Would you sleep with a married person?

I wouldn't. When my wife was having sex with others, one rule was no married men.
 
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When I was single I had a FWB who failed to mention he was married. He was quite a bit younger, which is typically not my thing but the sex, cuddles and conversation was so good I let it continue even after I found out - he said he was separated but honestly I didn't care at that point. Best sex ever!
 
I have and would again. Just be up front about expectations - I'm not leaving my wife for you and I'm don't want you to leave your husband for me.
 
My husband is married and I sleep with him every night.

Somehow I take it that you mean would you sleep with someone that is married to someone else. Yes, if my husband said that I could I would consider it based on various factors. If the guy was in an open marriage. If the guys wife refused to care for his sexual needs and he was looking to me for that kind of comfort I would consider it. But I would need to be sure that his wife really was not sleeping with him. Also, if I knew she was cheating on him then I would do it. Again, only if my husband gave me a green light.
 
Yep ... did and would again. She had/has no interest so found it where it was offered. Had to develop a friendship before so I could trust the person and have a mutual understanding where it was all going.
 
I have on many occasions. I do feel bad for the other party or anyone that has ever been cheated on i am sorry for my part :kiss:
 
Somehow I take it that you mean would you sleep with someone that is married to someone else. Yes, if my husband said that I could I would consider it based on various factors. If the guy was in an open marriage. If the guys wife refused to care for his sexual needs and he was looking to me for that kind of comfort I would consider it. But I would need to be sure that his wife really was not sleeping with him. Also, if I knew she was cheating on him then I would do it. Again, only if my husband gave me a green light.

My husband enjoys watching me with other men. I prefer married men
 
the affair

if you want to preview how it is......watch "the affair" on showtime
it is almost a documentary of an affair that i had
watching it has triggered all kinds of mixed feeling for me

it could have never happened had there not been the amazing attraction and chemistry
but, even though it ended over 10 years ago, it still haunts me constantly

bigger questions are probably: can true love last a lifetime? do people really grow apart? is staying together more a function of adapting and adjusting or just discipline or?

anyway....having lived through 2 affairs over a period of about 25 years, the show the affair pretty well captures all of the different twists and angles involved......

just my 2 cents
 
hey ...

YES!!!
If it was to save a life other than my own.


YES!!!
If it was to end an armed hostage standoff.


YES!!!
If I really, really, really had to AND my wife insisted that I do it.
 
I dont see what not. ppl should be given credit for making decisions. Sure it can lead to bad complications but its upto the individuals to weigh the risk. Its not black and white
 
I dont see what not. ppl should be given credit for making decisions. Sure it can lead to bad complications but its upto the individuals to weigh the risk. Its not black and white

I agree. We all have different reasons for our decisions. This topic has a lot of gray areas.
 
It adds some extra thrill to the experience.. Knowing this person wants you so bad they are willing to break an "oath" they have made in front of all the most important people in their life.. Being wanted that bad is a huge turn on for me.
 
It adds some extra thrill to the experience.. Knowing this person wants you so bad they are willing to break an "oath" they have made in front of all the most important people in their life.. Being wanted that bad is a huge turn on for me.

I couldn’t have said it better!
 
It adds some extra thrill to the experience.. Knowing this person wants you so bad they are willing to break an "oath" they have made in front of all the most important people in their life.. Being wanted that bad is a huge turn on for me.

Yes its the knowing that you're wanted, that they want to feel your needs and make them feel wanted, arousing them to the point where they cant say no and want more again and again
 
I’ve slept with several married men being in the swinger/hotwife lifestyle. I love it when they say I suck cock and fuck better than their wife. Lol 😂
 
There was a time, decades ago, when I was screwing mostly married, separated or recently divorced women.

I was recently divorced myself, and very fit, as a marathon runner. Women wanted me.

I worked at a very large defense plant, with thousands of women available.

One woman took me to lunch and told me her husband hadn't touched her ass in 2 years, and she wanted an affair with me.

Another, my boss, called me into her office and told me to close the door. She said she'd recently gotten divorced
and needed a man for sex.

Then there was one even earlier...I was fresh out of high school. The step mother of my friend told me her husband
didn't mind that she fucked younger guys.

I had another woman when we were in college together. He husband gave her permission to fuck me.

I've dated and fucked several women who were not divorced, but separated from their husbands.

I lost my virginity to a girl who was engaged to be married right after high school. She wanted at least one lover
other than her fiance before she settled into monogamy.
 
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