Wife swap/swing stories

Hallowed Eve said:
No, I hadn't.


So I see now. On one of Jen's story that was rated H I saw one anonymous "bad review". So, who cares, right? I mean, if he's so chicken shit that he has to HIDE when he "bullies", who cares?

On another note, I'd see the Group category as the "right" place to post swinging couple stories... To me, Loving Wives is about either cheating women (I know, not "loving", but Lit nonetheless) or the "cuckold" fantasy...


I agree, why hide? i dont care if someone does not like one of my stories and tells me so. just be real and human!
 
swingtime91 said:
What ever happened to good old wife swap stories? It seems like a lot of the newer Group Sex/ Loving Wives stories are leaning more to cuckold stories. There's nothing wrong with these; I've written a couple myself, but personally I've read more than enough of them.

I'd love for someone to write a great swinger party/club story as well. It seems like even these stories have recently been cuckold themed.

A lot of my stories are based on swinging in one form or another, but I'll include 3-sums in that category. I used to write for a swinger contact magazine. First Time and Amy's Weekend were first printed there. They were intended to be educational as well as erotic. If you like party stories, keep an eye out for The Hunger Chap. 04. I'm waiting for Chap. 03 to post now. I u/l'ed it on Wed. I'm working on 04 now. May/December is going to have a party chapter as well.

I've noticed the same thing about Loving Wifes vs. Group Sex. I have to keep an eye out in both to find swinging stories. I must say there are not a heck of a lot of realistic swinging stories on here. Of the ones that are here it seems like a large number are "gang bang" stories. That's funny to me because most swingers I know don't even call it that. The other thing I noticed is that there aren't a lot of swinging stories written by women. Maybe they are all to busy doing something else :). That's somewhat humorous because I am supposed to be at a party as I write this. We cancelled at the last minute because we had something come up.

Both Group Sex and Loving Wifes cover a lot of territory and I sometimes wish there was a subcategory for swinging. If anyone has any favorite swinging authors or stories, please post them here. I did a search for authors that identified themselves as swingers in their profiles and was surprised there weren't that many swinging stories there.
 
CorsetLvr said:
I must say there are not a heck of a lot of realistic swinging stories on here. Of the ones that are here it seems like a large number are "gang bang" stories. That's funny to me because most swingers I know don't even call it that.

That's because swinging and gang bangs are two entirely different things!
 
Hallowed Eve said:
That's because swinging and gang bangs are two entirely different things!
They can be, but many authors classify them as swinging. Apparently any non-monogamous sexual activity is lumped in under the topic of swinging. Likewise, open relationships get classified as swinging too. As far as stories are concerned, the definition of swinging is pretty expansive.

I do know swingers that are into gang bangs but they are a minority. A woman that takes on several men at a swing party isn't called a "gang bang." At least within our group its referred to as a "pulling a train."
 
swingtime91 said:
It seems like a lot of the newer Group Sex/ Loving Wives stories are leaning more to cuckold stories.

I wonder if that indicates a social change in some way, or maybe even a generational thing?

Over 25 years ago I used to read Penthouse Forum sometimes, especially enjoying the orgy-themed stories. Then about 5 years ago I had a chance to see a Forum again, not having done so for about 20 years. I was really suprised at how prevalent the whole "cuckold" thing had become in the group/swing stories.

I tend to think of a cuckolded fantasy as a part of BDSM/Humiliation in a way; not typically as part of orgy/group fantasy. For that reason the cuckold fantasy does nothing for me personally.

I'm really curious though as to why the "cuckolded" theme has apparently become so much more popular - what does that say about society in general if anything?
 
CorsetLvr said:
They can be, but many authors classify them as swinging. Apparently any non-monogamous sexual activity is lumped in under the topic of swinging. Likewise, open relationships get classified as swinging too. As far as stories are concerned, the definition of swinging is pretty expansive.

I do know swingers that are into gang bangs but they are a minority. A woman that takes on several men at a swing party isn't called a "gang bang." At least within our group its referred to as a "pulling a train."

Well, I've noticed that many autors at Lit miss-categorize stories. I've never heard that "gang bangs" and "pulling a train" were different activities, though.
 
Hallowed Eve said:
Well, I've noticed that many autors at Lit miss-categorize stories. I've never heard that "gang bangs" and "pulling a train" were different activities, though.


pulling a train miught be a type of gang bang? as opposed to multiple partners at once?
 
Hallowed Eve said:
Well, I've noticed that many autors at Lit miss-categorize stories. I've never heard that "gang bangs" and "pulling a train" were different activities, though.
They're not different activities, basically. What I was trying to say that I don't often hear of swingers referring to it as a gang bang. They commonly refer to it as a train.

I was trying to make the point that if all you knew about swinging came from group sex stories on Lit, you would think that gang bangs were very common in swinging. I suppose there is some minority of swingers that are into that sort of activity, but in my experiences they are not nearly as common as the stories would make you think. The fact of the matter is that few group stories are based on much experience by the authors. Most are simply fantasies that have little or nothing to do with the real world of the swinging lifestyle. I'm sure other alternative lifestyle genres are the same, for example lesbian/bi stories written by men. I'm not saying that is necessarily bad, but its difficult to get into a story where the reader (me) is left sitting there saying "that would never happen" throughout the story. That is, if I get to the end.

Technical inaccuracies can ruin the story for me because the author is trying to create imagery that is not realistic, that is, based on my knowledge of what is real in the lifestyle. This is a phenomenon that is not necessarily limited to group stories. The entire field of amateur erotica is covered in it. I coiuld name other examples from fetish, lesbian, BDSM, and first time stories without thinking too hard. I try not to be overy analytical when reading erotica, but its sometimes difficult to not be. These sorts of things are distractions, just like spelling or grammatical mistakes, that take the reader out of the world the author is trying to create. Most readers may never notice these things. Unfortunately some will notice them and think they are "real world." Some may be small issues, but I can think of a few that leave me more than a little nauseous.

Anyway, that was the point I was trying to make.
 
If people thought the sex acts they read on Lit were the "standard norm", they'd be in for many surprises! lol
 
Hallowed Eve said:
If people thought the sex acts they read on Lit were the "standard norm", they'd be in for many surprises! lol


how about the standard pervisions? :cool:
 
Hallowed Eve said:
If people thought the sex acts they read on Lit were the "standard norm", they'd be in for many surprises! lol
Yea, that was pretty much the purpose of the post, in a definitely more long winded sort of way. I guess I was just venting. Thanks for being the audience. The problem, as I see it, is that these kind of stories often portray activities that mat be dangerous, unwise, or perhaps just plain stupid. I wonder about the young people reading this. In a lot of cases these kinds of stories may be acting as a text book of sex for them. I'm not talking about safe sex issues. I think there is a suspension of disbelief on that topic in most stories.

Anal sex stories, or anal scenes, are just covered with examples of this type of thing.
Example: "She screamed in pleasure as his first thrust slammed into her ass." Give me a break. Even an anal devotee like me cringes at the idea of that.
 
CorsetLvr said:
Example: "She screamed in pleasure as his first thrust slammed into her ass." Give me a break. Even an anal devotee like me cringes at the idea of that.

lol Yeah...
 
CorsetLvr said:
Yea, that was pretty much the purpose of the post, in a definitely more long winded sort of way. I guess I was just venting. Thanks for being the audience. The problem, as I see it, is that these kind of stories often portray activities that mat be dangerous, unwise, or perhaps just plain stupid. I wonder about the young people reading this. In a lot of cases these kinds of stories may be acting as a text book of sex for them. I'm not talking about safe sex issues. I think there is a suspension of disbelief on that topic in most stories.

Anal sex stories, or anal scenes, are just covered with examples of this type of thing.
Example: "She screamed in pleasure as his first thrust slammed into her ass." Give me a break. Even an anal devotee like me cringes at the idea of that.


except the scream?
 
Oh yeah! The scream is real. Just not in pleasure! lol


Or, with me personally, it's more like "Ow. Go slow. Ow! Slower!! Dammit, not so fast!" (When he's barely "pushing" against me. :eek:)
 
Hallowed Eve said:
That's because swinging and gang bangs are two entirely different things!


GB is not my thing, but the fantasy is powerful.....to know that all those men want you! of course, i have a mental image of what these men look like .... :devil:
 
CorsetLvr said:
Yea, that was pretty much the purpose of the post, in a definitely more long winded sort of way. I guess I was just venting. Thanks for being the audience. The problem, as I see it, is that these kind of stories often portray activities that mat be dangerous, unwise, or perhaps just plain stupid. I wonder about the young people reading this. In a lot of cases these kinds of stories may be acting as a text book of sex for them. I'm not talking about safe sex issues. I think there is a suspension of disbelief on that topic in most stories.

Anal sex stories, or anal scenes, are just covered with examples of this type of thing.
Example: "She screamed in pleasure as his first thrust slammed into her ass." Give me a break. Even an anal devotee like me cringes at the idea of that.


i dont get the fisting thing...not for me
 
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