Are you a lurker?

[cookiecat]

Mostly, yes. The things I don't say rarely get me in trouble, missed birthdays being a glaring exception.

Right? I'm in a couple groups on FB where the members are just cruel. I'm usually pretty thick skinned because why let a stranger get me whipped up? Here is a little different because I value people's opinions. I never want anyone to feel judged by my words. Haha. Unless they deserve it.

But I like how you think. It's different than what I'm used to so I appreciate the differences.

When I get in lurker mode, it's usually because words fail me. I don't seem to have the energy to think though l through a reply. Other times I think I have the answer for everything and bounce around in Los of threads.

 

[cookiecat]

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I like it when you post, Honey.

 

[Anisland]

Yes. Have definitely gone back to that

 

[gracie920101]

TC - what do you mean about messaging? On bdsmlr? Is there a messaging feature?

Yes, yes there is.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Pretty much! I spend probably too much time reading threads here, but don’t tend to post much. Love getting PM’s, I don’t get that many, but when I do it’s fun to chat with others.

I remember you posting a bit.

 

[cookiecat]

Yes, yes there is.

I haven't seen this! I don't spend much time there. Sounds, um, interesting.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I lurked for years. I still tend to lurk in some threads, but post somewhat frequently in others.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I like it when you post, Honey.

Thank you, cookie.I think yours are always top notch.

 

[Pumpkin08]

Welcome!

It's a wonderful world, isn't it?

Glad you said hi.

Hi Cookie!

Just checking things out.

Goes back into my cave..

 

[cookiecat]

Hi Cookie!

Just checking things out.

Goes back into my cave..

Well ya can't get to know people in the cave. There is a pillow fort thread around here somewhere...

 

[cookiecat]

I lurked for years. I still tend to lurk in some threads, but post somewhat frequently in others.

Hope we see more from you here.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

ummmm...duh?

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[AlwaysFara]

ummmm...duh?

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*looks are your post count*

You are so NOT a fucking lurker.

 

[comesayhi]

OK, you have me,*holds hands up * yes i am a lurker, but to be fair, i am new here and dont know anybody yet...do i get a pass ??

 

[Lothario1956]

I lurk to a certain extent to avoid the drama on the PG - I do most of my chatting via the occasional PM with a select group, but mainly be email with my girl.

 

[Moochienanu]

I lurk a lot of places (obviously I am an ampic-posting-type, but outside of my thread? It is rare). Sometimes it is usually because I don’t think I have much to add to a conversation, but am interested and or enjoy the topic, so I read. Lots.

 

[Dreamer110]

Kinda maybe sorta.

 

[Pumpkin08]

Very much so..

 

[midwestyankee]

I was until 30 seconds ago.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I was until 30 seconds ago.

I was until I saw this guy. Hey, yank.

 

[cookiecat]

OK, you have me,*holds hands up * yes i am a lurker, but to be fair, i am new here and dont know anybody yet...do i get a pass ??

Hope you jump in and get to know people here.

 

[cookiecat]

I lurk to a certain extent to avoid the drama on the PG - I do most of my chatting via the occasional PM with a select group, but mainly be email with my girl.

Welcome.

 

[cookiecat]

I lurk a lot of places (obviously I am an ampic-posting-type, but outside of my thread? It is rare). Sometimes it is usually because I don’t think I have much to add to a conversation, but am interested and or enjoy the topic, so I read. Lots.

You added a lot to the daddy/little conversation in the PG, which I lurked through. You have an interesting perspective. Glad you unlurked here!

Kinda maybe sorta.

You unlurked to post here!

Very much so..

You came out of your cave! Hope you unlurk a bit more. The more voices around here, (usually) the better.

 

[cookiecat]

I was until 30 seconds ago.

I was until I saw this guy. Hey, yank.

Lurkers!

 

[AlwaysFara]

Lurkers!

Smirker!!!
*points*