Why is rape frowned upon?
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lyricalcandy
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I think its all been said ... but I would so like to see the original thread starter's take on everything that has been said. If he's talking about rape or non consent as a category, I'd say, if you don't like it, steer clear ... but if he's talking about real life rape ... are there any more slots left in the bondagedildofuckhim club?
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VGSS said:
Having consentual sex with a stranger is very different from being forced into sex even reluctant sex is different from rape. The reason it's looked down upon is because it involes violating anoter person in a way that is neither enjoyable nor consentual. It's like the difference between a friend having the keys to your place and coming over and having a complete and total stranger break in and steal from you.
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Well, first lets draw a line between a rape story, and a rape.
There are people who like rape stories; I have no problem with that, provided that they do NOT envision themselves, in their visualizations or fantasies about the story, as the rapist. I understand that, just like there are people who like to be submissive in BDSM, there are people who have a fantasy about being raped. Quite frankly it unnerves and disturbs me, but part and parcel of living in a free society and operating in an open forum is accepting divergent thought.
Rape, however, is not a *%@(ing laughing matter.
One of the great things we've accomplished in the last century is giving women back their sexuality, which we males have stolen for centuries, millennia in some instances. When a woman puts on a strip show, she isn't selling sex; she's selling sexuality, which is hers by right, a right which finally is acknowledged. When a man rapes a woman [and in this particular rant, I am dealing with a man of age raping a woman of age; pedophilia and a woman raping a man are two rants separate from this one] he is not only stealing sex--which itself would be a felony--but he is stealing her sexuality. He is turning back the clock five hundred years, for a brief stretch of time. It is as though, for five minutes, one put an african american in the abject slavery of 1850 Mississippi. It is as though for five minutes, you put me in Auschwitz.
Women often--almost always--have psychological damage as a result of rape. That isn't because of the sex, it is because of the sexuality. Neither you nor I can begin to understand it, because we are males, and, unless I am mistaken, have never been raped.
This post of yours is simply disrespectful to those who have been raped.
There are people who like rape stories; I have no problem with that, provided that they do NOT envision themselves, in their visualizations or fantasies about the story, as the rapist. I understand that, just like there are people who like to be submissive in BDSM, there are people who have a fantasy about being raped. Quite frankly it unnerves and disturbs me, but part and parcel of living in a free society and operating in an open forum is accepting divergent thought.
Rape, however, is not a *%@(ing laughing matter.
One of the great things we've accomplished in the last century is giving women back their sexuality, which we males have stolen for centuries, millennia in some instances. When a woman puts on a strip show, she isn't selling sex; she's selling sexuality, which is hers by right, a right which finally is acknowledged. When a man rapes a woman [and in this particular rant, I am dealing with a man of age raping a woman of age; pedophilia and a woman raping a man are two rants separate from this one] he is not only stealing sex--which itself would be a felony--but he is stealing her sexuality. He is turning back the clock five hundred years, for a brief stretch of time. It is as though, for five minutes, one put an african american in the abject slavery of 1850 Mississippi. It is as though for five minutes, you put me in Auschwitz.
Women often--almost always--have psychological damage as a result of rape. That isn't because of the sex, it is because of the sexuality. Neither you nor I can begin to understand it, because we are males, and, unless I am mistaken, have never been raped.
This post of yours is simply disrespectful to those who have been raped.
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VGSS said:
If you have to ask you'll never know
