why I like older men...

[thiscouldbtricky]

Yes i agree but some woman just don`t like you unless you have a big thick cock to get there rocks off

I completely diagree.... I need some women to back me up on this one please, lol.
The size of your cock doesn't have a whole lot to do with anything.

 

[WIZBANG]

I completely diagree.... I need some women to back me up on this one please, lol.
The size of your cock doesn't have a whole lot to do with anything.

Yea but i heard if it is not thick a woman do not feel filled is this true?

 

[Unstuck in Time]

I'm definitely in the older category --- lots older. Let me put it in the perspective of the times we grew up in. In my time, you could get your ass in a lot of trouble being that brash with a woman. I remember being 18, 19 and meeting really flirty, mature looking girls only to have their girlfriend whisper "she's 15" in your ear. Myself and my freinds couldn't put distant between us and such girls fast enough. Men might talk to women today about their prowess, but in my youth, "statutory rape" was a law that we had memorized.

I can recall when I was in my 30s and the sexual freedom of the early 1970s. A woman coworker would often say things like "like to see you bouncing up and down between my thighs". I never took her up on it and was very cautious about how I replied. Some years later when I had left that company, a male coworker was busted for sexual harassment, lost his job and his wife because he called her at home one night using the phone number she gave him and her husband was there.

My point is, we were terrified of saying the things that young men feel comforable with today. However, I sort of admire that freedom. I have always thought that there should be some place in the world where a man or a woman could say to the other "I want you" without repercussions. I may use different words and not care to "apply" for you with prowess, but just express desire. Always seemed like a good idea to me. I've had very suggestive things said to me over the years by women and feel sort of flattered, so they can feel safe that my harshest reply would be "no, thank you". It would be equally wonderful to know that a woman might smile and respond with such kindness. Of course, one part of the rule that I have always believed in is "no" means absolutely no. Give it up, don't press the issue.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Yea but i heard if it is not thick a woman do not feel filled is this true?

Other things can be done that are just as much fun, or more fun, than "filling her up" if it's her pleasure you are so obviously worried about.

 

[WIZBANG]

Other things can be done that are just as much fun, or more fun, than "filling her up" if it's her pleasure you are so obviously worried about.

yes there is i ha ve a tongebut thats why i only have a 6 in cock so i use other means

 

[His lil secret]

I completely diagree.... I need some women to back me up on this one please, lol.
The size of your cock doesn't have a whole lot to do with anything.

^^agreed^^

and i'm going to put my two cents in..

in my opinion, cock size is irrelevant.. give me someone who is willing to explore, and play with me.. and use their minds. their creative expression.. and their hands... god those hands.. and their BRAIN.. there is more to love making / sex than just going at it like rabbits. you can make love to someone with your mind. your heart and giving of yourself.
and if i happen to find those qualities in an older man.. then .. yay for me !!

 

[oO_Rogue_Oo]

I'm one of those mid 40's guys and I guess I'm just not real sure which category I fit into; not because I talk about my huge "internet sized" cock or superhuman sexual skills but rather because I REALLY do enjoy talking about sex with an open; open minded woman. Exploring things we've both done; things we'd like to do; things that turn us on that we're not sure we'll ever get the chance to do, or even have the nerve to do. I am a firm believer the sex starts in the mind and its expression starts with the spoken word.

Am I in a hurry to talk about it? Well I guess that depends on the woman; but in truth it's her signals that will tell me if I am in too much of a hurry, if I need to slow down. Problem is mixed signals are not uncommon and can be difficult to read at times. To me there are few things as fun and exciting as flirtatious "sparing" with an intelligent; exciting woman.

 

[solaneb]

want to pleasure her ?

learn to use your hands and tongue more

filling her up as you put it doesn't always bring a woman to orgasm, best way it to give them some loving kisses all over first

think of it as a trade ratio if you have to every minute you want in spend 5 licking, kissing, stroking, nibbling and sucking her first, and just cos your in doesn't mean you rut away and forget about her either, keep caressing, and teasing her with your lips, you might find the response surprising

i know every man doesn't like going down on their partner (don't figure that love to .. love it when i feel her juices fill my mouth mmm) have news for you not every woman likes sucking your cock either

but if your willing to make the effort to pleasure them, 98% of the time they do to

now back to wizbang - use your tongue more wehter your hung like a horse or not lick and kiss first

 

[Softouch911]

Other things can be done that are just as much fun, or more fun, than "filling her up" if it's her pleasure you are so obviously worried about.

Wizbang, if you're serious, practice your foreplay skills. If you bring your woman to the heights, she'll be happy to jump off with you.

Buy a bag of lollipops. One after each meal. Practice, practice, practice.

 

[thump]

lol, I've just figured it out... let me know if I'm just slow to catch on.
I've noticed, a lot more recently actually than I did before, this rather large difference between younger men and older ones. I notice it hanging around here a lot... The younger men as general rule, feel like they have something to prove and it shows... much more than you might think... And women can tell, we notice these things.
I'm pretty young, but that's why I like older men better- They don't feel this need to share with me right off how big their cock is, or how long they can go down on me, or how many times they can make me cum in an hour. I don't want to hear about all that when you first talk to me, and I'm sure most of you ladies are the same way.
I enjoy talking about sex... But I don't like it when these younger guys over-compensate for their lack of confidence, and blow me away with their cocky attitudes.
Granted, not all young guys are like that... and some older guys still are. But it's a trend that I notice more so now than I ever did.
Just thought some of you might like to know... for future reference with ANY woman.

Tricky, I think the important thing is to always treat you with respect. If it gets to the point where you want to know how big my cock is, or how long I can lick you or how many times I can make you cum, (or where I would put that ice cube then you will find out. Like someone said earlier, the most important part about sex takes place in the head.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

learn to use your hands and tongue more

filling her up as you put it doesn't always bring a woman to orgasm, best way it to give them some loving kisses all over first

think of it as a trade ratio if you have to every minute you want in spend 5 licking, kissing, stroking, nibbling and sucking her first, and just cos your in doesn't mean you rut away and forget about her either, keep caressing, and teasing her with your lips, you might find the response surprising

i know every man doesn't like going down on their partner (don't figure that love to .. love it when i feel her juices fill my mouth mmm) have news for you not every woman likes sucking your cock either

but if your willing to make the effort to pleasure them, 98% of the time they do to

now back to wizbang - use your tongue more wehter your hung like a horse or not lick and kiss first

Now there's some good advice if I've ever heard any

 

[Jonny G]

hi everyone, great thread you have here

and tricky this is for you

 

[big jon]

I think if you connect with a women on a personal and intellectual level, if she finds you interesting and funny, that then makes you more attractive.
If she falls in love with you this way then its incredible the differance it makes when it comes to making love.
Sex is just sex when you do it with someone you feel physically attracted to.
But when you have sex with someone you have a connection with it is 10 times better.Big cock or small cock.
You still have to know what turns them on obviously but once you have that you can perform wonders.
A man with a 10" penis who just rams it in and then goes at it for an hour isnt going to do as much for a women as the man who has an average sized penis but knows her hot spots, just when to tease and tantalise her.
Am I right ladies?

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

I think if you connect with a women on a personal and intellectual level, if she finds you interesting and funny, that then makes you more attractive.
If she falls in love with you this way then its incredible the differance it makes when it comes to making love.
Sex is just sex when you do it with someone you feel physically attracted to.
But when you have sex with someone you have a connection with it is 10 times better.Big cock or small cock.
You still have to know what turns them on obviously but once you have that you can perform wonders.
A man with a 10" penis who just rams it in and then goes at it for an hour isnt going to do as much for a women as the man who has an average sized penis but knows her hot spots, just when to tease and tantalise her.
Am I right ladies?

Absolutely right baby... I get much more out of it if he takes the time to show me that my pleasure is just as important as his own. And when he knows all my spots and knows exactly how to touch, kiss, lick, and nibble those spots... It's better all around.
And it takes experience for a lover to do these things right, which usually equates into being a lil older.
But again, not always... There are some young ones that I feel like I have to say would hold their own, and do it quite wonderfully

 

[Daemoncraft]

They must not be to old thats discusting!!!!!

They must not be over 8 years older than you!!!

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[big jon]

Absolutely right baby... I get much more out of it if he takes the time to show me that my pleasure is just as important as his own. And when he knows all my spots and knows exactly how to touch, kiss, lick, and nibble those spots... It's better all around.
And it takes experience for a lover to do these things right, which usually equates into being a lil older.
But again, not always... There are some young ones that I feel like I have to say would hold their own, and do it quite wonderfully

I must admit it took me a while to work out what was the best way of doing things.But then again practice makes perfect.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

They must not be to old thats discusting!!!!!

They must not be over 8 years older than you!!!

That's pretty closed-minded... Who made that rule?

 

[Daemoncraft]

I'm a boy and I know that stuff!!!!

I am 6 years older than my girlfriend!!!

Must not be more than 8 years!!!

 

[rcuhljr]

I'm a boy

that much was apparent.

 

[thump]

Hey Tricky, did you hire this guy to prove your point?

 

[Jonny G]

just pull up your skirt...for a lil bit....

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Hey Tricky, did you hire this guy to prove your point?

lol, it seems so, doesn't it? But no... I don't think I could have hired anyone to do it so well as he does.
I know plenty of couples that have been together for a long time, that have more than an eight year difference between them, my own parents included, with a 13 year difference.
That 8 year stuff is bullshit.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

I'm a boy and I know that stuff!!!!

I am 6 years older than my girlfriend!!!

Must not be more than 8 years!!!

You know boys.... you oughtta be insulted by this comment. Gives a bad name to boys everywhere.
And by boys, I mean men.

 

[JusPlayBass]

You know boys.... you oughtta be insulted by this comment. Gives a bad name to boys everywhere.
And by boys, I mean men.

Actually, I believe it's more of a case of someone who hasn't experienced life. I've been with older women, younger women, and women my own age. Sharing knowledge, or learning something new, it just makes you a better lover, period.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Actually, I believe it's more of a case of someone who hasn't experienced life. I've been with older women, younger women, and women my own age. Sharing knowledge, or learning something new, it just makes you a better lover, period.

Agreed... but is it not MORE likely that the amount of these experiences increases with age?
It's merely a generalization, because for the most part, it TENDS to be true.
But there are (usually MANY) exceptions to every rule!