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Cama de Rosas said:Blue - sorry to answer without quoting you, but I figured I'd answer both in one postI'm sure I would act differently if I knew they were both on here together. Not deliberately, just instinctivly. If I'm in a pub with my man's friends, I flirt with them (not do-me-now-bigboy flirting! Just the usual silly banter). If one of them is there with their gf, then I don't flirt with that person so much because I would hate to make the gf uncomfy. Whether the same thing would apply on Lit I don't know, having not (knowingly) come across the situatiion yet, but I'm guessing I'd act the same on here as in r/l.
I think the most important themes coming out of everyone's comments are honesty (especially between partners) and fun.
I know that I have played with people on here who are single and some who are not. I am so careful to ensure that I am honest about wanting to have fun, about my partner knowing about Lit and that "fun" had on here/by IM will stay just that. I am also wiser, having learnt from experience that this is fun not real life. Maybe it is easier flirting with someone who is already spoken for 'cos in most cases at least they are less likely to want to take it further.
Your comments about flirting in the pub reminded me of a very bad experience many years ago. My partner and I went out for a meal with one of his colleagues and her partner. We both thought we had a good time. A few weeks later my partner was demoted in favour of her and suddenly there was a lot of "nudge, nudge, wink, wink" comments at his work. One friend was kind enough to tell him that his newly promoted colleague was telling everyone that I had spent the whole evening coming on to HER partner and that my partner and I had an open relationship and both slept around alot!!! I still want to punch the lying little bitch's lights out even now!!!
