xtremely embaressed about anal

[the_blue_monsta]

hey um im really new to this whole website and am unsure how to search for shit and i have a question so i thort id ask it here and if ther is already a post about it sum1 will direct me ther lol.....

ok the only sexual experience i have is 2 years of bad and unsatisfying sex from the ages 16-18 (i'm 18) with one person and now that im with someone hu i have good sex with......
i have a question about anal...(i'M very green to the whole good sex thing)


i am looking at giving anal a go but am very paraniod about sexual higene and am curious as to how i am meant to essentially.......prepare.......myself for the act lol... yes i really am that green lol

can someone please help me? its something ive never tried but have always been curois about and would like to pleas be as detailed as u can becoz im not that bright and i dont really know what im doing and id like to!!!!!

HELP!!!

love monsta
xox

 

[the_blue_monsta]

14 veiws and no one wants to help me??????

 

[bailadora]

Have a little patience, will ya?

Option 1) Check out the Blank Manual that is stickied at the top of this forum. There's a whole section devoted to the topic of anal.

Option 2) Read this post to learn how to search the forums. Use the word anal in the search string and you'll find tons of information. Best of luck to you and happy reading.

 

[infinity706]

Well, I could tell you, but you'd probably be even more extremely embarassed.

Yeah, go read all the other threads. If you still have questions, come back and I'm sure we'll be able to answer them for you.

 

[rthnck]

search for anal threads

start with the sticky near the top of the forum. You can read about how to search but here's a quick way to get going on your question.

Click the "search" button at the top. Select "advanced search" and on the advanced search screen, make it look like the attached picture. Use the "ctrl" key to select the forms on the right hand side. Click search and you will have more advice than you can shake a penis at. Every thread with anal in the title including this one.

 

[the_blue_monsta]

thanks heaps and thanks for your patience wit me lol still so new to everything lol i've read alot of threads but most i've read are attributed to the actual preparation of lubing up and such

 

[infinity706]

Well, the preparation is really the main issue. The actual fucking isn't really all that much different.

 

[bailadora]

thanks heaps and thanks for your patience wit me lol still so new to everything lol i've read alot of threads but most i've read are attributed to the actual preparation of lubing up and such

So I'm guessing your question has more to do with hygiene? Really, that's going to depend on your preferences. As long as they've had a recent bowel movement, some people are content with a quick soap and water wash of the back passage. Others may be more particular and may prefer to use an anal douche or enema. Really - it's all going to depend on your comfort level of cleanliness.

A few otherf things to keep in mind:

1) Have your partner wear a condom, even if you don't use one for PIV sex. It makes for easier clean up and it also protects him from the possibility of contracting a UTI due to fecal bacteria coming in contact with his urethra.

2) DO NOT go from anal sex directly to vaginal sex without removing the condom or cleaning his penis (if you decide to forgo the condom). Fecal bacteria in the vaginal canal can lead to a nasty and painful vaginal infection. Trust me on this, you do NOT want to go there.

3) If rimming (aka analingus) is going to be part of your activities, you should seriously consider getting vaccinated against Hepatitis A. It's possible to contract Hep A from the minutest amounts of fecal matter, so it pays to protect yourself if you and your partner engage in this without the use of a dental dam.

 

[the_blue_monsta]

wow! thanks bailadora i actually didnt know any of that stuff other than the condom thing. im not stupid but ive led a very shelterd life and my sexual expertise is pretty much...well....virgin esque i would say. thanks heaps to all of you becoz this has helped me out greatly especially boysetsfire u were a great help exactly the answers i was looking for im really happy i joined literotica now becoz i know wat im doin....sorta ahaha!!!

 

[bailadora]

You're welcome. We all have to start somewhere so don't be embarrassed about your lack of knowledge. Lit's a great place to learn about all sorts of things and I've found that for the most part, people are generally very helpful - especially here on the HT board.

BTW - a belated welcome to Lit. I hope you enjoy your stay.

 

[the_blue_monsta]

y thank you so very nice to be here!!!! iv been readin the fiction for over a year yet i only notice last week that ther was a bulletin page thingo lol

 

[rthnck]

Just remember when you do the deed, you have to return and update this thread in excruciating detail about how it went

 

[infinity706]

Well, I could answer, but I got jumped on one time about embarassing the virgin.

 

[the_blue_monsta]

screw you infinity!!! or not hahaha! nah thabnks for all ur help guys and yes ther will be details.
much love
monsta