wife doesn't know

[SpanksToYou]

My wife knows I am bi....but does not know I play...she is not a fan of m2m stuff even though she has had her fair share of pussy ..double standard thing i guess..59 mwm ne Indiana....lets chat!

Sounds like we are in the same boat, I love cock but my wife thinks 2 guys together is disgusting.

Hi 01Harleyguy2020
I would like to chat. My wife won’t even talk about sex. Her loss very soon

 

[SpanksToYou]

I have a question for you gentlemen. How is it that so many men on here can admit to sneaking off to have trysts with men but when it comes to the sheer possibility of them doing the same with a woman they are all like “I would never jeopardize my marriage/relationship” yada yada yada….. it is the same thing to me. You are seeking sexual real ease and gratification elsewhere. Do you really believe the men saying they don’t/haven’t/wouldn’t cheat? I just find it hard to believe after reading some of the stuff they say. I don’t understand why it is inlay in their minds to be secretly bi and have sex with a man behind his wife’s back but they draw the line when it comes to doing it with a woman. And then it’s like, “why lie?” Nobody knows anyone on here unless they CHOOSE to connect so why try to make themselves seem one way? I am just curious because I see far more No curious men or straight men admit to doing stuff with other men behind their spouses back than with women and I am curious as to why that is. Do you gentlemen who have sex with men behind your wife’s back draw the line at having sex with another women behind her back?

If my wife had not made it a sexless marriage I wouldn’t be looking else wear . Whatever her reason be medical or choice that’s not the contract I entered into so when the contract has been broken what ever happens happens. Have you tried to meet women lately, good luck. So when a person seeks out for some kind of gratification, maybe you shouldn’t be so judgmental. There are always a lot of variables that that person would not remember to make someone else understand when another attacks there situation. My mom always taught me that if you don’t have any thing good to say, maybe you shouldn’t say anything. Find a thread you can say something nice about. Unless not understanding something and speaking out about it makes you feel superior . If it does I’m sorry to hear that. Some of us are just trying to have a little fun to make our existence a little better. Thanks

 

[Massive_Ass69]

If my wife had not made it a sexless marriage I wouldn’t be looking else wear . Whatever her reason be medical or choice that’s not the contract I entered into so when the contract has been broken what ever happens happens. Have you tried to meet women lately, good luck. So when a person seeks out for some kind of gratification, maybe you shouldn’t be so judgmental. There are always a lot of variables that that person would not remember to make someone else understand when another attacks there situation. My mom always taught me that if you don’t have any thing good to say, maybe you shouldn’t say anything. Find a thread you can say something nice about. Unless not understanding something and speaking out about it makes you feel superior . If it does I’m sorry to hear that. Some of us are just trying to have a little fun to make our existence a little better. Thanks

You are DEFINITELY not understanding 100% of what I wrote. Take a minute to look at any one of my previous posts and replies on this site and you’d understand.

I was ASKING why does it seem that men on here will admit to stepping out of their marriages with another man but not another woman. Where did you read any of what I wrote as judgmental? What did I say? I asked a question, with no judgment. Because I don’t care. As a matter of fact, I specifically stated in the past that I understand why men and women alike seek sexual gratification elsewhere if their spouse denies them because that is NOT what they agreed to and they are not fulfilling their duties as a spouse.

I don’t care whether a you step out for a man or another woman, I was asking why it seems the majority of men will not admit to stepping out on their wives for another woman but will admit to doing so for a man. How is that judgmental? Why don’t you learn to read to understand and not just reply from your ass because I have not judged one person on this site since I joined.

Now, if you would like to RE-READ my initial question and answer based on your opinions, beliefs, or personal history, I would be more than happy to listen and and engage but otherwise I have nothing further to say to you.

 

[badandmys5402]

My wife knows I am bi...caught me and my cousin...in our 30's in a 69...did not care for it...I need cock to suck and be sucked..NE Indiana...lets chat...maybe meet!

My wife doesn't know that I've played with a few different guys before. Also Indiana here. Would definitely love to chat or maybe more.

 

[paulman999]

Wife unaware, though I think she may suspect. She leaves me alone in evenings when I troll/chat/cam, and masturbate to get my release, Married Sex life is all but gone, NNJ bicur mwm, always up for chat or Skype. PM me…

 

[Dorc]

MWM wife becoming more ornery as she gets older…. Decent frequency of sex but very vanilla. She detests M2M sex and would never consider another person in our bed. So… I’d welcome a female in a similar position but that brings emotion into it. I just want uninhibited fun… don’t want to leave my wife of 30+ years.

 

[Zenheredonethat]

I have a question for you gentlemen. How is it that so many men on here can admit to sneaking off to have trysts with men but when it comes to the sheer possibility of them doing the same with a woman they are all like “I would never jeopardize my marriage/relationship” yada yada yada….. it is the same thing to me. You are seeking sexual real ease and gratification elsewhere. Do you really believe the men saying they don’t/haven’t/wouldn’t cheat? I just find it hard to believe after reading some of the stuff they say. I don’t understand why it is inlay in their minds to be secretly bi and have sex with a man behind his wife’s back but they draw the line when it comes to doing it with a woman. And then it’s like, “why lie?” Nobody knows anyone on here unless they CHOOSE to connect so why try to make themselves seem one way? I am just curious because I see far more No curious men or straight men admit to doing stuff with other men behind their spouses back than with women and I am curious as to why that is. Do you gentlemen who have sex with men behind your wife’s back draw the line at having sex with another women behind her back?

Having never snuck off (but have been tempted), it is because of how I feel about my commitment to our relationship. That being said, I feel like the idea of gratification with a guy would serve a number of purposes:
1) We would both know why we are there. It is just raw lust and the desire to please and be pleased in a way that another man can know.
2) As above, emotions can become an issue with women. In my mind men can more often interact, and walk away without too many issues. For some, no emotional attachment is easier to rectify in the mind.

There are probably others, but these immediately come to mind. Virgin with guys, so it is mostly a fantasy, but I do get so aroused when I think about the possibilities.

 

[Massive_Ass69]

Having never snuck off (but have been tempted), it is because of how I feel about my commitment to our relationship. That being said, I feel like the idea of gratification with a guy would serve a number of purposes:
1) We would both know why we are there. It is just raw lust and the desire to please and be pleased in a way that another man can know.
2) As above, emotions can become an issue with women. In my mind men can more often interact, and walk away without too many issues. For some, no emotional attachment is easier to rectify in the mind.

There are probably others, but these immediately come to mind. Virgin with guys, so it is mostly a fantasy, but I do get so aroused when I think about the possibilities.

Thank you for your input. I can understand…

 

[Dorc]

thats ok but i think we could get you off just on line isnt it great

No doubt.

 

[tonyreid]

my wife knows and is very supportive

 

[meme62626]

my wife knows and is very supportive

You're very lucky

 

[Zenheredonethat]

I assure you I definitely will. We spent one night together. Was awesome . Now she told me when I get back she is going to set up a cam and dress me as her sissy slave and fuck me with her big she cock on Silver Daddies for everyone to see. Threaten me with a good time Mistress!

This sounds so hot! I hope you both find the experience rewarding and erotic. I for one would love to see the photo evidence. Know I will be paying tribute

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Wife know some parts

MWM... bi and horny. 45, 6'1", 195#, fit body, 7.5" thick, cut cock. My wife knows I have played with men and couples. She is not turned on by it, but knows I have m desires. We have sex weekly, but I play with others once a month or so. I wish she approved and was aroused by my bi fun.

I believe most women feel the same. It makes them feel insecure because of the fact that you want something sexual that she believes she can't give you.
What's crazy is that if she enjoyed it and took an active role in your being pleasured, it would bring you both closer.
I wish my wife was open minded enough to enjoy and take an active role in my pleasure.

If they did, we would be able to tell them what turns us on without worry of a battle afterwards. We could each open up to our wives and have them participate in our deepest desires.
That would be awesome!

 

[bijedi]

Well I guess I am one of the lucky ones. Not only does my wife know and support my bisexuality, she is actually the one turned me on to guy on guy sex. I started having sex with men because of her desire to see me with another guy. I never, ever suspected she would be into that, and if it was something that I had been interested in before she said something, I would never have thought to bring it up with her.

So I hope for those guys who have that desire and aren't willing/able to let their partners know that their partners will someday let them know they want that for them. It CAN happen. It just takes one of you to be brave for that one instant.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Bijedi, you are definitely a lucky one! My ex-wife was ok with it, but my present wife is not!

So, does your wife search for guys for you to experiment with? I'm guessing she enjoys watching and masturbating to it?

What does she like to see you do with a guy? Oral, 69, top, Bottom?

Is she into pegging as well?

Boy, if the answer is yes to all of the above, you are a very very lucky guy!!!!

 

[bijedi]

Bijedi, you are definitely a lucky one! My ex-wife was ok with it, but my present wife is not!

So, does your wife search for guys for you to experiment with? I'm guessing she enjoys watching and masturbating to it?

What does she like to see you do with a guy? Oral, 69, top, Bottom?

Is she into pegging as well?

Boy, if the answer is yes to all of the above, you are a very very lucky guy!!!!

We have a couple of shared accounts on different lifestyle sites that we use when we are looking for playmates. And we know of a few local spots where we can find guys or couples looking for partners. But we are usually with one of our regular partners.

She loves watching, encouraging, sharing and yes masturbating. Her absolute favorite is to make out with a guy while he is fucking me or I am sucking him.

While she gets off on all of those, her stated preference is to watch me get railed by young studs. Especially if he breeds me.

Pegging not so much. She just isn't comfortable in the thrusting role and feels it isn't as hot as 'the real deal'. She just really, really loves guy on guy sex, particularly when one of the guys is me.

Lucky guy doesn't even come close.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

We have a couple of shared accounts on different lifestyle sites that we use when we are looking for playmates. And we know of a few local spots where we can find guys or couples looking for partners. But we are usually with one of our regular partners.

She loves watching, encouraging, sharing and yes masturbating. Her absolute favorite is to make out with a guy while he is fucking me or I am sucking him.

While she gets off on all of those, her stated preference is to watch me get railed by young studs. Especially if he breeds me.

Pegging not so much. She just isn't comfortable in the thrusting role and feels it isn't as hot as 'the real deal'. She just really, really loves guy on guy sex, particularly when one of the guys is me.

Lucky guy doesn't even come close.

Your right , lucky doesn't even come close. You description is so hot that it made me hard. Have you two ever included a well hung passable sexy shemale in your play activities or events?
I dated a very hot one back then who looked like Hyapatia Lee the porn star when she was young. This babe was gorgeous and so darn sexy.
We were mostly FWB. She got involved with another shemale that was as hot as her and they joined a wealthy guy with a yacht and traveled to the Maldives. They were both hung with 9" and 9.5"! I fooled around with both of them at the same time. They were mostly top and horny as hell. They could make you change your walk quite easily after a night with them.

I miss those days when i could do all this kind of stuff. But I wouldn't give up my marriage for anything.

 

[canogagrizz]

I believe most women feel the same. It makes them feel insecure because of the fact that you want something sexual that she believes she can't give you.
What's crazy is that if she enjoyed it and took an active role in your being pleasured, it would bring you both closer.
I wish my wife was open minded enough to enjoy and take an active role in my pleasure.

If they did, we would be able to tell them what turns us on without worry of a battle afterwards. We could each open up to our wives and have them participate in our deepest desires.
That would be awesome!

How true. Once out of the blue many years ago (watching something on TV with gay dudes involved, clean regular movie or TV show I forget what we were watching) my wife says to me, "If I found out you were having sex with another man then I would feel that you want something sexual that I can't give you. If you cheated with another woman it would be another thing I could maybe fix." This was many years ago. It wasn't a discussion she just said that to me. At the time I had absolutely no desires for other men. I really didn't have any desires about other men until we were in a sexless marriage for over 5+yrs and I found myself watching more & more M2M porn once in a while more & more frequently.
Plus my wife doesn't even want to talk about anything sex related now. Not one word it makes her disgusted to hear anything about it from me. She doesn't mind listening to the sex crap on her TV shows though. I asked her that awhile back & she got pissed & said, "I don't care it's TV show & the sex they talk about isn't why I watch it I don't care about that anymore." Anyways, confusing. And I have no need to tell her ANY of my sexual thoughts or desires because it wouldn't matter if I did she has told me numerous times she doesn't want to hear ANYTHING sexual. So be it. I'm on my own in regards to sex talk, and I'm allowed to have my own fantasies now there is absolutely no reason to tell her any of them anymore and I never would want to anyways. It's more thrilling anyways for it remain taboo & private kept to myself.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

How true. Once out of the blue many years ago (watching something on TV with gay dudes involved, clean regular movie or TV show I forget what we were watching) my wife says to me, "If I found out you were having sex with another man then I would feel that you want something sexual that I can't give you. If you cheated with another woman it would be another thing I could maybe fix." This was many years ago. It wasn't a discussion she just said that to me. At the time I had absolutely no desires for other men. I really didn't have any desires about other men until we were in a sexless marriage for over 5+yrs and I found myself watching more & more M2M porn once in a while more & more frequently.
Plus my wife doesn't even want to talk about anything sex related now. Not one word it makes her disgusted to hear anything about it from me. She doesn't mind listening to the sex crap on her TV shows though. I asked her that awhile back & she got pissed & said, "I don't care it's TV show & the sex they talk about isn't why I watch it I don't care about that anymore." Anyways, confusing. And I have no need to tell her ANY of my sexual thoughts or desires because it wouldn't matter if I did she has told me numerous times she doesn't want to hear ANYTHING sexual. So be it. I'm on my own in regards to sex talk, and I'm allowed to have my own fantasies now there is absolutely no reason to tell her any of them anymore and I never would want to anyways. It's more thrilling anyways for it remain taboo & private kept to myself.

I absolutely understand and can sympathize with you. My wife is note quite that bad about it. We haven't had sex because of work exhaustion and weight gain and alternating health issues over the last few years. We have never really blatantly spoken about sex. We both care a lot for each other, it's mostly been circumstantial.

She doesn't know about my past with my friend and I don't think she would understand that it was a physical need that my friend and I helped each other with. It was more than a curiosity. It was a newly discovered pleasure with sucking each others tool and my desire to be pernitrated by his long hard tool while I masturbated.

I would love to find another trusted clean close friend to do that with someday, but like yourself, I will keep my fantasy to myself. It's mine and not anyone else's. That one I will share with my FWB when I find him someday.

 

[canogagrizz]

I absolutely understand and can sympathize with you. My wife is note quite that bad about it. We haven't had sex because of work exhaustion and weight gain and alternating health issues over the last few years. We have never really blatantly spoken about sex. We both care a lot for each other, it's mostly been circumstantial.

She doesn't know about my past with my friend and I don't think she would understand that it was a physical need that my friend and I helped each other with. It was more than a curiosity. It was a newly discovered pleasure with sucking each others tool and my desire to be pernitrated by his long hard tool while I masturbated.

I would love to find another trusted clean close friend to do that with someday, but like yourself, I will keep my fantasy to myself. It's mine and not anyone else's. That one I will share with my FWB when I find him someday.

Yes. I also still "Love" my wife very much. We still talk & get along otherwise I have no desire to leave her or any of that. Especially wouldn't leave her just because of my still longing for sexual release. Sometimes I wish I was like her in the fact of not having ANY sexual desires anymore. I still have them & the sexual urges though often.
Sexy about you getting penetrated while masturbating. That was hot to hear. I never got penetrated but once ever & it was only the tip and enough more to get him off. On the other hand my friend was like you. He liked to get penetrated by me & also masturbate while I was grinding into him. It was super hot the feeling when he would climax feeling his anus muscles contract & convulse gripping on my dick. As soon as he would cum, that contracting of his muscles from him cumming would pretty much instantly cause me to ejaculate into him. That was very pleasurable when we rarely did that. We mostly both did long 69 sessions when we got together.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Sounds like we both value our marriages and even though we both have urges we still try to keep our spouses in our hearts.
The urge is strong and that's our predicament. Our need to suck cock and have ours sucked is strong. The desire of being penetrated or penetrating a nice pert ass is even stronger to us.
If we do this with another male, there's no fear of emotional involvement. There's only a strong friendship that can develop trust, which is of the utmost importance.
Especially if there is a pact between good gentlemen friends and a guarantee of being monotonous and only playing with each other and playing safely to keep everyone safe.

That's when the risk of harm and the risk of discovery is minimized, and that make the idea more palatable.
Looking in a friend's eyes as he is kneeling between your knees and watching him unzip your shorts and putting soft lips to the head of your cock, sounds appetizing ? Especially when the head slides down his throat and he sucks on the shaft whike his tongue licks the shaft underside and your cock slides down his throat and he hums for your pleasure.

The humming brings such vibrating pleasure to your loins. Then you put your hand on the back of his head and push it down onto your cock and it feels amazing to have his warm throat around your cock.
A few more push downs and you take hold of his head with both hands, so you can push it down on your cock and pull it up at will.

You start to hump forward when you push the head down and this forces your hard cock into the depths of his throat that feel better than amazing.
He backs up and you both undress quickly and he takes hold of your pulsating cock and stroke it a few times and puts plenty of lube on it.

He kneels on all fours and he pull you cock guiding it to his lubed up ass. He rubs the head back and forth on his anus and this gives you shivers of pleasure that travel through your core and your cock flinches repeatedly.

He looks back at you and pleads for your cock. You begin sliding in and he starts to try moving forward and you take hold of his hips and keep him in place while you slide in further.

Your cock head pops in and he winces in pain and pleasure and you feel compelled to continue sliding in and do so as you wish.

You say "your ass feels so good on my cock" and you continue to slide in a half inch at a time as slow as you feel he can handle.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

You say "your ass feels so good on my cock" and you continue to slide in a half inch at a time as slow as you feel he can handle.

After a few minutes your cock is burried deep inside him and you start a slow rhythmic fucking. He starts getting use to your cock size and he begins to push back onto your hard cock. Using your hands on his ass , you begin pulling and pushing his ass back and forth as you dig your finger nails into his ass cheeks.

A few minutes later he is neeling up and you have picked up the pace fucking his ass deeply as he strokes his hard cock and his ass begins to squeeze on your cock like a tight vice.

You put your lips warmly kissing his neck as your arms wrap around his chest and waist pulling him onto you cock as it slides balls deep.

Soon you are both close and his ass is gripping your cock tightly as he beats off, and then you hear his breathing change. He is about to cum, so you begin driving your cock at a faster pace bringing yourself close to cumming.

He begins to shoot load after load and his ass is spasming and this pushes you into your own spasms as you begin to plunge into his ass, filling it with load after load as you cum hard!

You both are spasming and cumming so hard that all your energies are spent and you both pass out from shear sexual exhaustion.

You wake up with your cock still burried in his ass and your cock is even harder and you are both ready for round 2.

Hope you enjoyed this story

 

[Wayne49]

mwm ...my wife has no idea how addicted i've become to the idea of becoming submissive to a mature man...i can't stop masturbating as i imagine wearing her things for a man as he teases me about this...i fee like i need an man's guidance in this way...am very curious about an online relationship to explore my situation...ty

Wife dosen't know I'm bi ,and that I'm always looking for a hook up with a guy

 

[fitandfresh]

WOW this certainly strokes a chord...... exactly same position in my houghts and desires......doubt it will ever happen now but just once.......just once lol

 

[canogagrizz]

Imho, don't go looking for stranger cock if your married & especially if you have sexual relations with your wives at all anymore. Let's face it, safe condom sex is not what most guys are looking to do, so to go to a bookstore or place where there is fun might be exciting, always play it safe. If you have no sexual relations with your wife anymore then whatever I guess. In these times with covid & shit I wouldn't even want to bring home a cold or flu to my wife & family. The ultimate & best experience is to just have it with another friend or someone you known & can trust to keep it between you both only. I know this is super hard to find but if you are that desperate, then just say tot he guy what your saying here or try to get a feel for if he is down with the idea maybe. You say a few key things you will get the vibe immediately from them if they are not interested. They will usually change the subject on your sex talk.
Otherwise good luck guys. I'm in the same exact boat as you. Married, sexless & wanting to get some cock.