Wy is it women usually spit while men swallow?

[girlyboyalexa]

thats cos you're a sissy

Damn right I am!

 

[RyeandGingerAyle]

I think you're with the wrong women

What I'm about to write is opinion, not science: we all want our lovers to be out-of-their-minds crazy in lust for us. Seeing a swallow following a bj reinforces that notion, while seeing a spit sends the message that the bj was performed as some sort of distasteful obligation. Immediate downer! To back up this claim, I suggest that some of those spitters would cheerfully swallow for the hunk of their dreams, regardless of any assessment of the taste.

On the other hand, a male sucking off another male is almost by definition a cum-lover...of course he's going to swallow. Getting a bellyfull of cum is almost the whole point!

Okay, this may just be my personal experience but it seems to me most women will suck a man off but will not swallow and spit it out while men will swallow the cum. Is this just my experience or ist it true and why is it?

 

[bicuriousinnnj]

Both genders will swallow if you grab them by the ears and hold tight as you're cumming. Try it...works fairly well.

 

[bigcfrombigd]

spit or swalow

My wife swallows every time so far. so do I. WE have been sucking and fucking guys together for over 18 yrs. She showed me how to deepthroat but I prefer the taste of the cum. Yummy in my Tummy! Bi male 50 in dallas tx.

 

[auslit]

What I'm about to write is opinion, not science: we all want our lovers to be out-of-their-minds crazy in lust for us. Seeing a swallow following a bj reinforces that notion, while seeing a spit sends the message that the bj was performed as some sort of distasteful obligation. Immediate downer! To back up this claim, I suggest that some of those spitters would cheerfully swallow for the hunk of their dreams, regardless of any assessment of the taste.

On the other hand, a male sucking off another male is almost by definition a cum-lover...of course he's going to swallow. Getting a bellyfull of cum is almost the whole point!

Okay, this may just be my personal experience but it seems to me most women will suck a man off but will not swallow and spit it out while men will swallow the cum. Is this just my experience or ist it true and why is it?

untrue in my opinion

 

[sterculius]

I have a slightly different take on the issue. Being a guy, I love my cock. I think an erect cock is an impressively beautiful thing, the essence of masculine power. I would love to be able to suck my own cock but I can't. (I know, I've tried) So I do the next best thing and suck other guys cocks. It's an erotically stimulating and empowering act to be able to bring a man to climax with my mouth and his ejaculation is the manifestation of the orgasm that I was instrumental in causing. By swallowing his semen, I'm absorbing and assimilating the energy of that orgasm!
Besides, I like the way it tastes.

 

[Prime]

It is just a matter of personal preference, I could get into all the behavioral reasoning behind it, but just different things turn on different people. Granted, I haven't done my psych rotation yet, so I'm not the greatest authority in the subject of human behavior.

I'm bi, and depending on the man I'm with, if he cums in my mouth, I will swallow, or I'll have him cum elsewhere. Smoking really does make it taste different, mostly bad. But then, I smoke (yes, I know, terrible habit for a med student) and I've not had complaints from the men or women who do swallow, at least for a second time.

Give me a few hours and I should be able to come up with a few reasons for and against the question.

 

[girlyboyalexa]

Honestly, cum just tastes good, provided the guy doesn't smoke. I have never known there to be a difference in men and women's preferences. Some will suck and swallow, others will spit, people are different.

 

[sunandshadow]

Straight men often think cum is gross, and their girlfriends/wives know this, they don't want their guy to look at them weird for doing something gross. Similarly the fact that a lot of men won't kiss a woman whose mouth has just been on their cock reinforces the idea that blowjobs are nasty, something a woman shouldn't enjoy. BS, all of it. That said, cum tastes really fucking weird, I can imagine some people have a strong urge to spit it out and swallowing might cause a psychosomatic upset stomach.

 

[sterculius]

Straight men often think cum is gross, and their girlfriends/wives know this, they don't want their guy to look at them weird for doing something gross. Similarly the fact that a lot of men won't kiss a woman whose mouth has just been on their cock reinforces the idea that blowjobs are nasty, something a woman shouldn't enjoy. BS, all of it. That said, cum tastes really fucking weird, I can imagine some people have a strong urge to spit it out and swallowing might cause a psychosomatic upset stomach.

I never could understand why guys would look down on someone, man or woman, who was good enough to suck their cock and make them cum. I have always been grateful to all those wonderful cocksuckers who have given me blowjobs in the past. I'm sure that being a dedicated and voracious cocksucker myself influences my perspective somewhat. I'm unable to separate my response to the actual taste and consistency of semen from the knowledge that it's the resulting product of an activity that gives me so much erotic enjoyment. I like the taste and texture of cum specifically because it IS CUM!!!

 

[infinity706]

Straight men often think cum is gross, and their girlfriends/wives know this, they don't want their guy to look at them weird for doing something gross. Similarly the fact that a lot of men won't kiss a woman whose mouth has just been on their cock reinforces the idea that blowjobs are nasty, something a woman shouldn't enjoy. BS, all of it. That said, cum tastes really fucking weird, I can imagine some people have a strong urge to spit it out and swallowing might cause a psychosomatic upset stomach.

Cum isn't really that weird tasting. It reminds me a lot of garlic butter. Pussy is the weird one. I'm not really sure what you can compare it to.

 

[sterculius]

Cum isn't really that weird tasting. It reminds me a lot of garlic butter. Pussy is the weird one. I'm not really sure what you can compare it to.

The taste of cum is really unique. It has been described as salty, like bleach, (who, if anyone, has ever purposely tasted bleach?) with overtones of aspirin. While there are similarities, I, personally, happen to enjoy the flavor of fresh semen from a healthy man. The secretions of a clean pussy, on the other hand, have almost no taste. It has a naturally musky odor, probably due to pheromones, which I also happen to like.

 

[jeff68]

I for one have not noticed a huge difference in the amount of women that don't swallow vs men who do. Obviously someone has noticed a difference, maybe it has somethng to do with the fact that we men always talk about how great it is to get a bj and the giver swallows, so us men are more " in tune" or "pre-programmed" to the swallowing thing. maybe the "locker room" talks and our ego's want us to give a good bj so we tend to swallow dueto the pre programming from our peers.
I have only had one girl that did not swallow and we were young of course there are also those folks that enjoy a big load on their face.
This may sound weird but i don't much care if someone swallows or not as long as the actual bj was good.

Good question I don't think a viable answer will be found...Maybe we should do an intensive study.

 

[texharley]

Straight men often think cum is gross, and their girlfriends/wives know this, they don't want their guy to look at them weird for doing something gross. Similarly the fact that a lot of men won't kiss a woman whose mouth has just been on their cock reinforces the idea that blowjobs are nasty, something a woman shouldn't enjoy. BS, all of it. That said, cum tastes really fucking weird, I can imagine some people have a strong urge to spit it out and swallowing might cause a psychosomatic upset stomach.

Well they are missing out. I alwasy kiss my wife after I cum in her mouth and sometimes I have her spit it in my mouth.