GallantWriter
Charming Chaos
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Well, yes I love the sexy stuff of course. But I do always just want to know you better and better. You're truly one of the only people I actively come to lit to interact with. And I'd love to send more messages and voice messages back and forth.Maybe Itās Time for a Little Reintroductionā¦some thoughts and a little rant. (Itās been a while)
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I feel like maybeee itās time I do a bit of an introduction againā¦a little āget to know me,ā if you will. Iāve been around here for a short while now, since February of last year and although Iāve shared plenty of my pictures, stories and writing, Iāve realised I havenāt really talked about āmeā (the bean that doesnāt just strip off on the internet) in a while and I want to reintroduce her to yall.
Before I move on, as much as I love being here, (and I do genuinly love), chatting, sharing, and connecting, Iāll admit, (and Iām SORRYYY), Iām not the best at replying to every single message. After responding in the thread or posting, I usually close my laptop, close the tab on my phone and get back into the real world. Itās not personal, I donāt try to be out right rude but I really find it hard to keep up sometimes. Especially now that you know, Iāll mention it for the a millionth time, that Iām studyingI know some people can reply to every single message, and thatās great for them, like good for you but I get SO MANY I donāt know how they do it!⦠and for me personally, it feels a bit⦠detached. Like youāre replying for the sake of replying, rather than because you actually care about who youāre talking to. And Iāve never been a people pleaser to that extent.
I would rather have a handful of amazing connections than a hundred short responses from someone who just wants to reply quickly.
I ALSO really struggle to tell when someone is being genuine. Especially here. What I mean by that is when someone actually wants to get to know me, versus when they just want more sex chats or pictures than I share on the thread. I had someone tell me once that no one really cares about āmeā here, itās simply what I have to offer. But Iām still herestill trying to reach those of you that I know are deeper than a two dimensional dick behind a screen.
Rant over.
On to some things about me:
There we are.
- I cook or bake something from scratch every day. Yesterday was cheese and broccoli soup.
- I walk at least 10ā15k a day so I can eat what I want. Iām not into diet culture or āclean living.ā Iād rather enjoy food than obsess over it
- Iām in my third year studying forensic psychology. Iām fascinated by what makes people tick, especially the broken parts. Iāve been called a āfixerā by many people in my life.
- I read a lot. My favourite genre is splatterpunk. I like gore, the kind of stuff that grosses out most normal people and makes them uncomfortable
- Iām adopted.
- I like people who are genuine and funny.
- I dislike people with a huge ego and those that arenāt kind.
- I love always having my nails done and feeling presented.
- Iām Latvian and speak it fluently. I learnt both languages (English and Lat.) simultaneously when I was adopted at 6 months.
- I have two cats: Cheeto and Bilbo. Theyāre the most important members of my family.
- I fucking hate small talk.
- Iām a HUGE over thinker and incredibly sensitive.
- I should probably quit smoking.
- I love sex.
A little more about Bean! Feel free to ask questions, tell me about YOURSELVES, and donāt be fucking boring.![]()
You're just a beautiful soul, and an intelligent lovely lady, who I can't ever seem to get enough of. Adore you Bean.
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! I also really don't like gore, so I so couldn't talk about that with you
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