A Question to Online DSers

[incubus'_sub]

Now that's a good point and one I hadn't thought of before.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: This should be obvious

...It's not something I could not think up in real life, but talking dirty *is* an art...

Boy, is that the truth. And one art form I have never been good at. I've even bought books to "teach" me how to do it... LMAO

 

[FungiUg]

Re: This should be obvious

[...]talking dirty *is* an art, and I don't feel like I'm better at it only because my partners happen to be in the room with me. I have vocally trained several over the phone to certain tasks and responses prior to meeting. I think we can all stand to value verbalization in our scenes and relationships.

No argument. Verbalisation is really important, and good on-line or phone play helps learning to verbalise.

I will stress that some of us find it harder to "get into the scene" without someone there to directly interrelate to. That means that verbalisation can be VERY different from real life to on-line or on the phone.

Also, having to describe actions can be... frustrating. It's hard to describe than just DO.

So while I personally know that online play would improve my verbalisation skills (such as talking dirty), the frustration levels involved make it nigh to impossible for me to actually do it.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Re: This should be obvious

Boy, is that the truth. And one art form I have never been good at. I've even bought books to "teach" me how to do it... LMAO

want me ta teach ya darlin'?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: Re: Re: This should be obvious

want me ta teach ya darlin'?

You've taught me so many things.
Oh, to only be as wise as you.... ;-D

(I mean that in all seriousness.)

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Re: Re: Re: This should be obvious

You've taught me so many things.
Oh, to only be as wise as you.... ;-D

(I mean that in all seriousness.)

im not so wise...lol this you know.

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, thank goodness I have always been known for my ability to work wonders with my dirty talk when welcomed.....then I have also been told no matter what I say, dirty or gospel quality, on the phone especially it has the tendency to raise temperatures in a good way. Used to be a major problem when I worked a switchboard and had a few who would call and ask to speak to the girl with the orgasmic voice....didn't go down well with the old biddies I worked with and no matter how much I protested my innocence (and definately was innocent), they believed I did it on purpose.

Catalina