A Dom's responsibilities

[Netzach]

Many times I think you have guy brain.

This is not one of those times.

I agree.

masturbation > coyote ugly on any level.

Maybe I just like masturbating more than most people?

 

[DVS]

This was beautiful. Honestly. This is exactly what I'd want from my world. Maybe with some more gayness, and a little less pubic hair than you probably recall, but overall, it makes me happy to see someone who appreciates people being sexual, period, and a climate set up for same.

It really was a different place and time. And yes, that included pubic hair...none of it even manicured!

When I lived in Atlanta, some of the women were so um...free that they didn't shave their legs and some didn't shave under their arms. I guess it was a summer humidity thing...to relieve chafing.

 

[JMohegan]

I agree.

masturbation > coyote ugly on any level.

Maybe I just like masturbating more than most people?

Well that's a distracting rhetorical, no question.

 

[JMohegan]

it's that she doesn't have guy genitals. A plastic peen can't drive its user forward with ejaculatory incentives. She gets all the hard work without getting the big bang under those circs.

It's not just about the big bang.

It's also sexual curiosity. Each woman looks, tastes, smells, moves, and sounds different in bed.

It's also conquest. Or rather, the illusion of conquest in the guy's head.

That's basic fucking. Attraction to the female's persona or character is totally optional.

 

[Stella_Omega]

It's not just about the big bang.

It's also sexual curiosity. Each woman looks, tastes, smells, moves, and sounds different in bed.

It's also conquest. Or rather, the illusion of conquest in the guy's head.

That's basic fucking. Attraction to the female's persona or character is totally optional.

Sure, if you say so.

But I'm betting that absent the big bang most men wouldn't be quite so curious about women they don't like in any other way.

Moving your hips back and forth is a lotta work in most positions-- masked, for men, by the stimulation of the penis-- me with a strapon, I don't get no masking.

 

[JMohegan]

Sure, if you say so.

But I'm betting that absent the big bang most men wouldn't be quite so curious about women they don't like in any other way.

Moving your hips back and forth is a lotta work in most positions-- masked, for men, by the stimulation of the penis-- me with a strapon, I don't get no masking.

Are you kidding? Men watching porn = men satisfying curiosity about women they don't like in any other way. With self-inflicted release.

But getting back to casual fucking, I didn't say it's not about the big bang. I said it's not just about the big bang. That's my point.

And it's not work "masked" by stimulation so much as a total body endeavor. I'm not sure how to explain this; possibly someone with a real dick and greater facility with words can put it better.

 

[eastern sun]

Are you kidding? Men watching porn = men satisfying curiosity about women they don't like in any other way. With self-inflicted release.

But getting back to casual fucking, I didn't say it's not about the big bang. I said it's not just about the big bang. That's my point.

And it's not work "masked" by stimulation so much as a total body endeavor. I'm not sure how to explain this; possibly someone with a real dick and greater facility with words can put it better.

I don't have a real dick, but I think I still get what you're saying. Because new men are as interesting to me as the women are to you. There is genuine pleasure in the novelty of discovering a new body, a new sexuality, a new "me" in the interaction between us.

With the exception of people I meet initially on the internet (and even then I sometimes violate my own rule), I have always fucked on the first date. And the majority of those fucks turned into some kind of ongoing relationship.

And it is only with the people I met on the internet that we talked about sex before having it. Most of my sexual relationships are a learn-as-you-go endeavor.

But I'm also the one that is more likely to go wherever you're going, if you know what I mean.

 

[firenzi]

I realize this is heresy in an age when everyone's supposed to broadcast their sexual ID and comprehensive list of Will/Won't Do on some profile or whatever, but there you have it. No.

So much this. I've never been a fan of sexual resumes or drawn out discussions about sex before having sex. I always feel like I'm in the minority on that, but I really don't want to share or be told all the details by a potential future partner. I'd rather discover them for myself.

 

[Mjlonir97]

having a dick I
I sometimes tend to think that most people see somthing they are attracted to in another person and draw uppon the unknown mystery of having sexual interaction with them

. This does not hide the fact that actual sexual questions may just be about the big bang and good casual fuck. For some the expierence from beginning to end can be about discovery of many things internal and external .

The wholepenis is easy to ignore if you want so you can enjoy everything else like sound,color,emotion smell & FEET

 

[Que]

it is for me. Some kinds of stupid never grow old.

Its like panning for gold in your bathwater and seeing a little color at the bottom of the tub when I run across a little gem.

This thread was an atrocious mess, then suddenly it turned on a dime and became a little dialogue gem like one of those scenes in a 60's movie where the camera moves about a crowd at a cocktail soiree and you catch interesting snippets of conversation amoung the adults now that the kids are safely tucked in.

Very true. Much better to fuck while you're planning the first date.

I have policy of admitting each and every time something makes my mirth audible.

it's that she doesn't have guy genitals. A plastic peen can't drive its user forward with ejaculatory incentives. She gets all the hard work without getting the big bang under those circs.

Is it wrong to want to have mine removed AND buy a strap-on?