Your Purpose for Chastity...?

[Downfor]

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So very true!

 

[Nomad69888]

Indulge me, tell me why you do chastity - the one major reason.

As a Domme, I use chastity for my own pleasure - not to stifle my sub's arousal, but to intensify it. I'm a sexual sadist, after all.

But I've always been fascinated as to why men want it, and even do it on their own. As I've become to understand chastity from a man's pov, I've found that there are seven typical reasons he does it. Do any of these listed below resonate with you? Or is there another reason...?

1. You are in a sexless relationship and chastity helps you survive it.

2. You need to maintain your arousal so you can be more attentive to your partner.

3. You feel undeserving or hate arousal and want to make your appendage shrink and become dysfunctional. (Perhaps you are a sissy or a slave...?)

4. You want to be feminine/female and chastity puts away your masculinity.

5. You don't have anyone in your life and chastity is a way you can play with your sexuality on your own.

6. You like the bling... it makes you feel sexy and it goes well with your fem outfits or helps create the look you want. (Perhaps to attract D-types and men.)

7. You have a Dominant that commands you to be in chastity.

Cheers

Second one feels right to me

 

[Simee72]

Indulge me, tell me why you do chastity - the one major reason.

As a Domme, I use chastity for my own pleasure - not to stifle my sub's arousal, but to intensify it. I'm a sexual sadist, after all.

But I've always been fascinated as to why men want it, and even do it on their own. As I've become to understand chastity from a man's pov, I've found that there are seven typical reasons he does it. Do any of these listed below resonate with you? Or is there another reason...?

1. You are in a sexless relationship and chastity helps you survive it.

2. You need to maintain your arousal so you can be more attentive to your partner.

3. You feel undeserving or hate arousal and want to make your appendage shrink and become dysfunctional. (Perhaps you are a sissy or a slave...?)

4. You want to be feminine/female and chastity puts away your masculinity.

5. You don't have anyone in your life and chastity is a way you can play with your sexuality on your own.

6. You like the bling... it makes you feel sexy and it goes well with your fem outfits or helps create the look you want. (Perhaps to attract D-types and men.)

7. You have a Dominant that commands you to be in chastity.

Cheers

Has to be No.1 for me. Being in a heightened state of arousal is more fun when your marriage is dead.

 

[Goldenfinger]

7. You have a Dominant that commands you to be in chastity.

#7 there’s something very erotic about giving control to my wife. She love the control and that all erections are for her and by her control.

But it not that she commands it. I gave it to her.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I think it's 4 and 7.

The need to be feminine, and the need to have your clitty locked away and controlled by a (trans) Domme.

 

[9to5]

2. You need to maintain your arousal so you can be more attentive to your partner.

I would say this is most important. I enjoy being in chastity to be kept horny and wanting. Will give pleasure for being kept like this. Not knowing when I will be released and if orgasm would be allowed.
its a great feeling being locked

 

[BigSissyBre]

2 4 and 7
Being put in chastity just feels so right

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

To give control to my partner

 

[wifes_fag]

I was put in chastity by one of our bulls. He wanted to make sure I didn't fuck my wife so she would be ready for him. We were in our mid twenties. It worked too. He would let me out after he fucked the hell out of my wife. Then they would lay and watch me jack off and catch my cum and drink it. Then back in. They used it to condition me to become his sissy girl too. You will do anything to get out after a while. I was surprised my wife went along with it but she seemed to enjoy it. Lasted almost 3 years.

 

[switchersm]

I was catched by a video in the web of an elder couple, that practiced the husband's chastity with a cock cage. The hubby was naked on bed. His wife opened his cage and very slowly stroke his erect cock. After around 10 minutes she asked "Would you like to cum, sweetie?" He answered "Yes please" and she said "Let me think, when it was your last time. Oh, yes, it was recently, just a month ago. So no orgasm for you today. I think, I add another month, .....long pause....minimum."
My cock wanted to burst, the two words "recently and minimum" made me stroke my cock furiously and I exploded very fast.
I was totally fascinated and couldn't get her words out of my brain. I searched where to buy a cock cage . That wasn't so easy as today at that time, but I finally found a shop and bought a cage. After some time I talked with my wife, showed her the video and asked her to keep me caged. I told her about my fascination of recently and minimum and she laughed and meant, I wouldn't held through a week. I begged her to prove it. She thought 2 weeks about it and then proposed a 6 months test. Since then our sexlife has changed totally . I'm permanently caged in 17th year now, also pussy free. I love the constant arousal, her control and denial. She has reduced my orgasms from year to year to zero in August 2020. She's developed to more dominant inclusive a regularly spanking. I'm very attentive, polite and caring. Much more focused on her needs as before . She satisfies all my submissive desires. And I not only see cock cages as chastity devices but also as intimate jewelry . I like the look and have no shame to wear them at nudist beaches and in public mixed sauna resorts (we live in Germany , its not so prude and intolerant as in US). Women have told me, they like the look abd that it looks much better as a PA piercing for example.

 

[Boat1]

I put my cage on yesterday afternoon, strictly for "moral support" for my Goddess Wife, who is currently going through a tough time.
It wasn't done as play, punishment, nor even in a sexual nature. I'm 600 miles away, at work, rendering me unable to hold Her, help Her, pet and nurture Her, or reassure Her.
I will remain caged until She has worked through it and I know that She's OK.
It's all I could come up with to do for Her. We truly are "one" and if She's hurting, I'm hurting.

 

[subdudeme13]

I put my cage on yesterday afternoon, strictly for "moral support" for my Goddess Wife, who is currently going through a tough time.
It wasn't done as play, punishment, nor even in a sexual nature. I'm 600 miles away, at work, rendering me unable to hold Her, help Her, pet and nurture Her, or reassure Her.
I will remain caged until She has worked through it and I know that She's OK.
It's all I could come up with to do for Her. We truly are "one" and if She's hurting, I'm hurting.

Wishing her luck and that you get home soon to help care for her! Be well out there, I imagine it is cold in the Gulf too.

 

[9to5]

I put my cage on yesterday afternoon, strictly for "moral support" for my Goddess Wife, who is currently going through a tough time.
It wasn't done as play, punishment, nor even in a sexual nature. I'm 600 miles away, at work, rendering me unable to hold Her, help Her, pet and nurture Her, or reassure Her.
I will remain caged until She has worked through it and I know that She's OK.
It's all I could come up with to do for Her. We truly are "one" and if She's hurting, I'm hurting.

I hope for the best for both of you

 

[Boat1]

Wishing her luck and that you get home soon to help care for her! Be well out there, I imagine it is cold in the Gulf too.

Thank you sir!
Yes, it's been pretty cold.... but it's nothing compared to the helpless feeling of being apart at a time like this.

 

[Boat1]

I hope for the best for both of you

I thank you very much and will pass along your kind words to Her!

 

[Pliantjoed]

Indulge me, tell me why you do chastity - the one major reason.

As a Domme, I use chastity for my own pleasure - not to stifle my sub's arousal, but to intensify it. I'm a sexual sadist, after all.

But I've always been fascinated as to why men want it, and even do it on their own. As I've become to understand chastity from a man's pov, I've found that there are seven typical reasons he does it. Do any of these listed below resonate with you? Or is there another reason...?

I think for me it’s to put away the distraction and maintain focus. Knowing my cock is locked up helps me forget about my own desires and focus on the task at hand. I work from home so there are a thousand distractions a day that I could use to head off and relieve myself. The cage takes that temptation away.

 

[bjlatx]

I like the way the cages make my little dick look. I have one that inverts nearly 2 inches, which I love. We aren’t into the dom/keyholder thing, but she will make sure I’m caged when she goes on a date and won’t let me out to reclaim her until I’ve cleaned her properly.

 

[Boat1]

@9to5 and @subdudeme13
My Goddess Wife is waaaaay better and said to tell you both "Thank you for the well wishes!"
...as do I!
P.S. I'm now, uncaged and fully edged, so we're both better.
I'm not worth a damn for ANYTHING when my Lovely Goddess is feeling down.

 

[Justusnluv]

Chastity for me is a powerful tool in am a firm believer every wife should cage her husband. It stops cheating. More importantly after a week or two a transformation begins for him well, me.

I stopped being an ass. I stopped looking at women's sex objects. I started showing much more respect for my wife and every other woman in my life.

The weight is a constant reminder that im owned and loved.

I recommend one month to begin. My longest is 6 months

 

[9to5]

1 month is a long start if you never wore one. but if that what she wants you got to try

 

[Justusnluv]

1 month is a long start if you never wore one. but if that what she wants you got to try

The best part quickly becomes the pain as your body struggles to become erect. Just bear it out. Soon you will crave that feeling

 

[9to5]

The best part quickly becomes the pain as your body struggles to become erect. Just bear it out. Soon you will crave that feeling

I love that feeling of my trying to get harder it only gets a 1/4 more room inside at times

 

[Justusnluv]

I love that feeling of my trying to get harder it only gets a 1/4 more room inside at times

Exquisite isn't it

 

[9to5]

yes and waking to morning wood. now if I can only get her to control the key

 

[Justusnluv]

Someone needs to hold it