd still need to know them first before i let their peepee near me.

Now I can't decide if I'd rather go cruising with landcruisergal or you....

decisions decisions. LOL

 

[landcruisergal]

hahahahaha

if anyone ever used "raw chi" on me i'd probably laugh at them... a lot.
I'll flirt shamefully with guys who are really trying with that lustful desire going on, but at the end of the night.. it dosen't woo me at all. It's a fun fantasy, being taken and seduced, having estatic pleasure and all that jazz...
But when you don't orgasm form others and your a pessimist about sex, you kinda smirk at fantasies and go for the safe fun ones...

yeah, i'm all about breaking gender boundries...

although a guy in a doublet does score some points, but i'd still need to know them first before i let their peepee near me.

But I have always thrown myself headlong into situations....
I'm a glutton, pure and simple. If it looks good, smells good, sounds good...I always want to know what it tastes like, what it feels like.
And I didnt orgasm with a man until I had more partners than my age at the time.
Not a proud thing to admit, my self esteem took a battering, but the search paid off in the end.
And when I am single, I still want sex on occassion, but now its on my terms.

 

[Marquis]

*smiling*
I have only had one offer for a one night stand some 20 years ago about two months after I got married lol guess what she was drunk. Stupid me turned her down wish I knew then what I know now about my ex. Any way I am usually the guy that can't get a ONS offer even if they are drunk. I am not sure but one woman once told me "your the kind of guy I can take my clothes off in front of and feel you wont try anything" and she did by the way and again stupid me. Oh well such is youth she wont want to try that right now though.

I've thought about this before. I got A LOT of nsa sex offers when I had a serious girlfriend in college, and only took one. Later I found out she cheated on me, and for a while I started to regret not fucking every time I could. But the truth is, more than anything else I regret cheating on her that one time I did. I would love to have come out of that relationship knowing I had never crossed that line. In the end I think that would've been way more meaningful to me than all the random pussy I missed out on.

 

[Marquis]

But I have always thrown myself headlong into situations....
I'm a glutton, pure and simple. If it looks good, smells good, sounds good...I always want to know what it tastes like, what it feels like.
And I didnt orgasm with a man until I had more partners than my age at the time.
Not a proud thing to admit, my self esteem took a battering, but the search paid off in the end.
And when I am single, I still want sex on occassion, but now its on my terms.

You're a bad girl, LCG.



So for you and all the other ONS ladies.

Do you find that your sexual history ever offends potential relationship material?


I myself love a ONS like any man, and my longest running friend is my female doppelganger, a voracious sexual predator of the most cunning and evil kind. Even so, I have a hard time opening up with a girl who is very experienced sexually. Probably more to do with my own insecurities, but they're mine and I'm allowed to have them!

 

[graceanne]

ROFL!!

Oh my gawd... hey, do you think I should actually refer to him (whoever "him" is) as "Mr. Bigman"?

Anyway, I'm off to bed. see you guys tomorrow!

LMAO Just make sure not to do it while he's benchpressing or something equally dangerous. He'll drop the barbell on himself and die. No ONS there.

 

[catalina_francisco]

So for you and all the other ONS ladies.

Do you find that your sexual history ever offends potential relationship material?

Yes, but then that has alerted me to the fact they were not for me, and more often than not were hypocrites to boot. I figured long ago that any man who was going to be able to keep me from boredom and by his side was going to have to have a sexual appetite to match my own, or greater, and be just as unashamed of exploring and delighting in it as I was, and respect my right to ahve done the same. Fortunately I found him even if it did take until I was in my 40's.

Catalina

 

[landcruisergal]

You're a bad girl, LCG.



So for you and all the other ONS ladies.

Do you find that your sexual history ever offends potential relationship material?


I myself love a ONS like any man, and my longest running friend is my female doppelganger, a voracious sexual predator of the most cunning and evil kind. Even so, I have a hard time opening up with a girl who is very experienced sexually. Probably more to do with my own insecurities, but they're mine and I'm allowed to have them!

Seen Chasing Amy ?...One of the reasons I love the film so much is because its so close to my own experiences.
As I said before, my current b/f was a ONS. He loves the fact I am experienced and have few hangups and am willing to try anything and laugh about it too.But he is confident in his own abilities as well and is still one of the best lovers I have known.

Most guys are very intimidated and dont want a relationship with a girl with "history".
Most want to believe they have a virtual virgin and not a slut. They always ask how many, and I lie, they dont really want to know any number greater than 5, but I know guys who think 200 is ok. The hypocrisy annoys me.
I have always treated sex as a recreational sport.Separated the emotional from the physical. Its never been anything else to me.
Maybe I am just more yang than yin..
I dunno, reading this thread makes me feel rather exposed and embarrassed about my sexual appetites and experimentation now...might just go back to my box I think.....

and I am not a bad girl....I am very good...I know a lot of men who can testify..

 

[Netzach]

I may not have a thick black book, but I've scared the crap out of people who have merely fantasized about most of the things I've done at times.

 

[Marquis]

Seen Chasing Amy ?...One of the reasons I love the film so much is because its so close to my own experiences.
As I said before, my current b/f was a ONS. He loves the fact I am experienced and have few hangups and am willing to try anything and laugh about it too.But he is confident in his own abilities as well and is still one of the best lovers I have known.

Most guys are very intimidated and dont want a relationship with a girl with "history".
Most want to believe they have a virtual virgin and not a slut. They always ask how many, and I lie, they dont really want to know any number greater than 5, but I know guys who think 200 is ok. The hypocrisy annoys me.
I have always treated sex as a recreational sport.Separated the emotional from the physical. Its never been anything else to me.
Maybe I am just more yang than yin..
I dunno, reading this thread makes me feel rather exposed and embarrassed about my sexual appetites and experimentation now...might just go back to my box I think.....

and I am not a bad girl....I am very good...I know a lot of men who can testify..

If you can't be free to be yourself on an internet messageboard, where can you be free?

 

[Marquis]

I may not have a thick black book, but I've scared the crap out of people who have merely fantasized about most of the things I've done at times.

Exactly.


Let's get one thing straight. We're all some motherfucking pimps up in HEEYAH!!

 

[landcruisergal]

Exactly.


Let's get one thing straight. We're all some motherfucking pimps up in HEEYAH!!

Thanks guys....
Anything else you want to know, seeing as how I seem to be the ONS expert now...*shrugs*
Everyone needs a hobby, I just chose sex.

 

[wildfyre]

I have always treated sex as a recreational sport.Separated the emotional from the physical. Its never been anything else to me.
Maybe I am just more yang than yin..

I'm the same way. Bringing the emotional and physical together can be intense, exciting and some of the best sex ever...but they don't have to go together.

I've had mixed reactions in relationships. I've had guys who love the fact that I'm experienced and uninhibited and guys who hate the fact that I can be so *cold* as to be able to separate sex and love. The latter group always got the boot because I don't like the hypocrisy either....they enjoy what I do to them while in the bedroom but bitch about my past the rest of the time.

Crawling back into my box now.....not out of embarassment, I just like the dark!

 

[Marquis]

If I was a woman, I'd be the biggest fucking whore on the planet.

 

[Aeroil]

If I was a woman, I'd be the biggest fucking whore on the planet.

And you'd be pretty ugly, women with side-burns is a turn-off.