Anyone Else Turned On By Finding "Evidence" That Your Woman Has Very Recently Had Sex With Someone Else?

[lifeis2short2b]

That's not always the case. If you don't know, you don't know. It wasn't an issue of sexual satisfaction for her, it was more to do with communication between us for a while. I wasn't communicating very well (neither was she) so as a couple, we were failing. But when someone she found attractive was paying her compliments and giving her attention, she fell into it hard. I don't blame her at all. But we both learned two things - we were shitty at talking to each other in general, and that we both love that she likes sex with men, not just her husband.

Like I said step up your game.

 

[markchamberlain]

My long-distance college GF lived w 4 other girls in a shared apartment. One time I called there and asked for her, and the girl said "ok, is this CJ?" That is not my name.

Also around that time, she had forgotten her diaphragm at my place. She asked me to mail it to her. I asked her why I couldn't just bring it during our next visit. She sounded unsatisfied with that solution, but reluctantly accepted it. It was odd that she even asked me to mail it in the first place.

So, what is your guess?

OK, I just wanted to make it a bit of a fun mystery, I do know the outcome.

I confronted her about it the next time we visited. She pretty quickly confessed, it was true. She had met him in a social situation, they flirted….and one thing led to another. She didn’t want to cheat, but she got horny and lost control that first time. And it turns out their sex was fantastic, and very addictive.

To her credit, she didn’t offer some bullshit broken promises about never doing it again. She pretty realistically said she did not have the willpower to stop. I heard more details than I wanted, but the upshot is that he gave her mind-bending orgasms, like nothing she ever imagined. Her legs literally trembled when she thought about fucking him. So self-control wasn’t an option.

So, we went forward like this. She was still my girlfriend, but she regularly got naked and enjoyed great sex with another guy, letting him cum deep inside her pussy, on her face, in her mouth…whatever he wanted. She was not normally so slutty, but she desperately craved sex with him at a primal level, so she was willing to do anything and everything to keep him interested.

I was more devastated -- and more turned on -- than I have ever been since then. Both feelings were intense beyond description.

(We went on like this for 2 more years. Eventually we parted ways, for mostly unrelated reasons. She also didn’t end up with the other guy.)

 

[Robbie527]

Maybe she comes back from a girl's night out, you search for her underwear in the dirty clothes hamper, and find the crotch panel covered in semen. Maybe an old male friend spent the night in your guest room and you found a full used condom wrapped up in tissue in the trash. Maybe you found a large wet spot in a bed where she "slept." Maybe she came back drunk one night and when you went down on her you tasted cum.

If any of these events have happened, did you keep your discovery to yourself, hoping it would happen again? Did you start wondering if you could secretly observe her fucking whoever was leaving the evidence for you to find?

My wife is bi polar and I once found, many years ago now, 10 knotted and very full condoms in a plastic box at the bottom of our freezer. Yes I wondered but not hoping it would happen again

 

[old_hippy_46]

One particular GF used to share pics or her and men she met on trips. Unclear whether she slept with them or not. But sexy thinking about the possibilities

Finding evidence can be very erotic. My wife likes to have lovers over to the house when I'm not there. She will casually leave evidence of her sexual escapades, like cum spots on my side of the bed, or sometimes a used condom left in a conspicuous place. When I discover the evidence it gets me charged up, so when it's my turn to fuck her later I call her on it.

Did he fuck you good today?

You are a little fucking slut.

How many guys did you fuck today?

This erotic banter turns her on and consequently me as well.

It's just a little game we play to keep the sparks going.

 

[SeaLevel]

Finding evidence can be very erotic.

Our agreement is that if we have sex with another we disclose but honestly, if my wife chose to have one lover as a secret I'd be fine with that and if she dropped subtle hints to that effect, deliberately or otherwise, all the better.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Feeling under her skirt and finding her panties damp in that special sort of way

 

[Scotchlander]

Doesn’t her lying make it sexier in a way

Not for me. I prefer honesty. I would be turned on anyway, so no reason to lie.