You can now call me the bionic single Dom
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Ebonyfire
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spott said:
I told my daughter to cremate me and throw me on the roses. To spend the minimum or I will haunt her till the day she dies. If she wanted to be whimsical, she could buy an urn, and put me in it and keep me on the mantle. Every year, on my birthday throw in a hershey's kiss.
Ebonyfire said:
originally, I wanted to be scattered. It doesn't make any difference. why have a place to go mope? a hundred years from now, what difference does it make? That is what we did with my first daughter. I don't know where or when or anything. we donated the body to the medical school, after which time they finish they cremate all the human remains and scatter on hallowed grounds, so....
Rapid vs slow oxidation...your choice
-spott
Richard49 said:
NORMALLY????hahahha..funny guy!
Well, put a pair aside somewhere....when my brother the biker died (OD), it really pissed my mother off to have to go buy jockey shorts in a pack of three...Stupid state law says you have to have underwear on...I can only surmise why, but my imagination runs rampant.
-spott
Richard49 said:
ah but see... sometimes we divorce in haste and really miss the old bugger...some old shorts would be so comforting, some of those smelly sox rolled into those cute little balls you men like to make of them...sock bunnies...throw in a couple of old beer cans and a few ciggybutts...yeah, I could see these selling....NOT!
-spott
who likes her living room unfestooned with man-trash
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DisGirlisNutz
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yIf you get cremated you can alway's be turned into a diamond.
Hi Richard! I remembered I stopped by quite a while ago, and have been derelict about returning here. My apologies!
It's good to see/meet Spott - I've had a few good laughs this afternoon!
Richard, I can feel your pain and your loneliness, and I truly wish there was more I could do than type words on a cold computer screen. But know that I do think of you and send you positive thoughts. I have an uncle with a very bad heart and diabetes and a problem with his liver. He also has an anuerism (sp??) on his hear that they are waiting to operate on. He could go at any moment, and I always admire his quiet strength. I can see that strength in you as well. (Though I doubt you will admit to that, correct?)
Anyway, I just wanted to drop in and say "hello." And ask if you would like to share a cup of virtual coffee sometime.
Take care, hon. Lots here admire you and like you, just remember that!
It's good to see/meet Spott - I've had a few good laughs this afternoon!
Richard, I can feel your pain and your loneliness, and I truly wish there was more I could do than type words on a cold computer screen. But know that I do think of you and send you positive thoughts. I have an uncle with a very bad heart and diabetes and a problem with his liver. He also has an anuerism (sp??) on his hear that they are waiting to operate on. He could go at any moment, and I always admire his quiet strength. I can see that strength in you as well. (Though I doubt you will admit to that, correct?
)Anyway, I just wanted to drop in and say "hello." And ask if you would like to share a cup of virtual coffee sometime.
Take care, hon. Lots here admire you and like you, just remember that!
Richard49
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SexyChele said:He could go at any moment, and I always admire his quiet strength. I can see that strength in you as well. (Though I doubt you will admit to that, correct?
Anyway, I just wanted to drop in and say "hello." And ask if you would like to share a cup of virtual coffee sometime.
Take care, hon. Lots here admire you and like you, just remember that!
I wish I knew how to do the thing where you can break a post up and answer parts in a row in the same post ..... people have tried to expalin and I am to dense
Spott is a special online friend of mine .. we have know each other for a couple of years ... online... we just recently found we were/are both in the life style
She is fun .. but also has some good mental health stuff...
I do not see myself with any or at lest much strength
quite or other wise
I often see myself as a whinner
I have spent a lot of energy
the last couple of years
trying to learn to do the next right thing for the next right reason
and feel I have failed terrible
I would love coffee with you any time
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Richard49
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On this thread yesterday there was some nive play,
laughter and I got some warm fuzzes ...
It was a beautiful destraction for me
Today I am trying ot help spott find out info on
how veterans are getting screwed
I am fighting a bad depression
bad bad bad
I even called one of those TV preachers pray lines
The greatd fear I ever had in my life
no second greatest fear
was/is dying alone
oh well
laughter and I got some warm fuzzes ...
It was a beautiful destraction for me
Today I am trying ot help spott find out info on
how veterans are getting screwed
I am fighting a bad depression
bad bad bad
I even called one of those TV preachers pray lines
The greatd fear I ever had in my life
no second greatest fear
was/is dying alone
oh well
Richard49 said:
OK, so let's talk about fear. We all have it, you know. Dying alone is one of my fears too. I kind of romanticized my ideal death: I would like to die with my face in the hands of someone who loves me, someone who would be near and shepherd me out of this life into the next. Yes, I believe there is a life beyond this one, otherwise what a shitty joke this all is...besides, even the Pope has said that Hell is a condition, not an actual place, and that's a whole 'nuther thread...
Hey, I've screwed veterans...but only in the nicest way
Current partner (and my last) is retired USN... and believe it or not, we've not had any kind of sex with each other...even. We have discussed it and it's worse than being a teenager again... the aangst.. am I good enough... will he be disappointed?...do I remember what leg it is under?I don't know who is here and reading along, but I think we can talk about this for a little while...is part of life and therefore part of lifestyle.
-spott
should I put my picture up here?
Richard49 said:
Then you need new friends
You might be surprised how many people show up at funerals, if for no other reason than the red jello with bananas afterwards.
People need funerals, or a memorial service, to celebrate a life that has been lived. It puts closure. It allows people to remember and reconnect. Memorial services can be kind of kewl...
-spott
Richard49
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Miss T is a switch
My experience and Desire is that a sub is a woman who is very intelligent, strong and assertive in her vanilla life, often a leader ... who needs to give all that up to be lead and taken care of to get to those times of erotic relaxation. I think of it as a kind of 'switching' ... She is 'Dom' in her public life and has a strong need to be 'sub' in her private life.
My experience and Desire is that a sub is a woman who is very intelligent, strong and assertive in her vanilla life, often a leader ... who needs to give all that up to be lead and taken care of to get to those times of erotic relaxation. I think of it as a kind of 'switching' ... She is 'Dom' in her public life and has a strong need to be 'sub' in her private life.
