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Tom_Brown said:
I left my wife alone with a guy one time because I could tell that with me there she wasn’t “letting loose” or losing her inhibitions with me in the room. I stayed outside the room and listened (through the door) to them having sex. She was definitely more vocal, animated, and her orgasms were more intense without me being in the room.

I think that with me in the room she held back because she was worried that I may be hurt by seeing her let loose. But also, I think that it was easier to just enjoy sex completely without having “to perform” for me or just the fact of having an audience while trying to be intimate with another man.

It could also be that she was trying to spare my feelings, worrying that I could be jealous about just how pleasurable sex with him was or me thinking that she likes sex with him more and that he’s better than me.
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I've never sensed more truth in a post in here.

I honestly think that if wife n I tried the same thing; 99.9% chance I'd be experiencing the same thing you've outlined.
 
LeeKee said:
I've never sensed more truth in a post in here.

I honestly think that if wife n I tried the same thing; 99.9% chance I'd be experiencing the same thing you've outlined.
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As much as I tried to let my wife know I wanted her to let herself go and get the most out of it I still think she might have held back in front of me . Apparently I hadn't convinced her just how hot I thought the whole scene really was to / for me .

Based on what I did see it would have been amazing to see her enjoying herself even more .
 
Years ago I had an affair with a hot wife.

Her and her husband used to swing and swap with other couples in the same room. He also liked to watch her with other men.

So it confused me why she wanted to have sex with me alone.

Her answer was she was scared to enjoy herself too much when he was there watching. With me she could let herself go and be the proper slut that she wanted to be.
 
With us, it evolved from first talking about it for a long time, several years actually, and me having to hear for the first time that my boyfriend finds it exciting if I would do it with another person. So it was first about me having sex with another guy. After finaly having a few adventures that we found both exciting, where he was never present, he was there a few times, to participate and of course to witness what it is like to see his girlfriend getting fucked by another person.

Due to unplanned circumstances, it then unexpectedly happened that he did it a few times with another woman. The wives of his friends I fucked. Beyond my expectations, I could tolerate it and in that circle it did provide some kind of balance. However, watching him fuck another woman did not bring any additional or higher arousal for me personally. Since some time I learned that he is not looking for sex with other women but for situations where I can do it with other people.

And what I read above in several comments is also true for us: it is better for me to let myself go completely when he is not there - not in the same room, or preferably at a different address, despite the fact that he has told me several times that it is okay for me to do it as if he were not there.

At the time, when I thought we were going to experience some nice mfm, it was a misconception. The few times it did happen, he left the initiative to the other man and me, where it ended up with him mostly watching and limited to stroking my body and me giving him some blowjobs. Therefore, the best mfm or group sex for me is the one without him. He has no problem with that at all as long as I tell him all the details.

About size: I do not consider myself a size-queen, but since my boyfriend is rather average-sized, it is fun and exciting to have the opportunity to fuck big(ger) dicks from time to time, not only for the feeling inside but also because it allows me to be able to do more different positions.
 
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Love reading the comments. We have spoken about a mfm threesome, I have done the urging, and she has said she would but only because I wanted it. That's not what I want. I want her to look forward to it. She does worry that I will get jealous, part of me thinks if its all for me then that takes the pressure off her playing with another man. I get that
We roleplay and when out of town I get her to dress so men are ogling her great body.
 
alwayshorny2020 said:
Love reading the comments. We have spoken about a mfm threesome, I have done the urging, and she has said she would but only because I wanted it. That's not what I want. I want her to look forward to it. She does worry that I will get jealous, part of me thinks if its all for me then that takes the pressure off her playing with another man. I get that
We roleplay and when out of town I get her to dress so men are ogling her great body.
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But she may not want to tell she wants to either......seems to me you are getting towards your goal
 
cadman7777 said:
But she may not want to tell she wants to either......seems to me you are getting towards your goal
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I can confirm that in the early stages of our “discovering conversations” this was also my position: in theory I would do it only just to grant him this “favor”. I found it especially strange that he got so excited about this. When I read through some adult channels I understood he was not really an exception so it started to dawn on me. I think over a year passed before “it happened,” but I can assure you that when I went for it it was not only to please my boyfriend. The fact that he encouraged me in it did make it happen, because without that excited motivation from him, I would never have had sex with other men.
Apart from sharing details of with whom and how, however, it took a while before I could tell him and admit that I also did it to satisfy my own lust.
 
Chridi said:
I can confirm that in the early stages of our “discovering conversations” this was also my position: in theory I would do it only just to grant him this “favor”. I found it especially strange that he got so excited about this. When I read through some adult channels I understood he was not really an exception so it started to dawn on me. I think over a year passed before “it happened,” but I can assure you that when I went for it it was not only to please my boyfriend. The fact that he encouraged me in it did make it happen, because without that excited motivation from him, I would never have had sex with other men.
Apart from sharing details of with whom and how, however, it took a while before I could tell him and admit that I also did it to satisfy my own lust.
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That all makes sense
 
Chridi said:
I can confirm that in the early stages of our “discovering conversations” this was also my position: in theory I would do it only just to grant him this “favor”. I found it especially strange that he got so excited about this. When I read through some adult channels I understood he was not really an exception so it started to dawn on me. I think over a year passed before “it happened,” but I can assure you that when I went for it it was not only to please my boyfriend. The fact that he encouraged me in it did make it happen, because without that excited motivation from him, I would never have had sex with other men.
Apart from sharing details of with whom and how, however, it took a while before I could tell him and admit that I also did it to satisfy my own lust.
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I appreciate the insight. The only rules my wife has set is that we wouldn't play locally and not with someone we know which as we live in a country town I fully agree with.
 
alwayshorny2020 said:
I appreciate the insight. The only rules my wife has set is that we wouldn't play locally and not with someone we know which as we live in a country town I fully agree with.
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Same here: it was always abroad, and yes, at first I also said "nobody we know and certainly NOT his friends... that last part did change by coincedance. In retrospect, I wonder why I was so reluctant, but as long as you're just ‘getting started’ you shouldn't think too much about it. Everything does fall into place as long as you understand and support each other as a couple in what you are doing.
 
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