Who is into BDSM or BDSM kink?

[James G 5]

I like that! "Makes my pussy twitch." ::::chuckling::::

As long as nothing makes your pussy "itch"
THen someone's not practicing proper care & hygiene, and my first rule of BDSM is always "Safety First!"

Play safe + play HAPPY

 

[porphry]

As long as nothing makes your pussy "itch"
THen someone's not practicing proper care & hygiene, and my first rule of BDSM is always "Safety First!"

Play safe + play HAPPY

You make my brain itch, James

 

[James G 5]

You make my brain itch, James

Well, BDSM *IS* 99 44/100ths mental, right?

 

[Blue Dolphin]

to be honest
it beats the shit out of me
do not understand it at all

to hear ladies bowing and saying Sir, His kiss
Masters voice.
wonder why
what is wrong with straightforward love,and sex, yes kinky sex too
why the dom or sub need?
anyone enlighten me

 

[Guest]

to be honest
it beats the shit out of me
do not understand it at all

to hear ladies bowing and saying Sir, His kiss
Masters voice.
wonder why
what is wrong with straightforward love,and sex, yes kinky sex too
why the dom or sub need?
anyone enlighten me

hello blue dolphin
speaking for myself.. as with any relationship be it nillla or not.. you draw what you need from the other person.. bdsm need not be yes, Sir.. no Sir.. whatever you need Mistress. i will comply, etc.
however..
i do find i need the safety of boundaries when i explore my limits... and i don't trust just anyone to do that. in my Dom.. i put all my trust and faith that He will take me safely to where i need to go. and where He wants me to go.

i suppose what i'm trying to say is----you define the parameters of your union with the other person.. some don't like being called Master.. or Mistress.. others won't take anything less.. then there are some subs who relish such control.. and will learn the proper serves, positions, manners of dress, speech and how to carry themselves to please their One and Only ...
i hope this gives you a little insight.. from my point of view, anyway.

 

[Blue Dolphin]

hello blue dolphin
speaking for myself.. as with any relationship be it nillla or not.. you draw what you need from the other person.. bdsm need not be yes, Sir.. no Sir.. whatever you need Mistress. i will comply, etc.
however..
i do find i need the safety of boundaries when i explore my limits... and i don't trust just anyone to do that. in my Dom.. i put all my trust and faith that He will take me safely to where i need to go. and where He wants me to go.

i suppose what i'm trying to say is----you define the parameters of your union with the other person.. some don't like being called Master.. or Mistress.. others won't take anything less.. then there are some subs who relish such control.. and will learn the proper serves, positions, manners of dress, speech and how to carry themselves to please their One and Only ...
i hope this gives you a little insight.. from my point of view, anyway.

Thank you jasmine
That goes some way to explaining what this is about.
But still feel the control factor is questionable.
Please dont think I am being awkward, I have some very good friends , on a thread here, who are subs, one has her master there too.
To be quite frank, I am sometimes amazed at the posts, and am trying hard to inderstand
Even though I feel this is not, nor ever will be my scene,
again
thank you
BD

 

[Guest]

Thank you jasmine
That goes some way to explaining what this is about.
But still feel the control factor is questionable.
Please dont think I am being awkward, I have some very good friends , on a thread here, who are subs, one has her master there too.
To be quite frank, I am sometimes amazed at the posts, and am trying hard to inderstand
Even though I feel this is not, nor ever will be my scene,
again
thank you
BD

you are most welcome blue dolphin...
just goes to show... we're all wired differently, aren't we

 

[porphry]

I gratefully received a flogging this past Friday night that has been three years in the making. The wait was more than worth it ,and I just wanted to share that bit of news with kink-minded people. Thank you, James; good friend and top

 

[MissTaken]

That's wonderful news, porphry!


I want to extend an open invitation to all posting here to visit the BDSM forum.

We are open to newcomers and new ideas, new blood (no pun intended!) Ack!

I am not an edge player.

 

[porphry]

That's wonderful news, porphry!


I want to extend an open invitation to all posting here to visit the BDSM forum.

We are open to newcomers and new ideas, new blood (no pun intended!) Ack!

I am not an edge player.

Thank you!! I'll be sure to drop by the BDSM forum soon!

 

[ShiningEyes]

I am noticing personal ads here calling for subs or Doms.

I find it interesting that the lifestyle seems to be becoming more acceptable in the mainstream.

Feel free to post as unregistered if you like, but who is into it?

*Waves whole heartedly with both hands* Can be either Dom or sub depending on the persons I'm around, but I'm truely the happiest as a sub!!!!! Am currently in search for a Dom close to me. I have a Master online.

 

[James G 5]

I gratefully received a flogging this past Friday night that has been three years in the making. The wait was more than worth it ,and I just wanted to share that bit of news with kink-minded people. Thank you, James; good friend and top

Welcome hon
It was my pleasure as much as yours, and definetly worth the wait
I'm grateful for your kind words
I'm glad you liked your birthday gift

 

[James G 5]

That's wonderful news, porphry!


I want to extend an open invitation to all posting here to visit the BDSM forum.

We are open to newcomers and new ideas, new blood (no pun intended!) Ack!

I am not an edge player.

Ooo, oo, I wanna go too
Any place in particular? And I'm not necessarily an "edge" player but I like to play with things with edges.....mebbe I should put up pics of me with my knives

 

[ShiningEyes]

Ooo, oo, I wanna go too
Any place in particular? And I'm not necessarily an "edge" player but I like to play with things with edges.....mebbe I should put up pics of me with my knives

You with knives??
How strange it is for that to sound and seem soooo sexy!!!!
has a few marbles loose from the last bump on the head!!!!!!!!

 

[James G 5]

You with knives??
How strange it is for that to sound and seem soooo sexy!!!!
has a few marbles loose from the last bump on the head!!!!!!!!

I'm told my knives and I are quite fun, and that it's very sexy when I spend an hour or two reducing a lady's clothes to scraps with them

 

[ShiningEyes]

I'm told my knives and I are quite fun, and that it's very sexy when I spend an hour or two reducing a lady's clothes to scraps with them

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How does one go about having that done to her????

 

[MissTaken]

And whose credit card will replace the garments?

 

[MLadyPain]

just wired that way

Another one waving both hands. 15 years in the life. Once I found other folks think like me, I never had another vanilla partner. I've probably done just about everything...note I said "thing", not "everyone" LOL

 

[Guest]

I gratefully received a flogging this past Friday night that has been three years in the making. The wait was more than worth it ,and I just wanted to share that bit of news with kink-minded people. Thank you, James; good friend and top

porphry.. you lucky girl!!

 

[James G 5]

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How does one go about having that done to her????

You come to Orlando & get to know me or wait till the next time I'm in San Antonio visiting family come get to know me, then you ask REALLY nicely

 

[James G 5]

And whose credit card will replace the garments?

We negotiate it in advance & she wears old clothes
Otherwise of course I'd replace them

 

[James G 5]

porphry.. you lucky girl!!

I was the lucky one
Rare to find such a responsive partner who you have such a bond with
Always best to play with close friends & lovers and strengthen the bonds (so to speak!) between you

(see bonds below)

 

[Guest]

I was the lucky one
Rare to find such a responsive partner who you have such a bond with
Always best to play with close friends & lovers and strengthen the bonds (so to speak!) between you

(see bonds below)

thank you James for posting that lovely picture..
i REALLY miss playing

 

[James G 5]

thank you James for posting that lovely picture..
i REALLY miss playing

Hey, I'm still learning ropes & knots, feel free to drop by any time you have time to be tied up
We can even shoot pics if I can ever get the #%$@ rope dres to come out right!

 

[Guest]

Hey, I'm still learning ropes & knots, feel free to drop by any time you have time to be tied up
We can even shoot pics if I can ever get the #%$@ rope dres to come out right!

thanks James
you're a peach !