Are you a lurker?

[cookiecat]

This is exactly what I felt for a long time. I felt like I would be a poser. Unqualified.

I just wanted to tell you that's a beautiful blouse in your AV.

 

[MrZeno]

Low hanging fruit , no not at all. thank you for noticing my post.

Low hanging fruit are the hens that board the like , lick , grope , and whatever else the sorority of grannie pantie , bored soccer moms and subs on a prick tease online hall pass do. Those lame threads that go round and round getting lame attention from the same group of blue balls that have stoked said hens egos for however long they have been in that cocktease sorority. ** low hanging fruit

* you on the other hand it seems doesn't crave that prick tease adrenaline.

Every fucking day , subs with online hall passes to flirt are pathetic . Ask me a question and I'll answer it , yawn... That's Facebook shit. Old broads with years worth of posting history stoking the same like , lick , jerk offs that line up to be blessed by the sorority sisters of tease . How sweet is that ....pfffft , low hanging fruit. If you want it .

Lurkers , on the other hand , will drop you a note in a PM , post a post that catches a eye worthy of attention as mysterious. Like your avatar , your signature panel , your posting history. A good lurker knows what she's doing.....just saying.

It takes time and engery to give a woman the attention she deserves. Online or in the real world. The fruit at the top of the tree is the juiciest , ripest , and far better then .......the low hanging fruit.

No clue what you mean. I won’t jump down your throat but I’ll ask. Calling someone low hanging fruit for posting with a group of the same people? That could be any thread. What is the difference?

 

[NotElvis]

You have been warm and fuzzy for as long as I've known you.



Sometimes, yes. Not always.

Elvish is a lurker. LP used to be a lurker. possum is a lurker... they're not creepy. Pervy, but not creepy.

I am, god help me, I am.

 

[scooter66]

For the most part. But like to come out at night sometimes

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I am, god help me, I am.

A lurker? Certainly. A pervert? Unquestionably!

 

[Fingerfuxs]

No clue what you mean. I won’t jump down your throat but I’ll ask. Calling someone low hanging fruit for posting with a group of the same people? That could be any thread. What is the difference?

That's a question you have to figure out yourself , if you don't see any low hanging fruit . Guess what , there isn't any. It's really that simple.

Just like , if your not low hanging fruit ,you're not , shrugs . Its pretty simple.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I'm hardly a lurker...now. Warning: encouraging post below...

I lurked Lit for six months before creating a Lit profile. I lurked here for around 11 months until I felt confident enough to say in public "I am kinky and I like it". Society discourages being open about sex in general, nobody has a "I got laid last night" t-shirt. And they certainly don't have a "I got laid while tied up last night" t-shirt (NTS: check on custom t-shirts).

The reaction here is usually is: (1) I have that kink too, (2) have you tried doing this? (3) You're a filthy pervert, welcome home.

So, Lurkers, PLEASE, lurk with a purpose read the threads, and recognise that this is about the nicest buncha pervs around. Dip a toe in: ask a question, tell a poster you like their picture, say hi.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I actually like prick tease adrenaline every so often, but I get what you're saying. Sort of.

To each his or her own.

I'm going to steer this thread back to yank's sentiment: You don't have to be a bdsm expert to post here. It's interesting to have more voices chatting, more points of view.

I started this thread a while back as a way for folks who don't feel comfy posting to pop in and say hi. Be known. It's good to be seen every so often, right?

There's a lot of stuff here besides kink, D/s, bdsm. Recipes. Music. Books. Mental illness info. Pretty nails. Movies.

Years ago I posted in the General Board (a different profile) and the Playground. I found my comfort zone here. It's a small, smart group. Generally tolerant. Pragmatic. Friendly unless you're creepy (which is what I think Fingerfux was referring to).

I think it's easier to jump in to this Forum. People come and go and sometimes come back.

Anyways. Clearly I'm sitting home on a Friday night, thinking far too much about lurking.

You summarized that well , kudos. To be honest I didn't realize this was in the bdsm section of the site. Apologies if I am leaving a posting wake passing through it. I walk into any room I see a thread title I find interesting without regard to its placement in the differant classification. I have mad respect for fet-life and their tribe.

The topic was *lurkers, and lurking. That's what I saw.

Posting in a thread , no matter how old it is brings the topic back up to the top of *new posts. " new conversations. That's the posting current of ebb and flow , if you will at any given time. That's where newbies and lurkers look for threads to lurk other then subscribed ones.

Prick tease adrenaline actually reads back pretty funny grouped together and standing alone in a sentence as a positive statment. I hope you get as much as you desire , whenever you desire it.

But I have to be honest , it's a cock adrenaline rush walking into a thread and taking the air outta the room sometimes to. The visual would be walking into the local convenience store patched and flying colors. The citizens get quiet , try their best to avoid making eye contact , the clerk gets nervous ,and the panties get wet sometimes against their inner voice saying Noooooooooo !

Cheers

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

Elvish is a lurker. LP used to be a lurker. possum is a lurker... they're not creepy. Pervy, but not creepy.

I'm still a lurker, at least in this forum.

I lurk here (once in a while...not constantly) because I still have strong curiosities about BDSM, and because I have exactly zero RW experiences with it there are an infinite number of things I feel I can learn here, mostly about myself and how to manage my dominant (small D intentional) tendencies with other aspects of my world.

Ok. Back to lurking.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

No clue what you mean. I won’t jump down your throat but I’ll ask. Calling someone low hanging fruit for posting with a group of the same people? That could be any thread. What is the difference?

Half way through a cup of coffee I have better answer or picture to paint for you in regards to your question.

Vision this, you're at a tittie bar , the music is loud , it smells like stale beer and under boob sweat. Those woman are working their ass off to get your attention , get that cash, one dollar at a time. ( one post at a time ).

Who's the low hanging fruit ?

After they get off work , head back to their She-Shed , smoke a number , relax. Jump on line for a little fun and to declutter their mind from skull fucking blue balls all night.

Who do you think they wanna actually fuck ?

Low hanging fruit ?



***footnote , a she-shed is term like a man cave. It's a woman's space , she owns it. In context here on lit. She-sheds are threads that woman entertain visitors , via pictures , flirting , whatever *They please. Basically they own their online persona and don't depend on a herd or pack or coven to keep it real. They 're she-bosses

 

[MrZeno]

Half way through a cup of coffee I have better answer or picture to paint for you in regards to your question.

Vision this, you're at a tittie bar , the music is loud , it smells like stale beer and under boob sweat. Those woman are working their ass off to get your attention , get that cash, one dollar at a time. ( one post at a time ).

Who's the low hanging fruit ?

After they get off work , head back to their She-Shed , smoke a number , relax. Jump on line for a little fun and to declutter their mind from skull fucking blue balls all night.

Who do you think they wanna actually fuck ?

Low hanging fruit ?

Whatever you say dude. Wtf is a she shed

 

[Aphroditiac]

I actually like prick tease adrenaline every so often, but I get what you're saying. Sort of.

To each his or her own.

I'm going to steer this thread back to yank's sentiment: You don't have to be a bdsm expert to post here. It's interesting to have more voices chatting, more points of view.

I started this thread a while back as a way for folks who don't feel comfy posting to pop in and say hi. Be known. It's good to be seen every so often, right?

There's a lot of stuff here besides kink, D/s, bdsm. Recipes. Music. Books. Mental illness info. Pretty nails. Movies.

Years ago I posted in the General Board (a different profile) and the Playground. I found my comfort zone here. It's a small, smart group. Generally tolerant. Pragmatic. Friendly unless you're creepy (which is what I think Fingerfux was referring to).

I think it's easier to jump in to this Forum. People come and go and sometimes come back.

Anyways. Clearly I'm sitting home on a Friday night, thinking far too much about lurking.

I've been a GBer for a long time. At least, I was. I took a longish Lit-break, and have come back. I used to have fun on the GB, but most of the fun people stopped posting, which left nothing but angry men with long-standing feuds going on. I did occasionally post here, in the Cafe, and the How-To board, and of course, AmPics. I'm thinking about trying to get more active in here because it seems like more women are actively posting. I like that.

I just wanted to tell you that's a beautiful blouse in your AV.

Thanks!

It's supposed to be a beach cover up. I think normal people wear a bathing suit underneath. LOL. I just liked the contrast of the white, heavy lace for a picture.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Half way through a cup of coffee I have better answer or picture to paint for you in regards to your question.

Vision this, you're at a tittie bar , the music is loud , it smells like stale beer and under boob sweat. Those woman are working their ass off to get your attention , get that cash, one dollar at a time. ( one post at a time ).

Who's the low hanging fruit ?

After they get off work , head back to their She-Shed , smoke a number , relax. Jump on line for a little fun and to declutter their mind from skull fucking blue balls all night.

Who do you think they wanna actually fuck ?

Low hanging fruit ?



***footnote , a she-shed is term like a man cave. It's a woman's space , she owns it. In context here on lit. She-sheds are threads that woman entertain visitors , via pictures , flirting , whatever *They please. Basically they own their online persona and don't depend on a herd or pack or coven to keep it real. They 're she-bosses

Sorry if I mis-read this, but you don't seem to like it here very much. Why are you here?

Disclaimer: I don't have a she shed, man cave or (sadly) dungeon.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I've been a GBer for a long time. At least, I was. I took a longish Lit-break, and have come back. I used to have fun on the GB, but most of the fun people stopped posting, which left nothing but angry men with long-standing feuds going on. I did occasionally post here, in the Cafe, and the How-To board, and of course, AmPics. I'm thinking about trying to get more active in here because it seems like more women are actively posting. I like that.



Thanks!

It's supposed to be a beach cover up. I think normal people wear a bathing suit underneath. LOL. I just liked the contrast of the white, heavy lace for a picture.

Nice to meet you (virtually). It's like meeting a mythical creature: I didn't think you actually existed.

 

[ultramarineblue]

For me, it's the energy thing. Some days I'm not quite sure what to say and feel like retreating.

But I wanted you to know I think your questions and interaction on the AMA threads has been fun to read.

Thank you. I think that is it for me too. Sometimes I might want to interact but I don't have the energy. Other times the lack of energy definitely makes me want to retreat.

I'm glad you have enjoyed my questions, etc on the AMAs.

I get that way. I feel like that now.

I wonder if we all have those moments.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Sorry if I mis-read this, but you don't seem to like it here very much. Why are you here?

Disclaimer: I don't have a she shed, man cave or (sadly) dungeon.

Your didn't mis-read it. Your persona isn't here for hook ups. Low hanging fruit is nothing more then a group of words typed out in a little white box.

If they get in your head , you let them in there.

 

[cookiecat]

So in my second attempt to get this thread back on track

ARE YOU A LURKER?

Come out and say hi! This is a good place. Honest.

 

[CaptainKaos]

I have just created an account so I have been looking through all the threads

 

[Ropebunny]

I should add that I can not count the number of people who have told me over the years that they don't feel that they have enough of the "right kind of experience to contribute to a thread."

Baloney! If you're old enough to post here legally, you have had enough life experience to comment on a thread dealing with life in general, relationships, what you dreamt the night before, what the latest fad is in your area for pizza, or music. Or politics, even, though we haven't delved into that neighborhood much over the last few years.

Seriously. Do not limit yourself because you perceive yourself to have insufficient experience in BDSM or related practices. That is one of the ties that binds here (see what I did there?) but it does not define the bounds of our lives.

Desire is as valid an experience as any other, even if not fulfilled. This place is whatever those who contribute make it, and the greater the variety of voices the richer we all become via the experience. To find belonging you need to meet it halfway.

 

[Cherry_Brandy]

So in my second attempt to get this thread back on track

ARE YOU A LURKER?

Come out and say hi! This is a good place. Honest.

not lurking so much now CC. Thank you

 

[gracie920101]

I have just created an account so I have been looking through all the threads

Congrats for stepping out and welcome!


We don't bite...usually.

 

[gracie920101]

not lurking so much now CC. Thank you

Hi Cherry!

Welcome to the boards!

 

[Fingerfuxs]

not lurking so much now CC. Thank you

Cherii with two eyes

 

[cookiecat]

I have just created an account so I have been looking through all the threads

It's fun to look! Lots to get through. Enjoy.

Desire is as valid an experience as any other, even if not fulfilled. This place is whatever those who contribute make it, and the greater the variety of voices the richer we all become via the experience. To find belonging you need to meet it halfway.

Well said. Thanks.

not lurking so much now CC. Thank you

Glad to see you!

Congrats for stepping out and welcome!


We don't bite...usually.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

No clue what you mean. I won’t jump down your throat but I’ll ask. Calling someone low hanging fruit for posting with a group of the same people? That could be any thread. What is the difference?

your good Z



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