Would you cheat on this?

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Aphroditiac very well written.
Sometimes my wife or I will give advice in situations like this. In reality we've been together almost since Adam and Eve so have no idea what a break up or cheating feels like.
We can only imagine and send our love.:heart::rose:
 
Thank you. This is exactly what I was just thinking.

I remember FV from before, and yes, she is a gorgeous girl who got a shit ton of attention, and I have no doubt that she will again, but cheating is always about more than looks. There are always reasons that it happens, and men and women can be cheated on, hot or not. It sucks, it feels horrible, and yes, it takes a hit on the self esteem, but I am not sure how coming here and having guys who will tell everyone the same damn thing, is going to help her self esteem. A huge percentage of guys that are going to comment here, are going to go to the next girls thread, and say the same damn thing. Is that really going to help her self esteem?

Again. I think FV is a beautiful girl. No disrespect for her, I am sorry for what you have gone through. :rose:

I also think she looks beautiful, Sassy. And I know it feels like shit to be cheated on. I'm sorry this has happened, but at least she found out. Better to know, IMO. I know a girl at work who is engaged, and apparently everyone but her knows he fucks around. Supposedly people were going to tell her, ones who had proof. But so far she's still picking colours and flower arrangements.

Like I said above, it's not about freckledvixen. It's more the guys all saying how THEY would never cheat on a hot little piece like FV, which just seemed so incredibly shallow. It probably wasn't meant that way, but that's just how it struck me.
 
Just an observation, and I mean no disrespect to the OP in this.

The implication here is that if the girl is hot looking, the boyfriend should have no excuse to cheat. Is the corollary of this that slightly less hot-looking women than the OP deserve to be fucked around on? Is it more excusable if she were fat and dumpy? You see my point, I am sure.

I'm sorry for your current situation, OP. I guess the wording in the title bothered me. Hope you feel better soon.

Agree with you, Aphroditiac.

Sorry this has happened to you & I am wishing you the best, freckledvixen

Isn't that what we're all after by posting on Lit? I know It makes me feel good when I get a positive comment :)
Not really, compliments make me uncomfortable. I enjoyed the interaction & was interested in finding out what people like to see.
 
Agree with you, Aphroditiac.

Sorry this has happened to you & I am wishing you the best, freckledvixen

Not really, compliments make me uncomfortable. I enjoyed the interaction & was interested in finding out what people like to see.
I see what you're saying. Face to face compliments make me uncomfortable for some reason, I think that's why I enjoy them on here.
I especially enjoy trying to act out any requests with a little photo story knowing I've made at least one person smile :)
 
Let's look at this at another angle.

Anyone who cheats on their woman or their man deserves to be assfucked by karma. It's clear that FV's ex is a fuckwit who just wants to get his dick wet.

What a pussy.
 
Yea. First and only relationship issue I've ever had/ break up that wasn't mutual.


I guess I'm just struggling because I wanted him so bad


I'll be okay eventually




you'll bounce back and be fine, and obviously there is someone out there that is better.



could be worse, being forever single and lonely is definitely not a fun option.
 
Good point. But the young lady did also ring off a laundry list of non physical attributes that would make any guy proud to have her.

Going by these her now ex (thankfully) is an idiot.

For the record, she didn't list attributes. She really just described how much effort she put into the relationship. An attribute would be hard-working, strong, independent, flexible, reliable, loyal, etc. I'm not saying that she is none of the above, but what she listed were certainly aren't attributes.
 
You'very "cum" to the right place to be cheered up!!! Welcome!!!

Dude, I have seen a lot of people post. I swear to god, I have no idea how you're a licensed therapist yet are completely oblivious to the fact that your posts are inconceivably moronic. Do you not understand how words affect people? Do you really think you come across as compliments or encouragement?

A licensed therapist... Yeah, right.
 
Yes and no. We all love the attention in some way. But men leaving comments for women, is usually different. Many men (not all) will comment to every woman who posts and say almost the same damn thing. When I stopped my thread, I got messages from many women saying they understood. They just didn't want to say it out in the open.
Women who comment, often usually comment (again, not all) to those they can genuinely appreciate.

Of course we all like compliments, and again FV will not lack any. She is beautiful.


But the assumption that someone should not be cheated on because they are "hot" is just stupid, which was then followed up by "You are hot, so I bet you are good in the sack" How does beauty mean someone is good in bed?


I'm sorry for helping to derail this. But I feel like FV would be better served by genuine compliments. Not the cut and paste compliments that are often left for women. (not saying you) Her threads have always been successful because she is beautiful and fun.
Very true Sassy :)
I'm fairly new to the Lit forums so still feeling my way around.
I tend to comment on photo's I genuinely enjoy looking at or to encourage a nervous poster.
It was the school uniform that got me here lol
 
Wow that makes me feel so much better :)

I work full time. Pay my own bills. I'm close to my Ph.D, I cook, clean, suck dick, party with him, geek out, cosplay, fuck like a champion, keep my body right, love his family.


What man could want more?


A man, nothing. What it seems you were dating was more of a child in the body of an adult. Loyalty is the key thing here. When you see something else, do you stay with the one you are currently with or do you venture out? The mentality to stay, sadly only comes from a mature mindset. Some guys, and girls, are not there yet. Its why the divorce rate is so high. Also has a lot to do with confusing the emotion of love with the act of commitment. They do not go hand in hand. Often times, when people are looking for their commitment to their partner to be full of butterflies and rainbows, thats when things go wrong.
Keep this in mind tho'. That guy will not be happy with the next piece of ass. He will find that he is searching for an emotion that is much like happiness, sadness or even anger; its ever changing and not constant. Commitment and loyalty are constant. Love sadly is not. Nothing looks sexier on a woman than confidence and loyalty, and you sound and look sexy as fuck.
 
Im not for teacher.

Well I'm not focused on him anymore, to say the least.

Good. Your gifted right? Those characteristics you mentioned are gifts. Your going for your Docterate so your still a student. So learn from this. Work on YOUR character defects. We all have them.

I saw your pic whats up with messy room. I didn't even notice you. ;)

The teacher thing is true no matter what you look like. That being said it's not limited that for me. I would have said the same about you being a lawyer, doctor, police officer, anyone with authority. I guess I need to work on myself when it comes to that.

Now clean your room.
 
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You all are taking this too far


I'm just on here trying to have a good time like I used to.


To let loose

I'm not doing anything because I feel less beautiful


Seems to me Lit has gotten a little PC. I'm all for it! But can't we just post pictures and have instead of debating.

I mean let's be real- posting pictures on this website is for fun attention and interaction. It's nothing if not a little shallow initially.

And if any of you were doubting anything- I'm a lot of fun.

Just sad and wanted to play to cheer up!
 
Good. Your gifted right? Those characteristics you mentioned are gifts. Your going for your Docterate so your still a student. So learn from this. Work on YOUR character defects. We all have them.

I saw your pic whats up with messy room. I didn't even notice you. ;)

The teacher thing is true no matter what you look like. That being said it's not limited that for me. I would have said the same about you being a lawyer, doctor, police officer, anyone with authority. I guess I need to work on myself when it comes to that.

Now clean your room.


If you read the thread you would have seen its not my room :)

But thanks
 
You all are taking this too far


I'm just on here trying to have a good time like I used to.


To let loose

I'm not doing anything because I feel less beautiful


Seems to me Lit has gotten a little PC. I'm all for it! But can't we just post pictures and have instead of debating.

I mean let's be real- posting pictures on this website is for fun attention and interaction. It's nothing if not a little shallow initially.

And if any of you were doubting anything- I'm a lot of fun.

Just sad and wanted to play to cheer up!
I for one try to have fun on here and via pm's.
Once it stops being fun, it's time to leave :)
You keep posting and we'll keep looking and commenting x
 
You all are taking this too far


I'm just on here trying to have a good time like I used to.


To let loose

I'm not doing anything because I feel less beautiful


Seems to me Lit has gotten a little PC. I'm all for it! But can't we just post pictures and have instead of debating.

I mean let's be real- posting pictures on this website is for fun attention and interaction. It's nothing if not a little shallow initially.

And if any of you were doubting anything- I'm a lot of fun.

Just sad and wanted to play to cheer up!


I know where your coming from cause I have been cheated on too and it sucks and that is all I'm going to say

So now you are absolutely gorgeous and I agree with you that his loss is our gain so please have fun and keep posting pics of your sexy body.... Damn I love your sexy ass and it makes me hard thinking about some things we could do ;)
 
You all are taking this too far


I'm just on here trying to have a good time like I used to.


To let loose

I'm not doing anything because I feel less beautiful


Seems to me Lit has gotten a little PC. I'm all for it! But can't we just post pictures and have instead of debating.

I mean let's be real- posting pictures on this website is for fun attention and interaction. It's nothing if not a little shallow initially.

And if any of you were doubting anything- I'm a lot of fun.

Just sad and wanted to play to cheer up!

Agreed. Well stated.
 
Been there .

Regular head. Tight body. Fucks minimum 3 times a week. Teacher. Would you cheat on me?


My man just did.


Begging me.

My opinion are based solely on your opening comments. And its parameters. You lost me at teacher. I explained why. The picture has no addendum to the location. Based on that should I assume that that is your room and not you?

This sucks for you. In hindisight it will have been the best thing that happened in your life. It was the best thing that happened to me. I'm not a teacher just proposing stuff I did my self.
 
You all are taking this too far


I'm just on here trying to have a good time

And if any of you were doubting anything- I'm a lot of fun.

Just sad and wanted to play to cheer up!

By all means! Please return to posting the lovely pics.
 
You all are taking this too far


I'm just on here trying to have a good time like I used to.


To let loose

I'm not doing anything because I feel less beautiful


Seems to me Lit has gotten a little PC. I'm all for it! But can't we just post pictures and have instead of debating.

I mean let's be real- posting pictures on this website is for fun attention and interaction. It's nothing if not a little shallow initially.

And if any of you were doubting anything- I'm a lot of fun.

Just sad and wanted to play to cheer up!

No, it hasn't. You just got here at the wrong time. Just wait, your thread will be flooded with idiot men who will tell you anything in hopes of obtaining your favor.

Don't get me wrong - you said you like to "geek out" and dress up which is cool. And you're cute. But some of us aren't shallow. It would be like me posting, "Hey, I'm a muscular dude with a lot of money, nice cars, and an island! Would you cheat on THAT?!" Women wouldn't be too happy to see a man so arrogant. Wouldn't you agree?
 
Sorry

I dont reply to threads, but I sense you are hurting. I have managed to be with my wife 35 years without cheating either physically or emotionally. Even with 35 years of bad sex once a week. You deserve way better. You are smart, and you are beautiful. Sounds like your ex is a POS. Dont waste your time or tears on trash. I wish you nothing but the best, because you deserve the best.
 
Wow that makes me feel so much better :)

I work full time. Pay my own bills. I'm close to my Ph.D, I cook, clean, suck dick, party with him, geek out, cosplay, fuck like a champion, keep my body right, love his family.


What man could want more?

Well, I would. Jeez, what an idiot. You'll get past it, you're smart, sexy and way above the norm. Well wishes to you.
 
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