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[Wild_Honey_66]

A question for the crossdressers:

When you change clothes, do you change personas as well? Your voice, body language, behavior?

 

[diaperedtiffany]

A question for the crossdressers:

When you change clothes, do you change personas as well? Your voice, body language, behavior?

I do but I do not get to dress enough. Certainly the body language, very prim and proper. Behavior becomes submissive and effeminate. My voice needs some work, but I feel Tiffany is going to have the cutest lisp when she finally develops!

 

[diaperedtiffany]

Lol. Well firstly sex would have to happen
But she is a very vanilla person.
Lights off, under cover, etc.

Play means something different for me I guess. Play does not equal sex for me. Play can certainly be erotic and lead to sex, but I read your initial post as if you were allowed to cross dress, but couldn’t during fetish play. I get it now. Will she allow you to cross dress in her presence?

 

[Pantyboy74]

A question for the crossdressers:

When you change clothes, do you change personas as well? Your voice, body language, behavior?

I have been known to change personas in the past.
My alt is Morgan. She is a bit of a cock slut. But hasn't done anything yet. Her fantasy is to be forced to service a "Real man" for her mistress!

Something that has become apparent more recently, when I am unable to fullfil the desire to dress, I become more and more of a brat.

Play means something different for me I guess. Play does not equal sex for me. Play can certainly be erotic and lead to sex, but I read your initial post as if you were allowed to cross dress, but couldn’t during fetish play. I get it now. Will she allow you to cross dress in her presence?

Sorry for the confusion, no fetplay here ever!
Yes I can dress in her presence infact she has bought a lot of the lingerie I wear.

 

[LizVegas79]

Or maybe this!
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=88796997&postcount=153

Maybe like half a dozen or so suspended basket chairs like these around a nice big soft (fake) fur rug where exhibitions of "art" and other things/love pets can be admired?


A public play area huh? Hmmm … interesting ….


(* so subscribed btw * )

 

[PenLightStories]

I'm up for a domestic contract type situation with my wife but I don't know if she understands how it would work. The dominant person has to be able to keep the submissive person enticed. It's not just taking a holiday while the other person does everything. Ideas?

 

[cookiecat]

I'm up for a domestic contract type situation with my wife but I don't know if she understands how it would work. The dominant person has to be able to keep the submissive person enticed. It's not just taking a holiday while the other person does everything. Ideas?

Wouldn't a contract sum it up for each person so you both know how it works?

That being said, why a contract?? Why not just a fun kinky relationship with lots of communication about likes, dislikes, what works, what doesn't.

I totally disagree with the dominant keeping the sub enticed - that sounds like the sub IS taking a holiday waiting for the Dom to do something.

If you're looking for ideas on how to get started - is your wife currently dominant in your relationship now??? Is this totally out of left field for her??

 

[PenLightStories]

Wouldn't a contract sum it up for each person so you both know how it works?

That being said, why a contract?? Why not just a fun kinky relationship with lots of communication about likes, dislikes, what works, what doesn't.

I totally disagree with the dominant keeping the sub enticed - that sounds like the sub IS taking a holiday waiting for the Dom to do something.

If you're looking for ideas on how to get started - is your wife currently dominant in your relationship now??? Is this totally out of left field for her??

I'm currently doing a lot around our house due to her situation. It's nothing bad, it's just what I need to do if I want our house in good shape. She used to take a lot more sexual initiative with me but that has waned some, and I'm probably a little to blame.

If I just outright told her I wanted something like a contract, it would be a surprise. I was hoping to at least work her up toward a kinky relationship over time.

That's why I would say gentle dom (if I'm getting it right) is the right idea. I don't want to be completely emasculated. I did like that she used to be the one who initiated things like tying me up and leaving me for a few minutes before sex. I would like to get her to be more aggressive or take more initiative, again. That I can talk about, it's just that now isn't the perfect time for various reasons.

 

[Victoria_theginger]

I'd like it with 2 sugars and a splash of milk please. Not british but still love tea!

 

[Erlind]

I take a moment to make the tea, bringing over the tray with everything to where Victoria is. Then, after adding the two sugars and splash of milk, I offer the bone white china tea cup to Victoria.

It's been a bit since you asked, but I thought you might still want this.

 

[bluekitty69]

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[Wild_Honey_66]

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Above pic found at the below site, called femdom-resource:

http://www.femdom-resource.com/tag/crop/

 

[Erlind]

Wonderful find. Thank you for sharing it.

 

[JaneRamsey]

Hola and Welcome, one and all, to The Pit! (Sounds kinky, no? )

I'd love for this to be a place for casual conversation about Gentle FemDom, related subjects, and everyday chit chat. Everyone is welcome, no-one is required to specify how (or if) they identify as sub, Dom/Domme, switch, vanilla, or raspberry! I want this place to accessible, welcoming, and chilllll.

What's a raspberry?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Huffpost podcast on male chastity devices
https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_57069afce4b0b90ac271825f

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

What's a raspberry?

I made it up

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I have a lot of fun channeling the cool and disdainful Miss Grey,

From Jane Austen's Sense And Sensibility.​

 

[boo56]

Stopped by. Wearing my lounge pants with a snifter of warm brandy.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

sexually tart?

~ ~ ~

In fact, i just decided; it's me. I'm a raspberry.

Stopped by. Wearing my lounge pants with a snifter of warm brandy.

Hi!

 

[Erlind]

Seems I haven't seen you in a while, Miss Wild Honey. Your avatar is just lovely.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Seems I haven't seen you in a while, Miss Wild Honey. Your avatar is just lovely.

Yes, I've been away. I'm moody about which side of the slash i want to think about.

I've gotten several compliments on my avatar, thank you! Her name is London Andrews. Gorgeous, isn't she? I like her figure, and her attitude.

 

[Erlind]

London Andrews. I'll have to look into her, because you're right.

So, how are you feeling tonight?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

London Andrews. I'll have to look into her, because you're right.

So, how are you feeling tonight?

I've had better weeks. And you?

 

[Erlind]

I've had better weeks. And you?

It's been a long week, but I can't complain too much really. I'm here and relaxing for a bit.