"Are you still bi?"

[Escierto]

It reminds me of my girlfriend who is a pure top. Her whole dating history can be summed up in this old axiom: Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em.

Very few guys did she fuck more than once. It was always off to the next one.

After I spent three weeks with her and I left to go back home, her roommate was shocked to find her crying and despondent. She said, what's wrong with you? You have never cried about a guy!

So there's hope for bottoms everywhere that somehow, some way, you can worm your way into a top's heart.

 

[el_uno77]

you're a lucky guy. she loves you big time.

 

[Escierto]

you're a lucky guy. she loves you big time.

Yes, she does. I must admit that I still can't get enough of her either.

 

[Travler99921]

I think I might be one woman away from being gay. However, I still greatly enjoy sex with my wife.

 

[Jordanjack]

My gay friend with benefits asked me this question last week. We were basking in the afterglow of hot anal sex and his cum was leaking out of my asshole.

"Of course I'm still bi! Why would you ask me that?" I replied. We frequently discussed sex and our other sexual partners, usually after he had cum in my ass or mouth and we were waiting for him to get hard again. This question was a little deeper than the usual conversations we engaged in. He's not really a deep-thinker.

"You're more gay than I am," he answered with a laugh.

When I asked him to explain further, he said I loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass, I had multiple partners with cocks, and even my girlfriend has a cock. When we're out together we frequently point out men we'd like to fuck but I had never pointed out a woman I'd like to fuck. When we're with a group of other males at a bath house or group party, I'm always the first to offer my ass or mouth to the other males present and I always accommodate everyone who's interested. And the last thing he said was "You don't even talk about pussy anymore. When was the last time you had sex with a woman?"

I offered the feeble explanation that just because I liked cock, it didn't mean I wasn't still attracted to women. After all, I had gone almost 20 years without cock when I was married, and I had still considered myself bi during that period of my life. But it made me think.

It turns out, I hadn't had sex with a biological female in just over a year. Before that, I had fairly regular sexual relations with numerous females. Usually when I was travelling around Asia, I mostly had sex with Ladyboys and the occasional gay male, but on almost every single trip I would have sex with at least one female. I can't really explain why I stopped, but I definitely had.

This was last Wednesday. After he left, I packed my bags for a short-notice business trip to Japan, leaving the following morning. Sometime during the night, I resolved to have sex with a Japanese female at some point during the two weeks I would be in Tokyo. Thursday night I had sex with a beautiful New Half (the Japanese term for Ladyboy) escort, and Friday I had a threesome with two lovely New Half escorts. Saturday I tried to arrange a short-notice date with my favorite New Half escort, but she was only available for an hour in the early evening. The location of my hotel made it impossible for me to get there by the appointment start time, but we spent a lovely 45 minutes together, and I secured appointment times with her for next weekend.

It was still early when I arrived back at my hotel, so I decided to engage the services of a female escort. I had been thinking about my gay lover's question and decided the best way to answer it was to have sex with a woman and see if the old attraction was still as strong. I found a service nearby with escorts available for the night and quickly made the arrangements. I had a quick shower, and only had to wait a few minutes for her to arrive. When I opened the door I knew without a doubt that I still loved women just as much as men. She was gorgeous, 26 years old, larger breasts than I usually prefer but it didn't take long to fully appreciate them, an incredible ass, long straight black hair, and a lovely smile. Her skin was absolutely flawless. When she was naked a few minutes later, I fell in love with her hairy bush (which I had requested) and her perfect body. We kissed for a few minutes, and she really got into it. I played with her large breasts and sucked on her big nipples. When I slid a finger into her pussy she was really wet. When I dipped my tongue into her wet pussy for the first time I knew that I could never stop having sex with women. I love eating pussy! She had a couple of intense orgasms while I ate her pussy.

I was incredibly horny (I hadn't cum when I was with my New Half earlier), but I spent quite a bit of time pleasuring her. After eating her pussy, I rimmed her perfect asshole, then ate her pussy some more. I fucked her for the first time about two hours after she arrived. Then we went into the bathroom and she gave me the first of two golden showers, and then I ate her pussy again and rimmed her asshole. She sucked my flaccid cock until it was erect, then rimmed my ass while stroking my cock and balls. We showered together and went back out to the bed. We made out some more while I fingered her pussy and asshole, and then I sucked on her lovely nipples some more. After giving her another orgasm eating her pussy, I rimmed her again, and then fucked her in the ass doggy style and then reverse cowgirl. When I was getting close to orgasm I had her turn around, remove my condom, and suck my cock including exquisite deepthroat until I came down her throat. Afterwards we slept for a couple of hours, and then I woke her up eating her pussy again. After another golden shower in the bathroom, we showered together, cleaning each other very thoroughly, and then back in the bedroom we pleasured each other orally and then I fucked her one last time. After cleaning up, she kissed me and left. I gave her a very large tip.

The eight hours we spent together was very expensive. The golden showers, rimming, anal sex, and cum in mouth were all extras. But she was worth every Yen. I called my gay lover and told him all about it, and he laughed and said "I take it back. You're definitely not as gay as me (he's never been with a female) and it certainly seems like you're still bi."
I definitely am!

Damn! I want that kind of sexual freedom in my life. lol

 

[MagicFlute]

Hard to find exclusive tops. Always looking.

No matter what the person's gender is, I'm always the dominant

 

[ShamBaLa]

My gay friend with benefits asked me this question last week. We were basking in the afterglow of hot anal sex and his cum was leaking out of my asshole.

"Of course I'm still bi! Why would you ask me that?" I replied. We frequently discussed sex and our other sexual partners, usually after he had cum in my ass or mouth and we were waiting for him to get hard again. This question was a little deeper than the usual conversations we engaged in. He's not really a deep-thinker.

"You're more gay than I am," he answered with a laugh.

When I asked him to explain further, he said I loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass, I had multiple partners with cocks, and even my girlfriend has a cock. When we're out together we frequently point out men we'd like to fuck but I had never pointed out a woman I'd like to fuck. When we're with a group of other males at a bath house or group party, I'm always the first to offer my ass or mouth to the other males present and I always accommodate everyone who's interested. And the last thing he said was "You don't even talk about pussy anymore. When was the last time you had sex with a woman?"

I offered the feeble explanation that just because I liked cock, it didn't mean I wasn't still attracted to women. After all, I had gone almost 20 years without cock when I was married, and I had still considered myself bi during that period of my life. But it made me think.

It turns out, I hadn't had sex with a biological female in just over a year. Before that, I had fairly regular sexual relations with numerous females. Usually when I was travelling around Asia, I mostly had sex with Ladyboys and the occasional gay male, but on almost every single trip I would have sex with at least one female. I can't really explain why I stopped, but I definitely had.

This was last Wednesday. After he left, I packed my bags for a short-notice business trip to Japan, leaving the following morning. Sometime during the night, I resolved to have sex with a Japanese female at some point during the two weeks I would be in Tokyo. Thursday night I had sex with a beautiful New Half (the Japanese term for Ladyboy) escort, and Friday I had a threesome with two lovely New Half escorts. Saturday I tried to arrange a short-notice date with my favorite New Half escort, but she was only available for an hour in the early evening. The location of my hotel made it impossible for me to get there by the appointment start time, but we spent a lovely 45 minutes together, and I secured appointment times with her for next weekend.

It was still early when I arrived back at my hotel, so I decided to engage the services of a female escort. I had been thinking about my gay lover's question and decided the best way to answer it was to have sex with a woman and see if the old attraction was still as strong. I found a service nearby with escorts available for the night and quickly made the arrangements. I had a quick shower, and only had to wait a few minutes for her to arrive. When I opened the door I knew without a doubt that I still loved women just as much as men. She was gorgeous, 26 years old, larger breasts than I usually prefer but it didn't take long to fully appreciate them, an incredible ass, long straight black hair, and a lovely smile. Her skin was absolutely flawless. When she was naked a few minutes later, I fell in love with her hairy bush (which I had requested) and her perfect body. We kissed for a few minutes, and she really got into it. I played with her large breasts and sucked on her big nipples. When I slid a finger into her pussy she was really wet. When I dipped my tongue into her wet pussy for the first time I knew that I could never stop having sex with women. I love eating pussy! She had a couple of intense orgasms while I ate her pussy.

I was incredibly horny (I hadn't cum when I was with my New Half earlier), but I spent quite a bit of time pleasuring her. After eating her pussy, I rimmed her perfect asshole, then ate her pussy some more. I fucked her for the first time about two hours after she arrived. Then we went into the bathroom and she gave me the first of two golden showers, and then I ate her pussy again and rimmed her asshole. She sucked my flaccid cock until it was erect, then rimmed my ass while stroking my cock and balls. We showered together and went back out to the bed. We made out some more while I fingered her pussy and asshole, and then I sucked on her lovely nipples some more. After giving her another orgasm eating her pussy, I rimmed her again, and then fucked her in the ass doggy style and then reverse cowgirl. When I was getting close to orgasm I had her turn around, remove my condom, and suck my cock including exquisite deepthroat until I came down her throat. Afterwards we slept for a couple of hours, and then I woke her up eating her pussy again. After another golden shower in the bathroom, we showered together, cleaning each other very thoroughly, and then back in the bedroom we pleasured each other orally and then I fucked her one last time. After cleaning up, she kissed me and left. I gave her a very large tip.

The eight hours we spent together was very expensive. The golden showers, rimming, anal sex, and cum in mouth were all extras. But she was worth every Yen. I called my gay lover and told him all about it, and he laughed and said "I take it back. You're definitely not as gay as me (he's never been with a female) and it certainly seems like you're still bi."
I definitely am!

We had this discussion with a couple gay friends recently about my status. I thought being bi isn't like a broken leg that heals. I've been bi a very long time. It just the opportunity to act on it with another isn't always an option. Doesn't mean I don't admire the male or female form. Or crave the feeling of a cock in my mouth, but equally love eating cum from a freshly fucked pussy. Can't help who you love.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I was bi on finding trans women like Bailey Jay. I'll be transitioning very soon and I don't think I'm interested in pussy that much now, it's who it's attached to, really. I have played around with couples.

 

[sarahlacycd1]

I love women and perhaps a bit jealous of the sexy clothes they wear. I love cross dressing too which then gives me a huge desire for cocks but only when dressed. I would love to share my dressing with my wife but she hates it so I just dress alone and then daydream about cock. We still have vanilla sex so I am not sure if I am "bi" or just mixed up or cross wired.

 

[drobert44]

I love women and perhaps a bit jealous of the sexy clothes they wear. I love cross dressing too which then gives me a huge desire for cocks but only when dressed. I would love to share my dressing with my wife but she hates it so I just dress alone and then daydream about cock. We still have vanilla sex so I am not sure if I am "bi" or just mixed up or cross wired.

You need to start dating men, and will find out quick.

 

[Tessinwales]

I occasionally still have sex with another woman, so I guess I am still bi. Lol Once bi, always bi.

 

[LoveLiving]

Only twice a week.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Ice gone from bi to pan..it's a ppl thing not gender specific

 

[Britva415]

Ice gone from bi to pan..it's a ppl thing not gender specific

Why "pan" and not "omni?"

(I assume you mean your label went from bi to pan, and not that your actual sexual orientation changed. Maybe I'm wrong about that, but if not, I'm asking about choosing "pan" versus "omni" as a label.)

 

[kathyisgr65]

Why "pan" and not "omni?"

(I assume you mean your label went from bi to pan, and not that your actual sexual orientation changed. Maybe I'm wrong about that, but if not, I'm asking about choosing "pan" versus "omni" as a label.)

Then omni it is...labels are of no concern for me...

 

[Britva415]

Then omni it is...labels are of no concern for me...

I wasn't trying to convince you.

 

[kathyisgr65]

I wasn't trying to convince you.

Ok... I thought u were trying to educate me..my bad

 

[Britva415]

Ok... I thought u were trying to educate me..my bad

Heh, no, I was trying to educate me.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Heh, no, I was trying to educate me.

Uh..oh .I'm probably not the one..good luck

 

[kathyisgr65]

Heh, no, I was trying to educate me.

Ok...I did some basic research and from what I gather...Omni is attracted to any sexes of any gender gender ...but, let's say a man is still the alpha provider...gender still playsva role in the relationship.
And pan...sexes attracted to all genders...but gender has no role in the relationship...
Clear as mud?
Yw

 

[Terrylipstick]

I love women and perhaps a bit jealous of the sexy clothes they wear. I love cross dressing too which then gives me a huge desire for cocks but only when dressed. I would love to share my dressing with my wife but she hates it so I just dress alone and then daydream about cock. We still have vanilla sex so I am not sure if I am "bi" or just mixed up or cross wired.

It’s tough…. The flip side is that if you start to ‘experiment’ with guys you (if you are anything like me) will find that the sex with men is so much better and more
Fulfilling than sex with women… ‘bi’ gave way to “I’d rather have sex with men”… to, “I think that I’m gay as shit”…. Or at least I’m a cocksucker who loves to bottom for the right guys. Either way, good luck to you.

Find the guy who enjoys seeing you dressed as much as you enjoy being dressed. You’ll love it

 

[alan59]

I consider myself gay now.

 

[Britva415]

"Are you still bi?"

"Are you still gay?"

 

[2wayroad]

All I can say for sure is I’m not at all straight. I’m an opportunist, and those opportunities seem to be very much mostly men. I enjoy sucking cock and, if things are right, getting fucked.

I rarely get picked up on, so I must not put off a gay vibe. But, when I have had those random encounters, such as cruising, I’m almost always correctly read as a cocksucker.

The times I’ve been fucked, the guy just told me he was going to and proceeded to take me. That’s how I like it best, a top who knows what he wants and simply takes it. I’ve never fucked a guy.

So, I don’t label myself nor do I try to put anyone else in a box. I simply identify as myself.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

I love women and perhaps a bit jealous of the sexy clothes they wear. I love cross dressing too which then gives me a huge desire for cocks but only when dressed. I would love to share my dressing with my wife but she hates it so I just dress alone and then daydream about cock. We still have vanilla sex so I am not sure if I am "bi" or just mixed up or cross wired.

I’m a bi guy who is really turned on by femme guys and CD’s, there’s just something about a sexy submissive femme in lingerie… I think it has to do with that state of being “in between”, who knows.
It’s very intriguing to me that you desire cock only when dressed as a female, somehow that’s very erotic.
So not even a twinge of desire when you’re standing in line at the grocery store behind a good looking male with a nice ass?