Why so driven about sexual thoughts?

[Encaea]

Yes but sadly , some of us in the position we're in they wont let us add flavors... Sadly i love to "spice things up "

I tried to hint at it a few times discussing new things to try, but she clammed up quick, and redirected to how important monogamy is to her.

I'm a monogamist, I didn't think a threesome disqualified you.