Would you cheat on this?

[freckledvixen]

All of those are great...but none really attest to your particular personality. That's only discernable once someone has spent enough time with you to begin to know the actual person.
You've just learned this reality with your guy, unless there's a pattern of broken relationships initiated by other guys from the past shake this off and drive on.
If there's no marriage involved here you have less baggage to deal with. If you're married then you have decisions to make. Best of luck to you.

Yea. First and only relationship issue I've ever had/ break up that wasn't mutual.


I guess I'm just struggling because I wanted him so bad


I'll be okay eventually

 

[Removalist]

I'm completely heart broken. Thought he was the one.

And that ass..................Wow!!! x

 

[freckledvixen]

Good question. Not sure why anyone would have ever cheated on me either with all that I bring...but it happened. Got to understand in the end, it was them not you.
Something wrong with them, not you!

I hope you're right! Thanks for the positive vibes.

 

[freckledvixen]

Well it's not enough for him. Furthermore I would rather focus on my defects of character then try to fix someone. Becuse one can act on that.

Well I'm not focused on him anymore, to say the least.

 

[toben3297]

Fuck no. What an idiot.

i would agree

 

[toben3297]

Wow that makes me feel so much better

I work full time. Pay my own bills. I'm close to my Ph.D, I cook, clean, suck dick, party with him, geek out, cosplay, fuck like a champion, keep my body right, love his family.


What man could want more?

i retract my first comment.

He's a fucken retard (no politically correct I know)

 

[tnman03]

Yea. First and only relationship issue I've ever had/ break up that wasn't mutual.


I guess I'm just struggling because I wanted him so bad


I'll be okay eventually

First of all...yes, you will most certainly be okay and it will take less time then you realize. Here's the only "sage" advice you'll get from me. Time and distance heal heartache.

Being cheated on hurts on more levels then I'm even going to try to discuss. Either get mad and drive on or dwell in sorrow for a bit lamenting the loss. You'll get other chances in the game of life so hold on tight the ride gets bumpy.

 

[Ackattack1313]

Wow that makes me feel so much better

I work full time. Pay my own bills. I'm close to my Ph.D, I cook, clean, suck dick, party with him, geek out, cosplay, fuck like a champion, keep my body right, love his family.


What man could want more?

That's honestly everything a guy could want. His loss, not yours sweetie.

 

[mewandrer63]

Wow that makes me feel so much better

I work full time. Pay my own bills. I'm close to my Ph.D, I cook, clean, suck dick, party with him, geek out, cosplay, fuck like a champion, keep my body right, love his family.


What man could want more?

Freckled you don't have to convince us... he is the problem!

 

[dirtyharry1981]

Sounds like he fucked that up!

Well, I hope you bounce back quickly, you deserve to.

But in the meantime I'll be grateful that his loss is our gain.

 

[Bob Waters]

Fuck him.

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone. I'm always ready to help a lady in crisis

Good listener too.

On a more serious note, I'm very sorry and he's an idiot

 

[SherlockianMan]

Sorry to hear about this. Some guys are just assholes and there is no logic behind their actions. Al they care about is themselves and making sure they get what they want.

You are a gorgeous woman and I for one think someone would have to be crazy to cheat on you. I think you'll have no problem finding someone else who will treat you properly and worship you and that beautiful body of yours as they should.

Wishing you all of the best in the days ahead. It gets better from here.

 

[Aphro]

Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

 

[ab724u]

Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

Good statement. Absolutely not, love is fragile and everyone is worthy of it...betrayal should not be bestowed on anyone

 

[Removalist]

Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

A very good point made here. It is not excusable to cheat on anyone you have commited yourself to. I'm sure she was just looking for an ego booster by posting this. Isn't that what we're all after by posting on Lit? I know It makes me feel good when I get a positive comment

 

[Bob Waters]

Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

Have you ever been cheated on? Your self-esteem takes a huge hit and you often need reassurance that you're attractive. I understand what you're saying but cut the OP some slack.

 

[gubernacht]

I just found your thread, you are beautiful. And no I wouldn't cheat on you if i was lucky enough to have you Bet you are killer in the sack too

 

[scotluvsoral]

Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

You are, quite right I think. Cheating is all about the cheater and not at all about the person who gets cheated on. And how the aggrieved party looks is never the real reason for the cheating and it is never OK

 

[RyanBooks]

I just found your thread, you are beautiful. And no I wouldn't cheat on you if i was lucky enough to have you Bet you are killer in the sack too

The other false assumption that is often made is that "hot looking" equals "killer in the sack".

 

[blazingsaddles]

Hell fucking bo. What an idito.

 

[screwher]

Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

Good point. But the young lady did also ring off a laundry list of non physical attributes that would make any guy proud to have her.

Going by these her now ex (thankfully) is an idiot.

 

[Aphro]

Have you ever been cheated on? Your self-esteem takes a huge hit and you often need reassurance that you're attractive. I understand what you're saying but cut the OP some slack.

Please reread my post.

I was not in any way dissing the OP. In fact I say that in the very first line.

If anything, I what I was actually doing was calling out to the men here, who are saying "hell no, you are too gorgeous, I would never cheat on you." Which was, to me, tantamount to saying ya'll would only be faithful to her because she's hot looking.

Maybe just say to her you look lovely, and I am sorry you've been hurt. I'm sure you will find a man who deserves you soon.

As the OP has sadly learned, being attractive is no guarantee of fidelity. I've seen very lovely girls cheated on by their guy, and with a much less pretty woman. If it has a pussy, he will fuck it.

The only advice my mom ever gave me about sex was a man isn't looking at the mantlepiece when he's poking the fire.

It took me a little while, but now I understand what she meant.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Regular head. Tight body. Fucks minimum 3 times a week. Teacher. Would you cheat on me?


My man just did.


Begging me.

I'm glad you have a regular head...

Seriously, this chick reminds me of Zoe Quinn...

 

[windwater]

Old Quote

Please reread my post.

I was not in any way dissing the OP. In fact I say that in the very first line.

If anything, I what I was actually doing was calling out to the men here, who are saying "hell no, you are too gorgeous, I would never cheat on you." Which was, to me, tantamount to saying ya'll would only be faithful to her because she's hot looking.

Maybe just say to her you look lovely, and I am sorry you've been hurt. I'm sure you will find a man who deserves you soon.

As the OP has sadly learned, being attractive is no guarantee of fidelity. I've seen very lovely girls cheated on by their guy, and with a much less pretty woman. If it has a pussy, he will fuck it.

The only advice my mom ever gave me about sex was a man isn't looking at the mantlepiece when he's poking the fire.

It took me a little while, but now I understand what she meant.

"Show me the most beautiful girl/woman in the world, and I'll show you a guy who's tired of fucking her."

 

[SassySheDevil]

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