Ageplay/The Lolita Fetish
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Chris_Xavier
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Quint said:
There are worse things.. I can't think of them at the moment..
RawHumor
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Quint said:
Fuck.
If I knew you were talking me I'd have tried to post something more interesting.
Can you warn me ahead of time next time, please?
Most of my stalkers are trolls... boring... annoying... abrasive. I much prefer you.
BiBunny
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dolf said:
Ooooh...hot.
By the way, I got a PM about this thread earlier. How can you read the entire thing and miss that I've said at least a dozen times that I have a partner with whom I play out this fantasy? I DO NOT need some random Internet person to be my cyber "Daddy." I don't get into the Daddy thing, anyway. The "oh, I'll take such good care of you, princess," bullshit sickens me. Give me B., the dirty old man, any day.
dolf
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LOL!BiBunny said:Ooooh...hot.
By the way, I got a PM about this thread earlier. How can you read the entire thing and miss that I've said at least a dozen times that I have a partner with whom I play out this fantasy? I DO NOT need some random Internet person to be my cyber "Daddy." I don't get into the Daddy thing, anyway. The "oh, I'll take such good care of you, princess," bullshit sickens me. Give me B., the dirty old man, any day.
they do try.
always very trying.
alexanna
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Lolita Addiction
I haven't really posted before but thought maybe I would start. I am a closet sub with very little real life experience but have been around off and on online for 12 years being very jealous of all you folks living out your dream in the real world.
What I love about the Daddy/little girl dynamic is the tenuous power play between the two roles. I recently read Lolita for the first time and it is very clear in that particular dynamic, by virtue of Humbert's addiction, that Lolita herself is the holder of most of the power. He may exert power over her physical being because she is so young and he is her "legal" guardian but it’s clear as she grows up he will not be able to continue to exercise it and she manipulates him mercilessly. I found myself wishing she had as much of an addiction to the relationship as he so that the power exchange would feel more dynamic and obscure.
I have an online role-play Lolita-like relationship and find the power really does change hands often depending on which party is most addicted to the relationship at any particular moment. Daddies are terrified of losing their precious charges and little girls do use this against them to get what they want (at least I do). On the other hand little girls absolutely NEED approval, attention, safety and security from their Daddies. While he may hold the cards most of the time I hold them enough of the time to keep things exciting.
While a more clear cut and defined power exchange may be preferable in real life I find it exceedingly boring in online interaction. The Daddy/little girl scenario introduces a level of complexity that can be stimulating and rewarding to explore. I love that I can be dominated but still pout, ask why constantly, and argue without fear I will chase him away. I seriously can't figure out what there is to do online-only if you can't enjoy the power struggle and feel safe you won't be abandoned doing it.
This would be in addition to what everyone else has said about age play which I wholeheartedly agree is a very compelling way to deal with one’s own childhood wounds and explore situations and feelings from an extra helpless, innocent and trusting perspective.
I would be curious if the Doms out there involved in Daddy/little relationships feel they take on more of an emotional risk in this type of relationship than in say a Master/slave relationship.
I haven't really posted before but thought maybe I would start. I am a closet sub with very little real life experience but have been around off and on online for 12 years being very jealous of all you folks living out your dream in the real world.
What I love about the Daddy/little girl dynamic is the tenuous power play between the two roles. I recently read Lolita for the first time and it is very clear in that particular dynamic, by virtue of Humbert's addiction, that Lolita herself is the holder of most of the power. He may exert power over her physical being because she is so young and he is her "legal" guardian but it’s clear as she grows up he will not be able to continue to exercise it and she manipulates him mercilessly. I found myself wishing she had as much of an addiction to the relationship as he so that the power exchange would feel more dynamic and obscure.
I have an online role-play Lolita-like relationship and find the power really does change hands often depending on which party is most addicted to the relationship at any particular moment. Daddies are terrified of losing their precious charges and little girls do use this against them to get what they want (at least I do). On the other hand little girls absolutely NEED approval, attention, safety and security from their Daddies. While he may hold the cards most of the time I hold them enough of the time to keep things exciting.
While a more clear cut and defined power exchange may be preferable in real life I find it exceedingly boring in online interaction. The Daddy/little girl scenario introduces a level of complexity that can be stimulating and rewarding to explore. I love that I can be dominated but still pout, ask why constantly, and argue without fear I will chase him away. I seriously can't figure out what there is to do online-only if you can't enjoy the power struggle and feel safe you won't be abandoned doing it.
This would be in addition to what everyone else has said about age play which I wholeheartedly agree is a very compelling way to deal with one’s own childhood wounds and explore situations and feelings from an extra helpless, innocent and trusting perspective.
I would be curious if the Doms out there involved in Daddy/little relationships feel they take on more of an emotional risk in this type of relationship than in say a Master/slave relationship.
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bumping up as I thought it was interesting
*waves to everyone*
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