/¤/ Submissive Men, Tell Us What You Like About Dominant Women \¤\

[Erochic]

Hmm as someone who is inexperienced in being a sub, I'd have to say the allure is the lust or hunger you would see in her eyes. Being looked at like she wants to eat you up, you're a piece of meat, the knowledge that not only will she take her pleasure from you but also that she will give you yours in ways that you never thought of.

Also facesitting. I like that.

Mmm.... I like your explanation, and I like that you are posting in threads.

I know my subs like the way I smile happily - and yes hungrily- as I look at them, contemplating what I would like to do that will give me and them the greatest pleasure.

Yeah... Facesitting is good

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Hmm as someone who is inexperienced in being a sub, I'd have to say the allure is the lust or hunger you would see in her eyes. Being looked at like she wants to eat you up, you're a piece of meat, the knowledge that not only will she take her pleasure from you but also that she will give you yours in ways that you never thought of.

Also facesitting. I like that.

hahaha


Brownie, this is Erochic. Erochic, Brownie. (lol)

he's wonderfully articulate, isn't he?

 

[HardCaramel]

hahaha


Brownie, this is Erochic. Erochic, Brownie. (lol)

he's wonderfully articulate, isn't he?

You're so sweet introducing me to people!

You're also flattering me ... they need a blushing emoticon thingy here

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

not enough sleep to articulate properly...

One of the things I remember that attracted me to submission... perhaps THE thing, was that it gave me a chance, as the submissive, to be the sex object. A chance to be overwhelmed by another person so much that the rest of the world doesn't matter, and to feel sexy, lusted after, by that person, and drown out the world that tells me nobody wants to look at male bodies, that anything less than ripped is just repulsive, and makes a punchline of my physicality.

{hug}

most of the women I know like to look at all sorts of body types. for me, if I like a man as a person, then i'm going to find him attractive. the better I like him, the more attractive he becomes.

You're so sweet introducing me to people!

You're also flattering me ... they need a blushing emoticon thingy here

aww... I know it can be tough trying to get to know people in a new place. just trying to be friendly is all.

and I think you found it!

 

[ShyGuy1855]

If my greatest pleasure comes from seeing you lost in yours, then it'd probably have to be the emotional connection just knowing I gave you that feeling.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

their ability to think of their own desires.

 

[Veroe]

Quite simply knowing what she wants and being absolutely comfortable with that. That sort of confidence is what's sexy in dominants of both sexes, but for me, its especially true for dominant women.

Too often in any relationship I get the sense that the woman doesn't know what they want or even afraid of learning what that is much less expressing it. So they leave all the pressure on the guy.

Like 50 shades...despite there being a lot of better written books in that genre it was the one that broke out into mainstream consciousness. I think its because so many women identify with the character of Anastasia Steele. Who didn't know what she wanted so just went along with what Christian Grey wanted. That sort of indecision was a big turn off for me, and also the grammatical errors, and poor character development...but I digress.

So a woman who knows what she wants and is okay with it.

 

[babyjane20011]

It's more about control and someone exerting it over you. I just recently got turned on by an email from The Stockroom which featured pictures of Joanna Angel for their new bdsm line. She is a hot looking 4 foot 11 inches and had a guy on a leash. It was such a turn on to see a picture of a very hot short woman dominating an obviously larger guy with a leash. Whew was that hot.

hi I sent u a message

 

[xanitos360]

I Gotta say for me it's the fact that I can't show her I love her any better. That I would do ridiculous and exhausting and degrading and sometimes painful things just for her enjoyment. Not mention that's a two way street. The fact that she sees a guy she would love regardless do these things and even give her ideas, makes her so damn happy and seeing her face and the love in her eyes about it, it's the best thing in the world. It's not about the play and the things you do its about what a loving bond it creates. She would never really hurt me. And I mean REALLY hurt me. She would never break my heart. I wouldn't dream of it. That kind of trust in the face of a woman with a bit of a sadistic streak, full control, and her hand on my balls is terrifyingly awesome.

 

[Curio100]

To be honest, a lot of my job involves making important decisions, supervising others, being a "boss," etc., so I love the notion of just "letting go" and having someone be the boss of me instead. It's a way for my mind to relax and not be responsible in a way, even if only temporarily.

Additionally, there is nothing sexier to me than a woman who really just knows what she wants and is confident in that regard. When a female can tell me what she really wants and essentially "take it," there isn't a bigger turn on for me.

There is also just something so exciting about seeing this smaller, quieter (in public anyway) woman just flip the switch and realize the power she holds over you.

 

[switchersm]

consequence

Or...how you enjoy serving your dominant woman, and why.

Now's your chance, guys!

Women are mostly more consequent, like my wife is. Once she decided to follow and aggree my wish to be kept chaste by her, she warned me that there will be no backout. So I wear different cock cages all day and night. opening is only every morning when I shower while she is drying her hair and watching. I wear different metal cock cages and change them every two days to prevent pressure marks. no more wanking and cumming is reduced more and more, six times the first year, four last, two this and my last will be next year. she has also added a very rough sundays spanking to prevent me from to much whining for release.
In fact I she does what she says,strict with all consequences and I can totally rely on her.

 

[whenagain]

As a switch, I love the sly look on a woman's face as she starts to tke control, with a phrase or subtle action. Drives me crazy with desire.

 

[rm1969]

What I like about my Dominant woman is her confidence. She knows what she likes, what she wants and is not afraid to speak her mind. I like her imagination and willingness to try new things. I like that she is always learning new things and pushes to get me to try something new as well.

 

[LadyVer]

Interesting thread. I'm glad I finally saw it. Just saying.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

Interesting thread. I'm glad I finally saw it. Just saying.

I'm glad you found it too. I like talking about the way a dominant woman can get me to do things with just a suggestion or a written instruction that pushes my limit of what I think I can endure. The threat of punishment may be implied or explicit, but mainly, I just want to please Her as She uses the control she has over me to take me to new levels of pleasure.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Interesting thread. I'm glad I finally saw it. Just saying.

many thanks to the fellas who keep giving it a bump.

 

[john7771]

Hi Honey....hmmm ...it is fun to anticipate what is next when the woman is in control; )

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Hi Honey....hmmm ...it is fun to anticipate what is next when the woman is in control; )

hi John hope you are well.

 

[john7771]

hi John hope you are well.

I'm fine thanks...I actually had some honey wine last night

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'm fine thanks...I actually had some honey wine last night

sweet!