"Are you still bi?"

[Samantha47]

I am about the same......dating a sub sissy at present.

Oh my honey that's so sexy

 

[sarahlacycd1]

It’s tough…. The flip side is that if you start to ‘experiment’ with guys you (if you are anything like me) will find that the sex with men is so much better and more
Fulfilling than sex with women… ‘bi’ gave way to “I’d rather have sex with men”… to, “I think that I’m gay as shit”…. Or at least I’m a cocksucker who loves to bottom for the right guys. Either way, good luck to you.

Find the guy who enjoys seeing you dressed as much as you enjoy being dressed. You’ll love it

I can relate to much of what you say and to be honest have had a few limited experiences however I have never managed to find anyone who appreciates dressing and also has the same intense feelings whilst being dressed as I do. Perhaps that is a little harsh maybe but my perfect "bi" partner would be someone who is perhaps my alter-ego who thinks the same way as I do when dressed with the same thoughts and fantasies etc. Thanks for the advice Terry, not given up looking yet.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Bi male. Total bottom with men.

Love women.

Not necessarily attracted to men. Need dominate men to use me for their pleasure. Being submissive to another man brings balance to my alpha side with women.

I like the idea of balance coming from BI sex. Having sex with men and women makes me feel complete, whole and balanced

 

[Hitchiker69]

I think I might be one woman away from being gay. However, I still greatly enjoy sex with my wife.

When I was actively Bi I made sure to always find a female to fuck between men that I'd have sex with. That was my way of avoiding become more gay than Bi.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I can relate to much of what you say and to be honest have had a few limited experiences however I have never managed to find anyone who appreciates dressing and also has the same intense feelings whilst being dressed as I do. Perhaps that is a little harsh maybe but my perfect "bi" partner would be someone who is perhaps my alter-ego who thinks the same way as I do when dressed with the same thoughts and fantasies etc. Thanks for the advice Terry, not given up looking yet.

I’d love to be able to dress more often. I’d really love it if I were free to go completely hairless… I’d never pass, I have no illusions about that, but I’d love to be more feminine in lingerie, to be more outwardly feminine i mean….. when I’m dressed, I feel good, but I’d like my partner, or simply the man fucking me, to see me as feminine as well. To be with another crossdresser would be a dream come true…. To be with a woman, who would help me dress to satisfy a man would be the ultimate

 

[Samantha47]

I’d love to be able to dress more often. I’d really love it if I were free to go completely hairless… I’d never pass, I have no illusions about that, but I’d love to be more feminine in lingerie, to be more outwardly feminine i mean….. when I’m dressed, I feel good, but I’d like my partner, or simply the man fucking me, to see me as feminine as well. To be with another crossdresser would be a dream come true…. To be with a woman, who would help me dress to satisfy a man would be the ultimate

I'm willing honey

 

[SPARTAN047]

I can relate to much of what you say and to be honest have had a few limited experiences however I have never managed to find anyone who appreciates dressing and also has the same intense feelings whilst being dressed as I do. Perhaps that is a little harsh maybe but my perfect "bi" partner would be someone who is perhaps my alter-ego who thinks the same way as I do when dressed with the same thoughts and fantasies etc. Thanks for the advice Terry, not given up looking yet.

Hope you get someone. It's very difficult to find anyone at all and I understand, especially someone local and I'm looking as hard as I can too.

 

[Samantha47]

Hope you get someone. It's very difficult to find anyone at all and I understand, especially someone local and I'm looking as hard as I can too.

It sure is

 

[SPARTAN047]

It sure is

Yeah. Happens, but it's very much possible.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I'm willing honey

If you are anywhere near Baltimore, I’m yours

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

I've seen this forum for a while now and it has me wondering, Is it something like do you still like chocolate ice cream? or are you still right-handed? The question is confusing to me

 

[dkak001]

Is it something like do you still like chocolate ice cream? or are you still right-handed? The question is confusing to me

If you consider that a good number of gay (lesbian, gay male) people don't consider bi to be a valid option. Framed that way, the question is a bit more obvious. Example - First google search result:
https://www.advocate.com/news/2021/9/09/many-gays-lesbians-still-dont-believe-male-bisexuality-real

I'm not sure I understand the mentality that bi isn't an option, as it completely minimizes the way I view myself...

 

[2wayroad]

If you consider that a good number of gay (lesbian, gay male) people don't consider bi to be a valid option. Framed that way, the question is a bit more obvious. Example - First google search result:
https://www.advocate.com/news/2021/9/09/many-gays-lesbians-still-dont-believe-male-bisexuality-real

I'm not sure I understand the mentality that bi isn't an option, as it completely minimizes the way I view myself...

Straight people are just as bad. In the opinion of a great many, if you ever even so much as look at another man’s cock, you might as well be gay. If ever even tried sucking a cock, there’s no turning back, you’re gay.

Straight women can be a little more forgiving, but not much.

 

[peter49parker]

I can see no valid reason why one has to make a choice, 'Pussy' OR 'Cock.' It took me close to 60 years, to admit to myself that I was attracted to cock, and another 5 years to actually suck one. When I did finally suck a cock, it did nothing to diminish my appetite for pussy. Why would it? I have loved having sex with women, and now I love having sex with men too. Bi is an option.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I can see no valid reason why one has to make a choice, 'Pussy' OR 'Cock.' It took me close to 60 years, to admit to myself that I was attracted to cock, and another 5 years to actually suck one. When I did finally suck a cock, it did nothing to diminish my appetite for pussy. Why would it? I have loved having sex with women, and now I love having sex with men too. Bi is an option.

Exactly. It's that simple.

 

[BiDrew42]

I've reached a point in my life where I think I could live without pussy, but not without cock. Fortunately, that's not a decision I will ever have to make. I have not had a "relationship" with a female since before I moved to Sydney in 2015. While I still enjoy sex with females, I have no desire to be in a relationship with one. I love eating pussy, so I'm not sure I could ever completely give that up, but most (not all) of my sexual encounters with females since moving here have been of the transactional variety, which suits me just fine. My trans girlfriend satisfies my needs to be with a beautiful, sexy, feminine woman, with the added benefit of having a lovely cock.

Oddly enough, most of the "there's no such thing as bi" type comments I endure come from a very small number of men in my ever-expanding gay circle of friends. They believe there is only gay and straight, and if you venture outside your defined sexuality, it's just experimentation and means nothing. For my part, I thought I was gay the first time I sucked my best friend's cock in high school, which lasted exactly one day because I ate my girlfriend's pussy the next night. I didn't know what "bisexual" was back then, but I did know I loved both. When I finally understood what bisexuality meant, I thought it described me perfectly.

 

[stargame]

I've reached a point in my life where I think I could live without pussy, but not without cock. Fortunately, that's not a decision I will ever have to make. I have not had a "relationship" with a female since before I moved to Sydney in 2015. While I still enjoy sex with females, I have no desire to be in a relationship with one. I love eating pussy, so I'm not sure I could ever completely give that up, but most (not all) of my sexual encounters with females since moving here have been of the transactional variety, which suits me just fine. My trans girlfriend satisfies my needs to be with a beautiful, sexy, feminine woman, with the added benefit of having a lovely cock.

Oddly enough, most of the "there's no such thing as bi" type comments I endure come from a very small number of men in my ever-expanding gay circle of friends. They believe there is only gay and straight, and if you venture outside your defined sexuality, it's just experimentation and means nothing. For my part, I thought I was gay the first time I sucked my best friend's cock in high school, which lasted exactly one day because I ate my girlfriend's pussy the next night. I didn't know what "bisexual" was back then, but I did know I loved both. When I finally understood what bisexuality meant, I thought it described me perfectly.

I love your style

 

[drobert44]

My gay friend with benefits asked me this question last week. We were basking in the afterglow of hot anal sex and his cum was leaking out of my asshole.

"Of course I'm still bi! Why would you ask me that?" I replied. We frequently discussed sex and our other sexual partners, usually after he had cum in my ass or mouth and we were waiting for him to get hard again. This question was a little deeper than the usual conversations we engaged in. He's not really a deep-thinker.

"You're more gay than I am," he answered with a laugh.

When I asked him to explain further, he said I loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass, I had multiple partners with cocks, and even my girlfriend has a cock. When we're out together we frequently point out men we'd like to fuck but I had never pointed out a woman I'd like to fuck. When we're with a group of other males at a bath house or group party, I'm always the first to offer my ass or mouth to the other males present and I always accommodate everyone who's interested. And the last thing he said was "You don't even talk about pussy anymore. When was the last time you had sex with a woman?"

I offered the feeble explanation that just because I liked cock, it didn't mean I wasn't still attracted to women. After all, I had gone almost 20 years without cock when I was married, and I had still considered myself bi during that period of my life. But it made me think.

It turns out, I hadn't had sex with a biological female in just over a year. Before that, I had fairly regular sexual relations with numerous females. Usually when I was travelling around Asia, I mostly had sex with Ladyboys and the occasional gay male, but on almost every single trip I would have sex with at least one female. I can't really explain why I stopped, but I definitely had.

This was last Wednesday. After he left, I packed my bags for a short-notice business trip to Japan, leaving the following morning. Sometime during the night, I resolved to have sex with a Japanese female at some point during the two weeks I would be in Tokyo. Thursday night I had sex with a beautiful New Half (the Japanese term for Ladyboy) escort, and Friday I had a threesome with two lovely New Half escorts. Saturday I tried to arrange a short-notice date with my favorite New Half escort, but she was only available for an hour in the early evening. The location of my hotel made it impossible for me to get there by the appointment start time, but we spent a lovely 45 minutes together, and I secured appointment times with her for next weekend.

It was still early when I arrived back at my hotel, so I decided to engage the services of a female escort. I had been thinking about my gay lover's question and decided the best way to answer it was to have sex with a woman and see if the old attraction was still as strong. I found a service nearby with escorts available for the night and quickly made the arrangements. I had a quick shower, and only had to wait a few minutes for her to arrive. When I opened the door I knew without a doubt that I still loved women just as much as men. She was gorgeous, 26 years old, larger breasts than I usually prefer but it didn't take long to fully appreciate them, an incredible ass, long straight black hair, and a lovely smile. Her skin was absolutely flawless. When she was naked a few minutes later, I fell in love with her hairy bush (which I had requested) and her perfect body. We kissed for a few minutes, and she really got into it. I played with her large breasts and sucked on her big nipples. When I slid a finger into her pussy she was really wet. When I dipped my tongue into her wet pussy for the first time I knew that I could never stop having sex with women. I love eating pussy! She had a couple of intense orgasms while I ate her pussy.

I was incredibly horny (I hadn't cum when I was with my New Half earlier), but I spent quite a bit of time pleasuring her. After eating her pussy, I rimmed her perfect asshole, then ate her pussy some more. I fucked her for the first time about two hours after she arrived. Then we went into the bathroom and she gave me the first of two golden showers, and then I ate her pussy again and rimmed her asshole. She sucked my flaccid cock until it was erect, then rimmed my ass while stroking my cock and balls. We showered together and went back out to the bed. We made out some more while I fingered her pussy and asshole, and then I sucked on her lovely nipples some more. After giving her another orgasm eating her pussy, I rimmed her again, and then fucked her in the ass doggy style and then reverse cowgirl. When I was getting close to orgasm I had her turn around, remove my condom, and suck my cock including exquisite deepthroat until I came down her throat. Afterwards we slept for a couple of hours, and then I woke her up eating her pussy again. After another golden shower in the bathroom, we showered together, cleaning each other very thoroughly, and then back in the bedroom we pleasured each other orally and then I fucked her one last time. After cleaning up, she kissed me and left. I gave her a very large tip.

The eight hours we spent together was very expensive. The golden showers, rimming, anal sex, and cum in mouth were all extras. But she was worth every Yen. I called my gay lover and told him all about it, and he laughed and said "I take it back. You're definitely not as gay as me (he's never been with a female) and it certainly seems like you're still bi."
I definitely am!

What fun!

 

[Swuq]

When a top fucks me I am all gay. When I fuck a woman I am all straight. Bi best describes me.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Absolutely BI. Love sex with my wife, love sex with my gay male friend. I am always on the search for partners of either sex.

 

[stargame]

My gay friend with benefits asked me this question last week. We were basking in the afterglow of hot anal sex and his cum was leaking out of my asshole.

"Of course I'm still bi! Why would you ask me that?" I replied. We frequently discussed sex and our other sexual partners, usually after he had cum in my ass or mouth and we were waiting for him to get hard again. This question was a little deeper than the usual conversations we engaged in. He's not really a deep-thinker.

"You're more gay than I am," he answered with a laugh.

When I asked him to explain further, he said I loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass, I had multiple partners with cocks, and even my girlfriend has a cock. When we're out together we frequently point out men we'd like to fuck but I had never pointed out a woman I'd like to fuck. When we're with a group of other males at a bath house or group party, I'm always the first to offer my ass or mouth to the other males present and I always accommodate everyone who's interested. And the last thing he said was "You don't even talk about pussy anymore. When was the last time you had sex with a woman?"

I offered the feeble explanation that just because I liked cock, it didn't mean I wasn't still attracted to women. After all, I had gone almost 20 years without cock when I was married, and I had still considered myself bi during that period of my life. But it made me think.

It turns out, I hadn't had sex with a biological female in just over a year. Before that, I had fairly regular sexual relations with numerous females. Usually when I was travelling around Asia, I mostly had sex with Ladyboys and the occasional gay male, but on almost every single trip I would have sex with at least one female. I can't really explain why I stopped, but I definitely had.

This was last Wednesday. After he left, I packed my bags for a short-notice business trip to Japan, leaving the following morning. Sometime during the night, I resolved to have sex with a Japanese female at some point during the two weeks I would be in Tokyo. Thursday night I had sex with a beautiful New Half (the Japanese term for Ladyboy) escort, and Friday I had a threesome with two lovely New Half escorts. Saturday I tried to arrange a short-notice date with my favorite New Half escort, but she was only available for an hour in the early evening. The location of my hotel made it impossible for me to get there by the appointment start time, but we spent a lovely 45 minutes together, and I secured appointment times with her for next weekend.

It was still early when I arrived back at my hotel, so I decided to engage the services of a female escort. I had been thinking about my gay lover's question and decided the best way to answer it was to have sex with a woman and see if the old attraction was still as strong. I found a service nearby with escorts available for the night and quickly made the arrangements. I had a quick shower, and only had to wait a few minutes for her to arrive. When I opened the door I knew without a doubt that I still loved women just as much as men. She was gorgeous, 26 years old, larger breasts than I usually prefer but it didn't take long to fully appreciate them, an incredible ass, long straight black hair, and a lovely smile. Her skin was absolutely flawless. When she was naked a few minutes later, I fell in love with her hairy bush (which I had requested) and her perfect body. We kissed for a few minutes, and she really got into it. I played with her large breasts and sucked on her big nipples. When I slid a finger into her pussy she was really wet. When I dipped my tongue into her wet pussy for the first time I knew that I could never stop having sex with women. I love eating pussy! She had a couple of intense orgasms while I ate her pussy.

I was incredibly horny (I hadn't cum when I was with my New Half earlier), but I spent quite a bit of time pleasuring her. After eating her pussy, I rimmed her perfect asshole, then ate her pussy some more. I fucked her for the first time about two hours after she arrived. Then we went into the bathroom and she gave me the first of two golden showers, and then I ate her pussy again and rimmed her asshole. She sucked my flaccid cock until it was erect, then rimmed my ass while stroking my cock and balls. We showered together and went back out to the bed. We made out some more while I fingered her pussy and asshole, and then I sucked on her lovely nipples some more. After giving her another orgasm eating her pussy, I rimmed her again, and then fucked her in the ass doggy style and then reverse cowgirl. When I was getting close to orgasm I had her turn around, remove my condom, and suck my cock including exquisite deepthroat until I came down her throat. Afterwards we slept for a couple of hours, and then I woke her up eating her pussy again. After another golden shower in the bathroom, we showered together, cleaning each other very thoroughly, and then back in the bedroom we pleasured each other orally and then I fucked her one last time. After cleaning up, she kissed me and left. I gave her a very large tip.

The eight hours we spent together was very expensive. The golden showers, rimming, anal sex, and cum in mouth were all extras. But she was worth every Yen. I called my gay lover and told him all about it, and he laughed and said "I take it back. You're definitely not as gay as me (he's never been with a female) and it certainly seems like you're still bi."
I definitely am!

So amazing!

 

[Foggybottom81]

I love being with a woman and still find men sexually exciting. I talk more about being with a man then a woman cause most with women stories have been told.

I have never "dated" a man just had hook ups but if the right one came along I would try the dating part.

As long as you and your sexual partners are happy/content with your sexual escapades do you really require a label?

 

[bigsexybna]

My gay friend with benefits asked me this question last week. We were basking in the afterglow of hot anal sex and his cum was leaking out of my asshole.

"Of course I'm still bi! Why would you ask me that?" I replied. We frequently discussed sex and our other sexual partners, usually after he had cum in my ass or mouth and we were waiting for him to get hard again. This question was a little deeper than the usual conversations we engaged in. He's not really a deep-thinker.

"You're more gay than I am," he answered with a laugh.

When I asked him to explain further, he said I loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass, I had multiple partners with cocks, and even my girlfriend has a cock. When we're out together we frequently point out men we'd like to fuck but I had never pointed out a woman I'd like to fuck. When we're with a group of other males at a bath house or group party, I'm always the first to offer my ass or mouth to the other males present and I always accommodate everyone who's interested. And the last thing he said was "You don't even talk about pussy anymore. When was the last time you had sex with a woman?"

I offered the feeble explanation that just because I liked cock, it didn't mean I wasn't still attracted to women. After all, I had gone almost 20 years without cock when I was married, and I had still considered myself bi during that period of my life. But it made me think.

It turns out, I hadn't had sex with a biological female in just over a year. Before that, I had fairly regular sexual relations with numerous females. Usually when I was travelling around Asia, I mostly had sex with Ladyboys and the occasional gay male, but on almost every single trip I would have sex with at least one female. I can't really explain why I stopped, but I definitely had.

This was last Wednesday. After he left, I packed my bags for a short-notice business trip to Japan, leaving the following morning. Sometime during the night, I resolved to have sex with a Japanese female at some point during the two weeks I would be in Tokyo. Thursday night I had sex with a beautiful New Half (the Japanese term for Ladyboy) escort, and Friday I had a threesome with two lovely New Half escorts. Saturday I tried to arrange a short-notice date with my favorite New Half escort, but she was only available for an hour in the early evening. The location of my hotel made it impossible for me to get there by the appointment start time, but we spent a lovely 45 minutes together, and I secured appointment times with her for next weekend.

It was still early when I arrived back at my hotel, so I decided to engage the services of a female escort. I had been thinking about my gay lover's question and decided the best way to answer it was to have sex with a woman and see if the old attraction was still as strong. I found a service nearby with escorts available for the night and quickly made the arrangements. I had a quick shower, and only had to wait a few minutes for her to arrive. When I opened the door I knew without a doubt that I still loved women just as much as men. She was gorgeous, 26 years old, larger breasts than I usually prefer but it didn't take long to fully appreciate them, an incredible ass, long straight black hair, and a lovely smile. Her skin was absolutely flawless. When she was naked a few minutes later, I fell in love with her hairy bush (which I had requested) and her perfect body. We kissed for a few minutes, and she really got into it. I played with her large breasts and sucked on her big nipples. When I slid a finger into her pussy she was really wet. When I dipped my tongue into her wet pussy for the first time I knew that I could never stop having sex with women. I love eating pussy! She had a couple of intense orgasms while I ate her pussy.

I was incredibly horny (I hadn't cum when I was with my New Half earlier), but I spent quite a bit of time pleasuring her. After eating her pussy, I rimmed her perfect asshole, then ate her pussy some more. I fucked her for the first time about two hours after she arrived. Then we went into the bathroom and she gave me the first of two golden showers, and then I ate her pussy again and rimmed her asshole. She sucked my flaccid cock until it was erect, then rimmed my ass while stroking my cock and balls. We showered together and went back out to the bed. We made out some more while I fingered her pussy and asshole, and then I sucked on her lovely nipples some more. After giving her another orgasm eating her pussy, I rimmed her again, and then fucked her in the ass doggy style and then reverse cowgirl. When I was getting close to orgasm I had her turn around, remove my condom, and suck my cock including exquisite deepthroat until I came down her throat. Afterwards we slept for a couple of hours, and then I woke her up eating her pussy again. After another golden shower in the bathroom, we showered together, cleaning each other very thoroughly, and then back in the bedroom we pleasured each other orally and then I fucked her one last time. After cleaning up, she kissed me and left. I gave her a very large tip.

The eight hours we spent together was very expensive. The golden showers, rimming, anal sex, and cum in mouth were all extras. But she was worth every Yen. I called my gay lover and told him all about it, and he laughed and said "I take it back. You're definitely not as gay as me (he's never been with a female) and it certainly seems like you're still bi."
I definitely am!

I’m questioning if I’m gay for playing with my cock while reading this! Lol

 

[Lemmetri]

I’m questioning if I’m gay for playing with my cock while reading this! Lol

I was not touching my cock while reading this but I had a throbbing hard on.

I don't think I'm bi anymore. I think if I had been honest with my younger self I was not straight then but being straight was expected. I'm happy where I am and I love my wife but the reality is I'm gay. I don't have any hetero fantasies. Watching porn if there is a woman I imagine the scene as all male. I do still find the female body beautiful. But I'm not bi.

 

[easyoff]

I haven't been bi in a long time, I'm pretty much all gay now.