OneOldBroad
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She'll never know what she's missing! How sad for both of you...
Any Women Not Okay With Receiving Cunnilingus?
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Strixaluco
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It's not necessarily loss for her. Not all women enjoy it.She'll never know what she's missing! How sad for both of you...
Particularly those who were sexually abused by a relative.
Strixaluco
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And for some it's just meh - it just doesn't make everybody tick.
Hanna_Bra_Bera
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I came here to see if anyone would mention sexual abuse, whether as a child/adult by someone known to them or not.
I can count on less than 1 hand how many guys I have trusted to go down on me because of this. I was defo not okay with it.
When I do find that special person and can work through the triggers, thoughts and memories of disgust/self loathing it brings, and it always does. I have to say that I do love it!
summer_reine
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A very good point, thank you for bringing it the attention it needs in this conversation
bobsch703
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Second girl I ever had sex with, the first I fucked more than once, wouldn't let me go down on her. She thought it was gross. She liked having sex when she was on her period though, she didn't consider that gross, because when she was on her period, we didn't have to use a rubber. Go figure. She was ok with sucking dick, though I always ended up fucking her so I'm not sure how she would have been with me cumming in her mouth.
kaceyLolipop
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i’m okay with it —it feels good—but not something i really crave and not into men, for the most part, who seem to always want it.
FreckledSprite
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I love it from someone who knows how to eat out or can follow instructions. But that goes for any sex act.
What I don’t like is when anything is too scripted including trying to eat out everytime. Maybe next time finger while sucking nipples instead. Or hold my vibrator. Too many men fixate on the act assuming we want oral 24/7 and don’t listen to our actual needs or preferences.
What I don’t like is when anything is too scripted including trying to eat out everytime. Maybe next time finger while sucking nipples instead. Or hold my vibrator. Too many men fixate on the act assuming we want oral 24/7 and don’t listen to our actual needs or preferences.
YourSecretDesires
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Neither my wife nor I are really into oral. Just personal preference.
Driving a woman to tears is not necessarily the best indicator of good technique.
Lots of ego going on here. If guys are told a woman doesn't like/want oral, seems like it's an affront to your ego. Everyone claims to have mad oral skills because women like to be eaten, right? And eating pussy like a demon is the mark of your masculinity?
Seems a lot of men like to give oral because it affirms them as a good lover. It's not all about you, guys.
A lady I see occasionally as a swing partner was married to a guy (her first) who thought oral was dirty. No way was he putting his face in the place where she pissed, that was disgusting. And no way was she sucking on his cock. Dirty, disgusting, and only whores do it.
She still has to be in a good place emotionally and with someone she trusts to allow them to go down on her and she responds way better to fingers and other stimuli (I can make her cum 10 times in a row with fingers, she's beautifully multi-orgasmic). I can make her cum sometimes without even touching her pussy. Oral is just one tool in the toolbox, guys, and if you put all your eggs in that particular basket then sometimes you're going to be disappointed, and cause disappointment.
Thankfully this lady discovered after her divorce that sucking cock IS dirty, disgusting, and whorish, and she's fucking mad for it.
