Women that find it hard to "get off"

She's very open sexually, but when i talk to her about what makes her cum she changes the subject. I havent asked her to show me how she gets herself off, but i think those things are off limits right now since we just started dating. The only meds that she takes are birth control pills, so that idea is out. yes, i pay attention to the clit.
 
I agree with most of what TexasBadBoy said. Sexuality is 75% mental for me and I get really turned on when my partner can play bed games realistically. Just plain sex is so...mechanical. There must be other dimensions in order for it to get me off.

:rose:
 
DoctorDurden said:
She's very open sexually, but when i talk to her about what makes her cum she changes the subject. I havent asked her to show me how she gets herself off, but i think those things are off limits right now since we just started dating. The only meds that she takes are birth control pills, so that idea is out. yes, i pay attention to the clit.

Perhaps she's open sexually in general, but the specific practices need more focus from her. It seems like she's dealing with something in her head (I'm not saying she's unstable) which she isn't ready to share with you.

One thing I find about American culture is that people are so ready to be sexually intimate when they haven't had emotional intimacy of a deep enough level. But that's just my Asian perspective. Maybe our bio-rhythms are culturally formed.
 
alright heres the plan...

I'm going to take her out for dinner somewhere that we can dress up. While were out im going to have a roommate spread rose petals all over the floor and my bed. I have a playlist of songs on my cpu hes going to start up after we leave, so that it will be playing when we get back. Then when we get back im going to draw a bath with the smelly bubbles and some candles for us. I have some candles im gonna spread around the room and bathroom. i have some silk blind folds that im gonna have her put on. SO that she cant see what im doing only sense it through touch. im gonna tease her and explore every portion of her body slowly and passionately. And see where it leads
 
DoctorDurden said:
alright heres the plan...

I'm going to take her out for dinner somewhere that we can dress up. While were out im going to have a roommate spread rose petals all over the floor and my bed. I have a playlist of songs on my cpu hes going to start up after we leave, so that it will be playing when we get back. Then when we get back im going to draw a bath with the smelly bubbles and some candles for us. I have some candles im gonna spread around the room and bathroom. i have some silk blind folds that im gonna have her put on. SO that she cant see what im doing only sense it through touch. im gonna tease her and explore every portion of her body slowly and passionately. And see where it leads

I LIKE THIS PLAN. :D

S.
 
oh man!!! tell ya what!!! thanks guys for all your help... Worked out Great... I have the biggest smile!
 
DoctorDurden said:
oh man!!! tell ya what!!! thanks guys for all your help... Worked out Great... I have the biggest smile!

Now make us smile and tell us the details. :D

S.
 
you want the details? ok, here it goes......

Well we went to dinner at this New Orleans restaurant and we had a great time. I ordered us a bottle of champagne and we toasted. I brought here home and my roommate did a great job with the rose petals. They followed a path right to my room and layed all over my bed. When we walked in, an R-Kelly song was playing. We kissed passionately and I slowly stripped her. We were naked and I told her I had to go to the bathroom. When I was in there I lit the candles and drew a bath. I called her in and set her in the tub with the blind fold. I put cherries on her bold and slowly licked of the cherry juices. when I touched her kitty she was moving her pelvis in anticipation. But I only teased it enough to make her want it more. Then I bit her neck gently, which led to licking and nibbling her whole body. I teased her by licking her thighs and letting my tongue accidentally brush her clit. I kissed her feet and sucked her toes and worked my way back up to her neck. She was breathing so hard that I had to lay my (sculpted) chest on hers to slow it down. I whispered in her ear that she’s perfect and I love her. Then I turned her over and kissed her back while I rubbed her breasts softly. I pulled her ass out of the water and gave her the most titillating rim job I could imagine. I licked every part of her until she almost came. I took her out of the tub and carried her to my bed. I layed her on top of the rose petals and took off the blind fold. Then I began to tickle her with a feather and kiss her deep and passionately. She kept pushing her pussy against me so I slowly kissed it. She was reaching for my cock and I kept pulling it away so she could only feel it for a second. After I teased her for about an hour, I went down on her. SHE ORAGASMED all over me. It was so hot! Then I slowly inserted myself, taking my time.. She was trying to fuck me hard but I wouldn’t let her. I kept teasing it, only putting about half my cock inside. She grabbed my hips and thrusted me all the way in. I couldn’t hold back anymore and I penetrated her deep as she’d let me on every thrust. She came again. We stopped until she was ready again, this time it was hard. I’m a body builder and I slammed her as hard as I could. She was screaming and I was moaning. I don’t usually moan but I couldn’t help it. We went on for about 45 min., and we tried all sorts of positions. We finally came when I was holding her body in the air with her head on the pillow and I was standing on the bed. I was rubbing her clit in a circular motion while she was holding on to my ass. I pulled out just I was cumming and she grabbed my cock and finished me in her mouth. I’ve never had a girl finish me and swallow like that, and she said shes never done that before. Then she looked at me and said she’d do it again. We then cuddled for awhile and tickled I love you on each others stomach. WOW!!! That’s all I have to say, thanks for all the input! I owe you all
 
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