Are you a lurker?

I'll admit to lurking. I've tried to post and speak about somethings but I get shot down for saying things so I just stay in my comfort zone. Stay a wallflower and read other posts.


Here in BDSM you were shot down? If so, I'm sorry to hear that. New voices are usually always a breath of fresh air around these parts. :rose:
 
I lurk a lot, I spend a lot of my time with him, and I dont know many people on here so I lay low.
 
Here in BDSM you were shot down? If so, I'm sorry to hear that. New voices are usually always a breath of fresh air around these parts. :rose:

No it hasn't happened here yet. It was in a couple other threads in a different area. Thank you so much for the welcome! I'm not new to this topic, just new to this area of lit. :)
 
I will admit to being a lurker. I'm usually on the Playground. I've grown bored with the sometimes ... exclusive nature there. Searching for something new to capture my attention. Shout out to Fara for the invite/suggestion to the BDSM area🌹

Yay for Fara! This is a fairly quiet place compared to the PG. I find I get out of this forum what I put in to it. If everyone lurks, there's not much to lurk over! Anyways. Hopefully you'll enjoy being here.


You're right. I spend more time lurking than posting.

Hope you feel comfy enough to jump in!


Ditto.
:rose: from a fellow wallflower

Welcome.


Let's start a club, I am exactly the same way.:cool:

We can put a sign on the clubhouse for snotty people to stay out.:D

There's a pillow fort thread around here somewhere.


I lurk a lot, I spend a lot of my time with him, and I dont know many people on here so I lay low.

Hope you and yours feel like you can jump in and get to know people here. Welcome.


No it hasn't happened here yet. It was in a couple other threads in a different area. Thank you so much for the welcome! I'm not new to this topic, just new to this area of lit. :)

Glad you're here. :rose:
 
You know, I'll have to get over some of my shy nature and just acknowledge some things are rather enticing or give an opinion more...*Smiling*
 
I'll admit to lurking. Stay a wallflower and read other posts.

No wallflowers around here Blueeyesrenee, they are not allowed. Everyone is a participant and active, just in different ways. Enjoy your time here in BDSM and Lit and the ride, hopefully it is elements of sex, eroticism and oh, BDSM.
 
No wallflowers around here Blueeyesrenee, they are not allowed. Everyone is a participant and active, just in different ways. Enjoy your time here in BDSM and Lit and the ride, hopefully it is elements of sex, eroticism and oh, BDSM.

Thank you. I've had a good ride. Have a family over in AmPics. Just seeing what else is out here. Hit a few road blocks. BDSM Cafe has been nice.
 
I’m kind of a lurker. I’ve been around Lit for years with a different s/n. That one had lots of...attention....with it on another board. Since the bf introduced me to more BDSM and my bratty, submissive side I started lurking around here. I decided I might want to post replies, ask questions, etc but didn’t want to be judged by my past posts etc so here came the new one. I am trying to come out of my shell but still working on it a bit. Not that everyone here isn’t friendly, just trying to figure out how to verbalize questions or just respond.
 
If I have a crush on someone yes. I lurk....and I start to crave their attention.

hmmm. lurker or stalker? Hope you'll jump in to threads and chime in, whether or not the object of your crush is around.


I’m kind of a lurker. I’ve been around Lit for years with a different s/n. That one had lots of...attention....with it on another board. Since the bf introduced me to more BDSM and my bratty, submissive side I started lurking around here. I decided I might want to post replies, ask questions, etc but didn’t want to be judged by my past posts etc so here came the new one. I am trying to come out of my shell but still working on it a bit. Not that everyone here isn’t friendly, just trying to figure out how to verbalize questions or just respond.

welcome back?? :cattail: Hope to see you post more.
 
Here lurker lurker lurker! I have candy. Come on out and let us see you're witt, humor, and personality. 😁
 
Not a Lurker

Let's see -- in my current manifestation I now have 558 posts, almost all pictures. I used to be someone else and probably had as many posts under that moniker. Thus, not a lurker. :D
 
Longtime lurker

Absolutely love reading through threads and profiles and getting an idea of what turns people on;
kinda like people watching at a table outside in the city or hanging out at the end of a bar... "smile, enjoy, and don't be rude" 😁
 
Absolutely love reading through threads and profiles and getting an idea of what turns people on;
kinda like people watching at a table outside in the city or hanging out at the end of a bar... "smile, enjoy, and don't be rude" 😁


You've been people watching for quite a while. Glad you came out to say hello.
 
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