Your biggest turn off...

this was not indicated by the original poster. she simply asked:

So tell us:

What are your biggest turn OFFS?


i'm not speaking for anyone but myself but i took that to mean "in general".

To turn OFF implies something is ON already ... what ever :)
 
Insecurity. If a man doesn't truly believe that he's awesome, then I'm not interested in knowing him, and certainly not interested in sleeping with him.
 
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Stuff that turns me off:

  • Poor sandwich-making technique
  • Inability to stop talking long enough for a decent blowjob
  • Leaping off the bed mid-coitus to show me your new shoes
  • Trying to convnce me that Justin Timberlake is straight. Eepecially when we're in bed. Same goes for Ricky Martin. Or Enrique.
  • Repeatedly trying to convince me that the vibrator in your bedside unit was a gift you've never used when I want to use it on you or watch you use it on yourself. Also, the half-packet of batteries is merely coincidence.
  • Asking me to take pictures of you doing nasty rude things to me or me doing them to you, then freaking out and making me delete them before I can switch the memory cards.
  • Not getting out of bed afterwards quick enough to make me another sandwich.

That's all I can think of for now, but I'm sure there's more.... ;)
 
To turn OFF implies something is ON already ... what ever :)

with all due respect, sir... behaviors have the capability of turning a woman on or off to the possibility of a relationship (meaning the dating phase) or to being intimate.

when you're on a date with someone new, and they are talking with a mouth full of food.. this can be a turn off for someone.

if their breath smells like the ninth level of hell, this can be a turn off.

with the same respect, someone might be turned off by the idea of using handcuffs in bed.

it's not my intent to have an unpleasant exchange with you, but again... the original poster did not indicate if the turn offs were to be sexual in nature. so forgive me for being too literal, but i thought it was meant as a general question.

my apologies.
 
Huh?

Stupid men turn you off?

Now, see there's another one...men in general turn me off...
I think the world would be a much better place if I were the only man left in it.

I'd like to see the faces of some of those women who said "not if you were the last man on earth" too.

:D
 
chavscum females who insist on wearing tracksuits from primark .....bad language, kids from all and sundry ....and who obviously dont have mirrors in their houses !!
 
Now, see there's another one...men in general turn me off...
I think the world would be a much better place if I were the only man left in it.

I'd like to see the faces of some of those women who said "not if you were the last man on earth" too.

:D
wishing Lit had a "LIKE" button for posts such as these.



One of my biggest turn offs is when someone spends their time and energy being cold hearted
and mean, just because they can---As if it makes them seem stronger, or bigger than the other person. I won't tolerate that from anybody.
 
wishing Lit had a "LIKE" button for posts such as these.



One of my biggest turn offs is when someone spends their time and energy being cold hearted
and mean, just because they can---As if it makes them seem stronger, or bigger than the other person. I won't tolerate that from anybody.

tis not facebook dear ....I agree with you though !!
 
Willful ignorance... you know, the people who take pride in how uninformed they are. :rolleyes:

Lateness.

Men who are too well put together make me a tad nervous.

Lack of sense of humor... and i mean a crude, inappropriate sense of humor.

Laziness. (I'm lazy enough for both of us.)

Angry or maudlin drunks. Why drink unless it makes your cheerful and horny?

Too much cologne....or any really. What are you hiding?
 
Smells, I'm very attuned to smells...

Interruptions

People who don't play the game.
 
Turn offs both general and in dating:

Arrogance- nothing is lamer than someone talking about how great they are.

Dishonesty- seriously, don't do this shit. I hate liars.

humorless- if you get offended about EVERYTHING we just can't hang

Rude to service people- you realize they're gonna spit in our food now, right?

Won't stop talking about their ex.

Receiving a phone call from an ex (this happened to me once. They talked for ten minutes. It was very awkward and kind of hurtful.)

Talking about a recent hook-up- look, I know you're not a nun and I'm not judging but turn our date into 'Little Red Corvette' by Prince
 
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