wife doesn't know

[Smileyouronnow]

bi-curious man looking for learn how to suck a cock, I am very submissive. I am in So Cal in 949 area code....92656

married must be discreet...prefer married as well, but not a deal breaker.

I have sucked once before and have wanted to do it again ever since.

Sexless marriage...she doesnt know I have sucked cock and want to do it again

I recommend checking out doublelist.com at the ads in your town. It's free. I highly recommend being cautious and getting to know someone first. Good luck.

 

[gbhl44]

ever since i discovered that my mature NJ catholic wife was cheating on me with 2 guys from our parish, i have been drawn to cuckold porn and become VERY bi curious.

weird i suppose.....

 

[Tayloroc]

Totally understandable. Yiu get to have fun too!

 

[Smileyouronnow]

ever since i discovered that my mature NJ catholic wife was cheating on me with 2 guys from our parish, i have been drawn to cuckold porn and become VERY bi curious.

weird i suppose.....

so , are you going to search for someone to play with like she did? You could try bicupid.com, doublelist.com or http://www.silverdaddies.com. There are others like friendfinder.com that are also good for your type of search.
So are you going to search for someone?

 

[gbhl44]

i hve tried doublelist and silver daddies, with no real success i will try bicupid. thank you for the information

 

[Smileyouronnow]

i hve tried doublelist and silver daddies, with no real success i will try bicupid. thank you for the information

So, gbhl44 may i suggest something? I have been searching on and off for about 2-3 years. I have found that rather than finding random guys to play with, which can be dangerous due to diseases and viruses. Instead, try making online friends to communicate with online from your surrounding areas or where you often travel.

It's a lot easier to trust a friend with their honesty than a stranger out for a conquest. This way it's not only safer for you, but you will make friends who are your potential FWB contacts. Maybe you could chat with them and express your predicament and explain what happened, this will start a new conversation with new ideas and possibilities.

They may even have a different take on what happened and have another way to respond.

If I were you and the wife is aware that you know. Maybe you could talk to her about swinging with another couple who have your same interests. Maybe friending either a bisexual couple or a couple with a bisexual guy. Either way you could wind up expanding on her infidelities and it would allow you yours. In my experience, this suggestion would shock her, which could be good for you.

Imagine, you both are with a bisexual couple and become friends and start a swinging relationship. You would be allowed to play with both male and female of the couple. In fact this would open the door to you having other couples in your life. Couples who also have the same interests as you. What ever they may be!

Swingers usually have groups that they meet with to experiment and play. You would meet friends of friends of friends, etc. You don't have to share your friends with your wife unless you want to. It's a lot easier to find and meet other couples when you are a couple. Another idea, how do you feel about being a cuckold? Do you know what that is?

If you don't know what that is, it's basically where you get off to the wife fooling around with other men and help in the process by fluffing the guy's or fooling around with them as well. There are lots of levels in cuckolding. If that interests you, i suggest watching some cuckolding or cuck porn so you can decided your comfort level.

Watching and assisting in her being treated like a hot whore wife can be very exhilarating and very erotic, if you are turned on to it. Maybe trying all of the above and combining a fraction of each, if that's what does it for you.

Either way, you can turn this frown upside down by leading her to do what you want her to do. I strongly suggest not using either of the guys she had an affair with. That's a totally different scenario that is not beneficial to you! Those guy's tried to break up your marriage. Swinging and cuckolding can turn into that, but seldom does because that's not the objective here.

Hope I gave you some new ideas and showed you how you can utilize the situation to your benefit. Let me know if any of this has helped and how it turns out.

There are lists of swingers clubs online. If you are in Austin Texas i can point you to a few. But the internet can probably give you more information, if you search a few of these dating apps like bisexualPlayground.com

Mike

 

[gbhl44]

i appreciate the time you took and your thoughtful response!

 

[Smileyouronnow]

i appreciate the time you took and your thoughtful response!

You're welcome!
Please feel free to text and ask any questions you may have.

 

[TrailerHitch]

My wife knows about my bi-curious desires and is very supportive as long as I play safe. Condoms are a must.

We are in an open marriage and we are free to play as we want to. I do not just seek out men I am also seeking women to play with too. My wife has expressed the possibility of a MMF threesome. Honestly, that excites me very much.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

My wife knows about my bi-curious desires and is very supportive as long as I play safe. Condoms are a must.

We are in an open marriage and we are free to play as we want to. I do not just seek out men I am also seeking women to play with too. My wife has expressed the possibility of a MMF threesome. Honestly, that excites me very much.

That's awesome! I used to have something similar with the ex-wife. Present wife is not ok with any of this period.
In fact ex-wife was a swim suit model and very bisexual. One day she brought home another female model and she moved in and stayed for about 4 yrs. They tried to fix me up with several of their guy friends.

In tried a couple times with the guys and made a few friends and more. The girls wanted to watch me with a guy whenever possible.