Would you sleep with a married person?

[screwher]

Nice answer, it is extremely hard to find a person that understands it's just sex !!

Yes! When one learns to separate sex from feelings and love, a whole new world of adventures opens up!

 

[Kate_part2]

I did. Not my proudest moment.

 

[Muwarr90]

This is a legitimate question and I'm sorry it happened to you like this. It truly sucks and has long term ramifications for some people to find out their spouse cheated on them. Some of the husbands of the women I've been with knew, so they don't count in this response. Of those that didn't know, it had nothing to do with the husband, as far as I was concerned. I wasn't doing it to spite the husband or out of some sick, twisted revenge against a man I don't even know.

The harsh truth is she made the decision to sleep with other men. I'm not responsible for anyone else's decisions or actions. I am responsible for sleeping with a married woman, but she is responsible for her marriage. I've asked women that I've met online if their husbands know what they are up to, but I've never asked this of any of the women that I've met in the hotel bar. As far as I'm concerned, her arrangement with her husband is none of my business. If she wants to sleep around without him knowing, at least I'm a respectful partner that won't ask too many questions, will keep it between us regardless, and she won't have to worry about getting into a dangerous situation with me.

Further, it wouldn't bother me if my wife slept with someone else. So I tend to go into these arrangements with a mindset that this is a fun time, just like it would be with a single woman. Yes, some men do it because they are assholes. I would be hurt if my wife fell for someone that petty. Hell, I'd probably leave her for her poor judgement! Otherwise, it wouldn't bother me if she had fun, it was consensual, and he had a healthy amount of respect for her. As long as they aren't badmouthing me, which my wife would never do, it has nothing to do with me at that point.

Good luck to you, man. I truly wish you all the best.

So it really wouldn't bother you if your wife, in the interest of a "fun time", snuck around behind your back and directly lied to you about what she was doing?

 

[magicalmoments]

I'm wondering what guys thing sleeping with a married woman. What do you think you are doing to her husband? My wife strayed once and I always wondered if the guy was spiting me or just getting his rocks off. Still, Id like to know what he thought about me. Did he care he was trashing me?

I've slept with a few married women in my time, some with their husbands knowledge and agreement and some in secret. I can tell you in respect to the latter the husband never entered my mind. I was totally focussed on the woman and giving her a good time, as well as maximising my own enjoyment of course. I certainly never did it to spite the guy, I never knew them. Did I think I was trashing the guy, No. He was just never on my mind at all.

 

[incredibly_curious28]

One of the best sexual experiences ever!

 

[HampshireBoy]

I'm wondering what guys thing sleeping with a married woman. What do you think you are doing to her husband? My wife strayed once and I always wondered if the guy was spiting me or just getting his rocks off. Still, Id like to know what he thought about me. Did he care he was trashing me?

I must admit that I'm not consistent on this one.

When I was married to my first wife her best friend suggested that we could "help each other", my wife and her husband both had a low sex drive. For many reasons I said no.

When I was split from my wife I entered into a FWB arrangement with a married woman, she normally came to me. To be honest she and her brother had told me how poorly he treated her and I rarely even thought about him. The only time I really thought about him was one weekend when he was away and we stayed at their flat - I did wonder what he would think if he knew what his wife was doing in their bed. I have to say though none of it was about him, it was all about her and I getting pleasure.

On a separate occasion I met a woman whom used to visit me at lunchtime and early evening for sex, I didn't ask if she was married - she wasn't wearing a ring. One afternoon she was at my place when her mobile rang, it was work telling her that her husband had called. She insisted on me licking her pussy whilst she called him back then, whilst continuing the call, insisted that I lay back so she could mount me. I have to say that I wasn't comfortable with this and ended the relationship soon after that. I think I would have been ok with carrying on fucking her it was the deliberate actions whilst discussing domestic stuff on the phone that tipped the balance - I guess trashing him in her head.

 

[redheadinyourbed]

I have had sex with married men.
Sometimes I hate myself for it. I've been cheated on and it was heartbreaking.

 

[JonBHappy]

I'm sure for some people the sense of cheating heightens the fun. I'm not keen on cheating, but I don't judge anyone and in my case, if I were to have sex with anyone other than my wife it's with her understanding because of her illness.

 

[luckyseven]

I'm wondering what guys thing sleeping with a married woman. What do you think you are doing to her husband? My wife strayed once and I always wondered if the guy was spiting me or just getting his rocks off. Still, Id like to know what he thought about me. Did he care he was trashing me?

I've slept with a few married women in my time, some with their husband's knowledge and agreement and some in secret. I can tell you in respect to the latter the husband never entered my mind. I was totally focussed on the woman and giving her a good time, as well as maximising my own enjoyment of course. I certainly never did it to spite the guy, I never knew them. Did I think I was trashing the guy, No, he was just never on my mind at all.

My wife and I know there will times when we will want to have sex with someone else. It has happened in the past. Each time it was consensual and never any deceit. We aren't jealous and we don't own each other so we never feel betrayed.

This is sex and that is so different from the love we have, and this love isn't conditional to monogamy.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

It was a preferance rather then swingles. ****Couples only no single males or very very very selecte ones....

" back in the day "

 

[yourhornyfriend]

I couldn't do it. I'd feel too guilty about their partner.

 

[jumbuck50]

I couldn't do it. I'd feel too guilty about their partner.

My wife was working with a much older woman who was not enjoying life .We had her over numerous times at our flat for after work drinks.Couple times she has stayed for dinner then taxi home.One evening lying in bed my wife said Gloria fancies you, to which I said, "Hell shes my mothers age."My wife and I were in our early 20s and Gloria was at least in her mid 50s.

Our relationship progressed for weeks with the girls catching up and getting a little serious about me. I said quite often "No way"at the suggestion of helping Gloria out when asked by my lovely wife.

It was the end of the week ,I got a call at work to pick up couple bottles of wine on your way home please ,we have guests for dinner. I get home, shower,knock back couple beers,and turn on the tv for my football game later.My wife comes home with Gloria walking through the door after her. They have been shopping with couple bags over their shoulder .No dinner to cook,, they have ordered Pizzas.We have few drinks with Pizzas ,the girls are off for shower while i start my game Im quite content to watch my football game while the girls are now,, after spending time talking and laughing sitting down on the sofa drinking red wine and trying to get me to turn off the football.Finally my wife comes over to my lounge chair opens her dressing gown and rubs her breasts in my face ,asking can we turn that off.

I now look over to Gloria to see her reaction from my wife and see her with a big smile on her face.She then says "I think you have his attention." My wife stands up, pulls me from my chair and leads me to the sofa by Gloria."She has a surprise for you darlin."Now as I have said Gloria is around mid 50s,bout 5,4 with plump figure.She has opened her dressing grown to display a great set of tits and a broad smile saying "Do you want to play?" She then leans forward as Im watching her breasts swing in my direction so she can kiss me while her hand is now between my legs saying "Ive heard about this ,can I try it out?" while my wife is sitting smiling at me Gloria has now said "You need to get out of those clothes ok" I am now sitting on the couch again with a breast in my mouth and a very excited older woman sliding my cock into herself.

I have never had an older woman take the lead and fuck me like she was now.The fucking was amazing and the rate she was going I said to her "Its not going to last" to which see said "Darling we have all night,as your wife just wants to watch ok"My orgasm happened just after she said that which gave us time to catch our breath and have another drink or two.So the next session was up in the bedroom with my darling wife giving Gloria directions while sitting on her make up chair at the base of the bed.

This older woman had not had sex for nearly a year she told me and my wife said to her "If you can convince him, go for it." We did have quite a few wild sexual evenings just the three of us ,but my wife just sat back and watched while I fucked her work buddy. The following evening she then wanted her turn at the fun games.

Our early married life while in our early 20s was quite adventurous especially from my wife's point of view,having her husband fucking some other mans wife.The strange part,, she was ok with the whole experience ,as it went on for quite some time and she got off watching us.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

My wife was working with a much older woman who was not enjoying life .We had her over numerous times at our flat for after work drinks.Couple times she has stayed for dinner then taxi home.One evening lying in bed my wife said Gloria fancies you, to which I said, "Hell shes my mothers age."My wife and I were in our early 20s and Gloria was at least in her mid 50s.

Our relationship progressed for weeks with the girls catching up and getting a little serious about me. I said quite often "No way"at the suggestion of helping Gloria out when asked by my lovely wife.

It was the end of the week ,I got a call at work to pick up couple bottles of wine on your way home please ,we have guests for dinner. I get home, shower,knock back couple beers,and turn on the tv for my football game later.My wife comes home with Gloria walking through the door after her. They have been shopping with couple bags over their shoulder .No dinner to cook,, they have ordered Pizzas.We have few drinks with Pizzas ,the girls are off for shower while i start my game Im quite content to watch my football game while the girls are now,, after spending time talking and laughing sitting down on the sofa drinking red wine and trying to get me to turn off the football.Finally my wife comes over to my lounge chair opens her dressing gown and rubs her breasts in my face ,asking can we turn that off.

I now look over to Gloria to see her reaction from my wife and see her with a big smile on her face.She then says "I think you have his attention." My wife stands up, pulls me from my chair and leads me to the sofa by Gloria."She has a surprise for you darlin."Now as I have said Gloria is around mid 50s,bout 5,4 with plump figure.She has opened her dressing grown to display a great set of tits and a broad smile saying "Do you want to play?" She then leans forward as Im watching her breasts swing in my direction so she can kiss me while her hand is now between my legs saying "Ive heard about this ,can I try it out?" while my wife is sitting smiling at me Gloria has now said "You need to get out of those clothes ok" I am now sitting on the couch again with a breast in my mouth and a very excited older woman sliding my cock into herself.

I have never had an older woman take the lead and fuck me like she was now.The fucking was amazing and the rate she was going I said to her "Its not going to last" to which see said "Darling we have all night,as your wife just wants to watch ok"My orgasm happened just after she said that which gave us time to catch our breath and have another drink or two.So the next session was up in the bedroom with my darling wife giving Gloria directions while sitting on her make up chair at the base of the bed.

This older woman had not had sex for nearly a year she told me and my wife said to her "If you can convince him, go for it." We did have quite a few wild sexual evenings just the three of us ,but my wife just sat back and watched while I fucked her work buddy. The following evening she then wanted her turn at the fun games.

Our early married life while in our early 20s was quite adventurous especially from my wife's point of view,having her husband fucking some other mans wife.The strange part,, she was ok with the whole experience ,as it went on for quite some time and she got off watching us.

Sounds like you made her happy. Good life experience too! I guess there are exceptions. Doesn't seem as bad when there are two of you.

 

[Mystories189]

I have way too many times.

 

[tp_2859]

Just last week...

I had the chance to fuck a long time friend from Lit who was in town and is married. She’s posted a lot here and is truly stunning! Guess I’m a luck guy.

 

[KBelle1104]

I had the chance to fuck a long time friend from Lit who was in town and is married. She’s posted a lot here and is truly stunning! Guess I’m a luck guy.

Anytime

 

[tp_2859]

Anytime

You were incredible! So much more than I could have ever expected. Look forward to seeing you again soon

 

[smtst5]

When I was younger yes. Now probably not with one exception.

 

[Pantux]

I would not.

 

[Kate_part2]

I did. Not my proudest moment. And while I don't regret it, I do kind of wish I'd never done it.

 

[catimann]

Married and happy

When I was married “we” fucked others many times as swingers. Even after it all ended she said those times were good ones. The others were all married and it was all great. Finding another woman, so inclined, isn’t that easy. Darn

 

[Cindy69love]

I do.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I do.

it's awesome write it's a matter of getting the combos correct.

FMF ......

 

[Blueskyess1982]

In person? No. I do have an ongoing thing with my best friend’s husband, but she is fully aware and was the one who initiated it.

Online is a different story for me. I have a bit of a fetish for married men online. I love a great cam session when he’s sneaking away. Even better when she’s right in the other room. I know it’s not any different really, but I figure they’re going to do it anyway. I might as well get to cum too

 

[IsItBad]

admittedly

sadly, i have
on several occasions
i have actually given it alot of thought
why did it happen
what caused it
etc

i think it is easier.....more likely....that a married person can sleep with another married person
single people are less likely to sleep with married people - not that it doesn't happen

in fact, i have a friend of about 20 years who has never had a serious relationship with anyone who wasn't married.....she is a beautiful successful lawyer....but she always winds up with a married man.....who, of course, entices her and leads her along always promising he is about to leave his wife......and of course he never does.....in the end she winds up heart broken and resolved never to do it again.....until next time.......

as for me, a married woman came onto me at a christmas party.....i am just not the kind of guy women usually come onto......i did try to avoid it.....but she kept coming back....and after a month or so....we kissed....and when we kissed i knew we would have torrid sex and that it would probably not end well.....we had an amazing year long affair......in which we had more sex than i had had in my previous 20 years of marriage.....who knows what would have happened had her husband and a group of others not walked in on us making out in our usual all in way....but what did happen was everyone got hurt and it ended in all of the ugliness anyone generally thinks can happen

the second time was much more deliberate.....after about a 5 year stretch of trying every thing known to man to rekindle some form of romance in my marriage.....i flat out gave up and posted an ad on CL.....and there i found the single most beautiful and amazing woman i have ever been with.....she was married ....i was married.....it was an amazing romance that lasted for almost 2 years.....and should have lasted forever in retrospect......it also did not end well....she wound up getting a divorce.....and although i did not......it was somewhat the end of any chance of any kind of actual physical relationship with my wife

hindsight being what it is.....i would say.....avoid relationships with married people.....but the best physical relationships i have ever had were both with married people