Why Are Men Crazy About Panties?

Maryanne

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Can anyof you girls tell me why men are so fascinated with our underwear?
 
I'm not a girl but I'll put in my two cents.

We're fascinated with your underwear because you're in it.
 
Re: Well....

Thumper said:
I like the way it feels when I put it on....;)

Well, OK, I can understand that. I remember as a child it felt nice when Mom gave me my first pair that weren't cotton. I guess it makes sense.
 
You want a Freudian reason for it, an anthropological reason for it, a psycho-erotic reason for it, a visio-tactile reason for it...

Basically, can you narrow that down a bit? So many men, so many twisted minds... :)
 
DarlingBri said:
You want a Freudian reason for it, an anthropological reason for it, a psycho-erotic reason for it, a visio-tactile reason for it...

Basically, can you narrow that down a bit? So many men, so many twisted minds... :)

But, on the other hand, it doesn't seem to be just a twisted few, does it? Isn't it a pretty general thing with them? It seems so to me. I don't mind, I am just curious. I for example have no interest at all in their underwear.
 
Come over here Maryanne and we will discuss this over one of your coconut cream pies!
 
Skipper said:
Come over here Maryanne and we will discuss this over one of your coconut cream pies!

THERE MARYANNE, THAT WILL TEACH YOU TO BE AN OPTIMIST!!
 
Panties

It wouldn't surprise me because, when we were boys, there was a certain thrill in seeing a girls panties under whatever dress she was wearing. Also, because they are an item of clothing that highlight and accentuate the sexuality of a woman's figure, rather than detracting from it.
Also, it looks great when you see a woman masturbating with her hand under the elastic of her panties. Very nice
 
Ok I will admit to being perverted.

I like womens panties, preferably worn, so that I can smell her delicious aroma. I am a virgin and it will be a while before I get to drive my nose into a real pussy this is just a hold over until I get to that point. You know the way a smoker uses the nicotene patch? The same sort of reasoning for me, It helps control the cravings.
 
Maryanne said:
But, on the other hand, it doesn't seem to be just a twisted few, does it? Isn't it a pretty general thing with them? It seems so to me.

Yes, it's extremely general, that's why I said "so many men."

So many twisted minds because the reason are so varied.

FREUDIAN: Entering adolesence, a boys exposure to his mother's underwear--in a laundry basket, drying on a line or towel bar--may be his first channel of intimate access to a female and fuel fantasies until a more appropriate target is found. The ongoing obsession with underwear is symptomatic of the Oedipus* complex, i.e. a basic male desire to fuck his mother. After killing his father, but that's a whole different thread. Anyway, if he's a panty sniffer or drawer fondler, categorize him here.

ANTHROPLOGICAL: Human beings are designed to breed. Knickers by their very nature draw attention to and highlight that part of a woman's anatomy most necessary for procreation. In addition, colours are key: red indicates sexual rediness, mimicing the sexual flush women experince over their breasts during arousal. If he's a fuck-me-red lingierie bloke, stick him here.

PSYCHO-EROTIC: This one is complicated. The lingerie itself sends a message that the man viewing it interprets. If he likes white, it's a "teach a virgin" thing, and he's has fears of sexual inadequacy or a domination fantasy either in play or struggling to be free. Red, see above. Black, forbidden--harlot, slut, or whore fantasies. It's also heavily tied to the forbidden; many men like the half-on, half-off look (hence crotchless panties, scantily clad but still clad playmates, etc.) It's a fantasy thing, they can "make up" what's inside to their satisfaction.

VISIO-TACTILE: Right, well, men are not as verbal as women. They are, in general, more visual creatures. Therefore, they are more easily influenced by what they see. Visuals communicate to them, and they communicate back in a tactile fashion. You communicate by showing it to them, they communicate back by touching it. Women will more frequently communicate back by talking about it. So, knickers send them a sexual communication, and they respond the way they're programmed to.

I don't mind, I am just curious. I for example have no interest at all in their underwear.

That's probably because you have to launder it :)

*Thanks to Alexander Tzara for correcting my twisted Greeks!

[Edited by DarlingBri on 03-23-2001 at 08:17 AM]
 
DarlingBri said:
Maryanne said:
But, on the other hand, it doesn't seem to be just a twisted few, does it? Isn't it a pretty general thing with them? It seems so to me.

Yes, it's extremely general, that's why I said "so many men."

So many twisted minds because the reason are so varied.

FREUDIAN: Entering adolesence, a boys exposure to his mother's underwear--in a laundry basket, drying on a line or towel bar--may be his first channel of intimate access to a female and fuel fantasies until a more appropriate target is found. The ongoing obsession with underwear is symptomatic of the Electra complex, i.e. a basic male desire to fuck his mother. After killing his father, but that's a whole different thread. Anyway, if he's a panty sniffer or drawer fondler, categorize him here.

ANTHROPLOGICAL: Human beings are designed to breed. Knickers by their very nature draw attention to and highlight that part of a woman's anatomy most necessary for procreation. In addition, colours are key: red indicates sexual rediness, mimicing the sexual flush women experince over their breasts during arousal. If he's a fuck-me-red lingierie bloke, stick him here.

PSYCHO-EROTIC: This one is complicated. The lingerie itself sends a message that the man viewing it interprets. If he likes white, it's a "teach a virgin" thing, and he's has fears of sexual inadequacy or a domination fantasy either in play or struggling to be free. Red, see above. Black, forbidden--harlot, slut, or whore fantasies. It's also heavily tied to the forbidden; many men like the half-on, half-off look (hence crotchless panties, scantily clad but still clad playmates, etc.) It's a fantasy thing, they can "make up" what's inside to their satisfaction.

VISIO-TACTILE: Right, well, men are not as verbal as women. They are, in general, more visual creatures. Therefore, they are more easily influenced by what they see. Visuals communicate to them, and they communicate back in a tactile fashion. You communicate by showing it to them, they communicate back by touching it. Women will more frequently communicate back by talking about it. So, knickers send them a sexual communication, and they respond the way they're programmed to.

I don't mind, I am just curious. I for example have no interest at all in their underwear.

That's probably because you have to launder it :)



OH! Thanks. :)
 
OK, guys, tell me more, please. I like it that you are the way you are. Just curious.
 
Maryanne said:
OK, guys, tell me more, please. I like it that you are the way you are. Just curious.

I told you all that I can about my reasons, care to send me a pair of yours?
 
Deborah said:
Read the bible, Todd, read the bible.


oh what do you care lil' debbie all you want is to try and get near my butt with your strapon
 
Nope. Think about the verse where David cut the foreskins off the Phillistines.
 
So he's going to have a religious conversion with his head in the crotch of Maryanne's dirty knickers?
 
DarlingBri said:
So he's going to have a religious conversion with his head in the crotch of Maryanne's dirty knickers?

If you sent me yours I could have a conversion with them as well ;0
 
DarlingBri said:
You want a Freudian reason for it, an anthropological reason for it, a psycho-erotic reason for it, a visio-tactile reason for it...

Basically, can you narrow that down a bit? So many men, so many twisted minds... :)

Without all of the psycho-babble, men are interested in women's panties because they are in the way of what we're really interested in. :p
 
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