Anyone Else Turned On By Finding "Evidence" That Your Woman Has Very Recently Had Sex With Someone Else?

[lifeis2short2b]

I think you guys have bigger issues. Your getting turned on because you can't satisfy your partner. How about stepping up your game.

 

[Justfantasies]

Always wanted my ex lover to confess this to me while we dated, or me learning about it some how.

She would often send me sexy texts and pics and I would sometimes be curious if she had shared them with anyone else since we lived states apart and date long distance.

One particular GF used to share pics or her and men she met on trips. Unclear whether she slept with them or not. But sexy thinking about the possibilities

 

[Scotchlander]

There have been more than once that my wife was reluctant for me to give her oral. I swear that she had a little extra "juice" to her on those occasions

Had that also with an ex g/f.

She panicked when I went down in her and said she had to go and wash down there.

When I slipped my cock into her there was no doubt I was having sloppy seconds. She denied it, but I later found out my suspicions were correct.

I did not really mind, but the fact she lied was not good.

 

[Justfantasies]

Had that also with an ex g/f.

She panicked when I went down in her and said she had to go and wash down there.

When I slipped my cock into her there was no doubt I was having sloppy seconds. She denied it, but I later found out my suspicions were correct.

I did not really mind, but the fact she lied was not good.

Doesn’t her lying make it sexier in a way

 

[Seeking4wife04]

Yes, I get turned on my this but a little worried that I may lose her someday the biggest thing is if she was more open about it so I could enjoy watching or sloppy seconds later when she returns enjoy her panties

 

[Seeking4wife04]

Had that also with an ex g/f.

She panicked when I went down in her and said she had to go and wash down there.

When I slipped my cock into her there was no doubt I was having sloppy seconds. She denied it, but I later found out my suspicions were correct.

I did not really mind, but the fact she lied was not good.

This is incredibly hot for me. She had just been fucked and now you were getting to enjoy a stretched out lubed pussy. I really like this.

 

[hiker283]

Years ago, we had been married only a couple of years, my wife and a friend, both CPAs, went to Las Vegas for an income tax seminar. They were bridesmaids in each other's weddings. I noticed my wife was not calling me as much as I thought she might, but we did talk each day. I checked her panties when she got home and did not see any obvious signs. The thought of the possibility did make me hard. It turned out both girls had hooked up with guys they met there. I found out later after my wife confessed about her college adventures.

 

[Justfantasies]

Takes me back to the days to the days when my then wife would go on a lot of trips to conferences and sometimes get fucked by strangers . . .

 

[ClockworkFox]

There was a thread on this months ago (although I suspect it was a total fabrication), when a bod wrote in to tell us about his suspicions that wifey had been playing away from home during a business trip, and I also felt the need to comment on it:

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/wife-going-on-business-trip.1602451/page-8#post-98909353

God, I feel so disgustingly normal reading all this, finding out what everyone else does in their spare time. No self-improvement watching an interesting documentary on the Incas in Peru back in the dark ages, no helping the kid out with his maths homework, no watching the daughter pirouette in the lounge as she prepares for Swan Lake on Friday evening, no making the dinner and washing up afterwards, no ringing the Blenkinsops to arrange dinner at Chez Pierre next week, none of that. No, for some people it's all a frantic, furtive flurry of laundry basket inspections and even tasting and smelling, dreading (or hoping ...!) that he's going to catch her out with alien spunk on her knickers. Some people even seem to have been using slide rules and trigonometry and precision mechanics, hydraulics and pneumatics to work out the finer gooey details:

"It had the unmistakable cum stain right where the cock would unload if she had been bent over her desk."

What's all this about "unmistakable"? Is it so unmistakable? Oh, right, I see ... you made sure, didn't you? A-sniffing and a-slurping.

And, for all you know, SHE could be on basket patrol as well, narrowing her eyes as she spots the unmistakable trace of girlie juice on your Y-fronts. Well, unmistakable ... maybe she also has a lick or two to make sure then, fingering her cunt as she does so for a comparative tasting session.

Jesus. I'm such a boring arsehole.

And finally ... I copied the quote above, so that's why the spelling's that way, but please note I'm still on my lonely, desperate, futile one-man crusade to wipe out the use of the vile and horrible word "c_m" - or rather wipe off, I suppose - from our glorious English language, the language that rules the world, and state once again that the verb is "to come", the gerund is "coming" and not "c_mming", the past is "came" (and NOT the totally, completely impossible "c_mmed"), the past participle is "come", and the hymn is "O come all ye faithful".

 

[Justfantasies]

Bump ....

 

[Buffy47]

Always wondered why so many people enjoy thoughts of a wife cheating but then So many divorced men due to wives cheating lol

 

[Justfantasies]

Maybe it's more the fantasy than the reality

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Maybe it's more the fantasy than the reality

I've learned the hard way that with the right attitude the reality can become intensely arousing.

 

[Justfantasies]

I've learned the hard way that with the right attitude the reality can become intensely arousing.

Me too

 

[ClockworkFox]

I've learned the hard way that with the right attitude the reality can become intensely arousing.

Arousing. How is it arousing? Is that because she knows you know now (I suppose so), or still doesn't know you know (I doubt it), or is there no connection at all, and it's just arousing knowing she cheated, and not necessarily arousing because she knows you know? [Bugger me Bob, was I glad to see the end of that sentence ...]

And please don't tell me you found out via a laundry basket.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Arousing. How is it arousing? Is that because she knows you know now (I suppose so), or still doesn't know you know (I doubt it), or is there no connection at all, and it's just arousing knowing she cheated, and not necessarily arousing because she knows you know? [Bugger me Bob, was I glad to see the end of that sentence ...]

And please don't tell me you found out via a laundry basket.

No laundry basket. I first found out she had cheated (but not the full extent) by snooping on her work laptop, where I found an incriminating e-mail. She knows I know. After getting over the initial shock, hurt, and anger, and after months of heavy discussions and much mental processing by me, I eventually got past the betrayal and was able to forgive her. What's left now is the intense eroticism of what she did, how she did it, who she did it with, the fact that she was so attracted to him, so turned on, that she'd risk her marriage to keep fucking him, that just being in his presence brought out the inner slut in an otherwise respectable, accomplished woman, wife, and mother. That she allowed her clit to make some very fateful decisions for her -- all of that is very arousing to me now.

 

[ClockworkFox]

No laundry basket. I first found out she had cheated (but not the full extent) by snooping on her work laptop, where I found an incriminating e-mail. She knows I know. After getting over the initial shock, hurt, and anger, and after months of heavy discussions and much mental processing by me, I eventually got past the betrayal and was able to forgive her. What's left now is the intense eroticism of what she did, how she did it, who she did it with, the fact that she was so attracted to him, so turned on, that she'd risk her marriage to keep fucking him, that just being in his presence brought out the inner slut in an otherwise respectable, accomplished woman, wife, and mother. That she allowed her clit to make some very fateful decisions for her -- all of that is very arousing to me now.

Thanks for the explanation. I don't see it as arousing, but if you do, fine. So are you still with her, and does she still see the other guy? Much more carefully, maybe ...

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Yes and yes. I recognize that if you haven't been through the experience it might be hard to understand and appreciate.

 

[MyBlondeWife2Share]

I was working overseas when my then girlfriend came to visit. She had a couple of days when I was working and went to the beach on her own. She was a cute 20yr old blonde. She said a few of the locals had tried to chat her up and used the 'once you go black' line. A couple of days later I met her after work and we had a fuck before we went out. She was really wet and loose and quite sloppy. I looked down at one point and saw she was creaming which I had never seen before. I said nothing but Im convinced she had been fucked by one of the locals. It made me so hot that years later I am still into blondes taking BBC, including my current wife.

 

[Justplainjeff]

Maybe she comes back from a girl's night out, you search for her underwear in the dirty clothes hamper, and find the crotch panel covered in semen. Maybe an old male friend spent the night in your guest room and you found a full used condom wrapped up in tissue in the trash. Maybe you found a large wet spot in a bed where she "slept." Maybe she came back drunk one night and when you went down on her you tasted cum.

If any of these events have happened, did you keep your discovery to yourself, hoping it would happen again? Did you start wondering if you could secretly observe her fucking whoever was leaving the evidence for you to find?

Over 54 years of marriage, it's never happened, and never will.

 

[Grindallnight]

Any takers yet?

Above, you said "It's become both of our fantasies for her to do that more."

Any progress on that?

No, none since her affair. The emotional part of it scarred her, I think. But once she realized that it's a huge turn on for me, she's opened up and talks about other guys fucking her when we are having sex. She knows it turns me on, but it really gets her going, too.
Still hoping that someday, there will be more guys in her future.

 

[Grindallnight]

I think you guys have bigger issues. Your getting turned on because you can't satisfy your partner. How about stepping up your game.

That's not always the case. If you don't know, you don't know. It wasn't an issue of sexual satisfaction for her, it was more to do with communication between us for a while. I wasn't communicating very well (neither was she) so as a couple, we were failing. But when someone she found attractive was paying her compliments and giving her attention, she fell into it hard. I don't blame her at all. But we both learned two things - we were shitty at talking to each other in general, and that we both love that she likes sex with men, not just her husband.

 

[markchamberlain]

My long-distance college GF lived w 4 other girls in a shared apartment. One time I called there and asked for her, and the girl said "ok, is this CJ?" That is not my name.

Also around that time, she had forgotten her diaphragm at my place. She asked me to mail it to her. I asked her why I couldn't just bring it during our next visit. She sounded unsatisfied with that solution, but reluctantly accepted it. It was odd that she even asked me to mail it in the first place.

So, what is your guess?

 

[MamaBitte]

I wish mine would

If a fairy granted me one wish for the New Year, that's what I would wish for!

 

[Grindallnight]

Always wondered why so many people enjoy thoughts of a wife cheating but then So many divorced men due to wives cheating lol

I decided - we could either separate and go our separate ways, or learn a lesson and move forward together. We chose to move forward together. Why let a painful lesson/experience ruin a family? If you can both grow from it and improve as a couple I didn't see the benefit of ending everything over sex.