Are they having sex?

[Winchester3030]

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[Tommelon]

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[OceanWings]

One night I was watching videos of 2 girls masturbating together. Some really get in to it, watching the other girl for stimulation, maybe even caressing a leg or touching a boob. Were these people havng sex? Maybe getting money to perform an act together?

As my OCD went into overdrive I started trying to determine what constituted having sex. Does it require touching each other? My wife and i enjoy mutual masturbation, sometimes not touching each other. I consider that having sex, so maybe touching isn't required.

I once played with a girl's boobs in the movie theater. Nothing else happened. Did we have sex?

Does someone getting a massage with a happy ending have sex with the masseuse?

When my wife and her friend played with each other's boobs (fully clothed) just to tease the husband's, did they have sex?

When a husband/BF watches their partner have sex with another man (no interaction) is he part of their sex act?

This is kind of a dumb thing to think about, but the mind is a mysterious thing. I still don't have a perfect answer to 'what constitutes having sex', but I have refined my idea of what it is.

These girls are not having sex:
https://xhamster.com/videos/before-the-evening-comes-3708594

But I think these two are:
https://xhamster.com/videos/girls-masturbate-together-and-almost-trib-7560244

Any other ideas on acts that may be 'having sex, or not having it?

I would say any act that brings you to climax or is attempting to would be sex. So if two people were next to each other and masturbating but not touching then they each had sex with themselves but not each other. If one of them does something to help and influence the other then they had sex. Maybe just my opinion though.

 

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[gtnlynn]

My wife and I had that discussion a while back. We dated almost 8 years before we married. I did not have penetration sex with her until our wedding night. During our dating years, I fingered her to orgasm many times and she gave me hand jobs with lots of cum resulting. Meanwhile, during her first two and a half years of college, she was fucked on a regular basis by other guys, and I'm sure she was fingered by many others. I claimed that we didn't have sex with each other until our wedding night, but she insisted that any time we helped each other orgasm was sex. She was willing to increase the number of guys she had sex with in college from five to 15 or more. I finally agreed with her. Anything ending in orgasm is sex for us.

 

[petes478]

To me, actual penetration, (except for f/f going down on each other) means sex, everything else is foreplay.

If a husband watches his wife with someone else, then he is part of the sex act; regardless whether he joins or not, he's still watching which means he's part of it.

If I touch a guys cock it doesn't mean I'm having sex, I might just be helping relieve himself because I really don't want to have sex.

I guess it depends on the individual, but to me unless there's actual penetration it's mostly foreplay.

Yes. Agreed. Elayne_Hawke nailed it