We might be suffering from US vs UK English here but I thought that my post was sufficiently plain, ie people are different, have different needs, need different techniques to bring them to sexual fulfillment.
Clits are in a sensible place for me. Where else would you suggest that they be placed? What is your answer?
I believe that you started off with the 'they're in the wrong place' statement, I, and I am sure others, are just waiting for your postulation on clitoral positioning. So if you have 'got an opinion' then lets hear it
I understood that you were the sender of the message not the messenger. If this is a wrong assumption, then from whom comes the message?
Nobody is suggesting that you were "advocating clitoral mutilation or something. Jeesh.", please stick to the question and don't cloud the issue.
I don't understand the 'grandstanding' comment. I do stand by my previous statements: You do appear to have little experience. I might be wrong, you may simply be incredibly selfish.
I am sorry that you don't answer any of the questions, merely set out more nonsense to further cloud the issue. Why is that? Do you not hold opinions just make statement?
Well I'm off to take a holiday for two weeks. I would liked to have stayed to try and find out what your opinions were.
I get off from penis-vaginal contact & in several different positions. I haven't noticed my guy complaining, but he loves foreplay & I don't want it to be over in 15 minutes for either of us. Of course, every now & then a quickie is a lot of fun & after being apart all week, sometimes a necessity.
Indeed penis to vaginal contact is the way to orgasm. Erotic literature serves the purpose of highlighting the peaks of male and female sexuality and indicates the fullest extent of the sheer bliss that can be imparted thru the lovely sexual organs. It should be taken as an ideal type and during the act one should try to reach as close as possible.
As far as using the finger or the mouth is concerned, the male can use them before the penis to vaginal penetration and not after it. To state a very basic feature, the higher the level of stimulation of the vagina at the time of penetration the faster is the lady's orgasm. So guys have got to indulge in a lot more foreplay than to attack the bastion rightaway. And their willingness to do so reflects the extent that they love their partner. So I wonder if we can finally relate the extent of foreplay to the degree of love between a couple .
All said and done, erotic literature spreads myths only in so far as acts of bondage, sexual violence etc.are glamorised perhaps. But the loveliest pinnacle of sensual bliss, the female orgasm has always been projected as the ideal and highest state towards which we've got to reach as much as possible. As a newcomer to the board these are my views.
Thanks for apologizing, but I dont think that you really have to. The posts are open to anything, but I suppose we all here are civilized people and we do not insult each other (although I enjoy some cute teasing among cyber friends ).Lovely Latina, I am rather new here, so I dont know if Ramlick had insulted you in the past.This is utterly regrettable...But it is sad to see a thread degenerate into a feud...
