Advice for potential new Dom

[Keroin]

God, that's a weird thought. Us, as in the Talk collective, in ten years time. I feel like this would make good Chat fodder, but I'm too insecure to start the thread myself.

Would you like Bad K to start it for you? (Just whisper in her ear and let her play with your blowtorch for a while and I'm sure she'll oblige )

 

[MisterSir]

Would you like Bad K to start it for you? (Just whisper in her ear and let her play with your blowtorch for a while and I'm sure she'll oblige )

(Subtle hints work!)

Ooh please. Especially if "blowtorch" is one of them euphememphisms.

 

[00Syd]

Off topic...

And you're going to rock! I just know it. Go, Syd, go!!

Can't wait to say "I knew her when..."



Clive Cussler earns a pretty sweet living as a writer, that doesn't mean he's any good at it.

/off topic

Aw, thanks You are awesome.

 

[Keroin]

Aw, thanks You are awesome.

Yes, I know. *nods*

 

[Keroin]

(Subtle hints work!)

Ooh please. Especially if "blowtorch" is one of them euphememphisms.

Keep dreaming, big fella.

Your thread has been started. Chocolate can be sent to:

K & Bad K
Most Awesome Nelson, BC
Canada, eh.

 

[DVS]

WOW BLoved, I finally get it! You've cleansed the evilness from my very soul and I now only hit the ones I love. But, the difference is I have love in my heart while I'm hitting her.

Thank you, BLoved, with all my heart. You've saved us. Now you can leave this forum with the knowledge that you've cured us from our casual sins. We no longer think casually in our thoughts regarding BDSM. Now we are quite formal. Personally, I've now taken to wearing a tux while I beat my woman. She continues to wear her formal birthday suit, black collar and cuffs.

(Sorry, to any penguins that might be reading this. No offense intended. After all, it's the most sincere form of flattery.)

 

[DVS]

Mike, the fact that you've actually come seeking advice tells me you're not looking to rape or abuse. Some people might not be able to see that and that's their lack of understanding.

Take the advice of reading stories, reference articles, etc. so you understand what it is you enjoy. As BiBunny has said, it might be you just enjoy role play. But, if you have specific kinks in mind that trigger your desires, I'd say that's more of a dominant twist.

Either way, you just need to understand where your desires are centered. That's where the reading comes in. The more you know about the subject, the better you are going to understand your own desires.

It's been said many times, there are no right or wrong ways to enjoy this, as long as you have two consenting adults involved. To me, your first post sounds like you have dominate desires. Read and experiment with a little casual on the job exploration.

 

[iamsamtoday]

Are you sure? I could have sworn that my last one-night casual sub-conquest had the seal tattooed on her ass.

Touche! LMAO!

 

[iamsamtoday]

Hey Mikey, your thread went in another direction...Good Luck.

Read stories and BDSM section you should find some stuff to help you.

Sam

 

[intothewoods]

~smile~

And I got paid for creating logical paragraphs.

Yes, I can relate.

I'm going to use that next time I'm in an argument with my PYL. Do you really want to tangle with me? I'm a professional!

 

[midwestyankee]

~smile~

And I got paid for creating logical paragraphs.

So did Sarah Palin. That doesn't make her crap worth reading.

 

[Bette_coquette]

Technical writing.... *shudder* Welp, that at least explains a lot.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Hey Mikey, your thread went in another direction...Good Luck.

Read stories and BDSM section you should find some stuff to help you.

Sam

The voice of reason as usual. Thank you sexy.