Are women really THAT easy?

[hogjack]

Sometimes 15 min. is all it takes! hehe

And that includes dinner.

 

[DarkMuse]

I'm not exactly a whore or anything...but...

I managed to pick up 2 guys (good looking ones at that...and one in a well known band in Canada) at a bar for one night stands, in about a 30 minute time span (mind you, both weren't at the same time...LOL).

I was single, and hadn't had sex in 8 months, and was horny as fuck! Basically, I was willing to wack a guy over the head and drag him home...LOL.

And my boyfriend, well--sex on the second date, which I generally don't do either.

Geez.....I used to be such a shy flower...LOL!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I'm not exactly a whore or anything...but...

I managed to pick up 2 guys (good looking ones at that...and one in a well known band in Canada) at a bar for one night stands, in about a 30 minute time span (mind you, both weren't at the same time...LOL).

I was single, and hadn't had sex in 8 months, and was horny as fuck! Basically, I was willing to wack a guy over the head and drag him home...LOL.

And my boyfriend, well--sex on the second date, which I generally don't do either.

Geez.....I used to be such a shy flower...LOL!

I know how you feel. I'm that way too when I havent had any in a long time. I dont classify myself as a whore or easy, but I do make sure to get what I want when I want it.

 

[HybridCrow]

Well, I came REAL close to asking the girl out. Problem was, I never really had a chance to talk to her.

I think the main reason that's keeping me from even asking is the whole "co-worker/client" dealio most companies have. Sure, my job let's us date others from the workplace, but there are only a few exceptions. They can't be in a position where they could hurt your job if the relationship happened to go bad, and they can't be in the same department. Oh and the other exception is, it's not really a date, just co-workers socializing. Hmm... maybe I should try that. Instead of going at it from a "dating" approach, more like a social approach.

 

[corkscrewer]

I managed to pick up 2 guys (good looking ones at that...and one in a well known band in Canada) at a bar for one night stands, in about a 30 minute time span (mind you, both weren't at the same time...LOL).

Oh please humour me and tell me which band

 

[LadyJeanne]

Oh and the other exception is, it's not really a date, just co-workers socializing. Hmm... maybe I should try that. Instead of going at it from a "dating" approach, more like a social approach.

That could work. In the consulting industry, after work socializing is almost a requirement. It's very easy to turn something like that into a romantic evening just by adding a few courteous gestures - helping her out of the cab, holding her chair for her at dinner. After a cocktail or two, the lines between business and social blur easily.

 

[cymbline]

Me, no I am not that easy, I am not willing to let my guard down. I also think that if you are easy or not, depends upon what is happing in your life currently or in the past. If you are missing something, either physical closeness or emotional closeness, you will be more then willing. As you know you will be getting that "need" met for a moment by someone. If you walk up to a women in a bar and start an intelligent conversation with them, give them compliments, do some inoffensive motions- you will be surprise how lucky you can get.

 

[DarkMuse]

Oh please humour me and tell me which band

Some east coast band that won a bunch of awards...I honestly have NO IDEA who they are...LOL. But they had played at the bar I was at (not when I was there mind you). I don't remember their name even now....something long, though. And dorky.

 

[tiwolf]

Interesting post. I once dated a co-worker after she left the company and years after she ended her relationship with bf. She is a very attractive woman and I was reluctant to ask her out, but I did since I knew her. She told me that during her single years, she found it frustrating because her attractiveness was an intimidation to most guys. They were afraid to approach her for fear of rejection. Go figure!

 

[chris9]

I don't know how many women will have sex with you right away. In that field I have no personal experiences, starting my present relationship with 17 and not cheating... Though I know that it is very flattering if a guy comes up to talk to me. Even if it's your average guy, it shows that I am attractive and seen as a woman. I don't really think even without my relationship I would have sex the first night, but the man would at least get my phone number, a date, a chance to getting to know each other.

 

[Ricwilly]

Men are easy.

 

[Seduce]

I am very easy if I like the guy (on the other hand I am tough as hell if I dont like him - some used to call me Ice Queen)

 

[Xectxny19X]

agghhh...I tend to like the shy ones. That's just me though. *smiles*

 

[venuslvr69]

I love to be chatted up. If the guy isn't too creepy and fairly good looking they can usaully get pretty far. If I think they're nasty or dirty (in the nonfun sense), forget it.

 

[bronzeage]

Easy enough

She guessed that a normal (non-repulsive) guy could score with half – half! – the available women out there. All he needs is a smile and a confident approach. After that, she’s basically his if he has the courage to ask.

A former Governor of Louisana, who now lives in a Federal prison, was once known as "The Silver Zipper". He set the ratio at one out of a hundred. He said you would get slapped 99 times for every "yes". You can argue with his numbers, but he has the research to back it up.