"Are you still bi?"

Ok...I did some basic research and from what I gather...Omni is attracted to any sexes of any gender gender ...but, let's say a man is still the alpha provider...gender still playsva role in the relationship.
And pan...sexes attracted to all genders...but gender has no role in the relationship...
Clear as mud?
Yw
I guess when the mud clears, I am a sexual being.
 
My gay friend with benefits asked me this question last week. We were basking in the afterglow of hot anal sex and his cum was leaking out of my asshole.

"Of course I'm still bi! Why would you ask me that?" I replied. We frequently discussed sex and our other sexual partners, usually after he had cum in my ass or mouth and we were waiting for him to get hard again. This question was a little deeper than the usual conversations we engaged in. He's not really a deep-thinker.

"You're more gay than I am," he answered with a laugh.

When I asked him to explain further, he said I loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass, I had multiple partners with cocks, and even my girlfriend has a cock. When we're out together we frequently point out men we'd like to fuck but I had never pointed out a woman I'd like to fuck. When we're with a group of other males at a bath house or group party, I'm always the first to offer my ass or mouth to the other males present and I always accommodate everyone who's interested. And the last thing he said was "You don't even talk about pussy anymore. When was the last time you had sex with a woman?"

I offered the feeble explanation that just because I liked cock, it didn't mean I wasn't still attracted to women. After all, I had gone almost 20 years without cock when I was married, and I had still considered myself bi during that period of my life. But it made me think.

It turns out, I hadn't had sex with a biological female in just over a year. Before that, I had fairly regular sexual relations with numerous females. Usually when I was travelling around Asia, I mostly had sex with Ladyboys and the occasional gay male, but on almost every single trip I would have sex with at least one female. I can't really explain why I stopped, but I definitely had.

This was last Wednesday. After he left, I packed my bags for a short-notice business trip to Japan, leaving the following morning. Sometime during the night, I resolved to have sex with a Japanese female at some point during the two weeks I would be in Tokyo. Thursday night I had sex with a beautiful New Half (the Japanese term for Ladyboy) escort, and Friday I had a threesome with two lovely New Half escorts. Saturday I tried to arrange a short-notice date with my favorite New Half escort, but she was only available for an hour in the early evening. The location of my hotel made it impossible for me to get there by the appointment start time, but we spent a lovely 45 minutes together, and I secured appointment times with her for next weekend.

It was still early when I arrived back at my hotel, so I decided to engage the services of a female escort. I had been thinking about my gay lover's question and decided the best way to answer it was to have sex with a woman and see if the old attraction was still as strong. I found a service nearby with escorts available for the night and quickly made the arrangements. I had a quick shower, and only had to wait a few minutes for her to arrive. When I opened the door I knew without a doubt that I still loved women just as much as men. She was gorgeous, 26 years old, larger breasts than I usually prefer but it didn't take long to fully appreciate them, an incredible ass, long straight black hair, and a lovely smile. Her skin was absolutely flawless. When she was naked a few minutes later, I fell in love with her hairy bush (which I had requested) and her perfect body. We kissed for a few minutes, and she really got into it. I played with her large breasts and sucked on her big nipples. When I slid a finger into her pussy she was really wet. When I dipped my tongue into her wet pussy for the first time I knew that I could never stop having sex with women. I love eating pussy! She had a couple of intense orgasms while I ate her pussy.

I was incredibly horny (I hadn't cum when I was with my New Half earlier), but I spent quite a bit of time pleasuring her. After eating her pussy, I rimmed her perfect asshole, then ate her pussy some more. I fucked her for the first time about two hours after she arrived. Then we went into the bathroom and she gave me the first of two golden showers, and then I ate her pussy again and rimmed her asshole. She sucked my flaccid cock until it was erect, then rimmed my ass while stroking my cock and balls. We showered together and went back out to the bed. We made out some more while I fingered her pussy and asshole, and then I sucked on her lovely nipples some more. After giving her another orgasm eating her pussy, I rimmed her again, and then fucked her in the ass doggy style and then reverse cowgirl. When I was getting close to orgasm I had her turn around, remove my condom, and suck my cock including exquisite deepthroat until I came down her throat. Afterwards we slept for a couple of hours, and then I woke her up eating her pussy again. After another golden shower in the bathroom, we showered together, cleaning each other very thoroughly, and then back in the bedroom we pleasured each other orally and then I fucked her one last time. After cleaning up, she kissed me and left. I gave her a very large tip.

The eight hours we spent together was very expensive. The golden showers, rimming, anal sex, and cum in mouth were all extras. But she was worth every Yen. I called my gay lover and told him all about it, and he laughed and said "I take it back. You're definitely not as gay as me (he's never been with a female) and it certainly seems like you're still bi."
I definitely am!
You lead such an exciting life. I am so jealous !!
 
Bi male. Total bottom with men.

Love women.

Not necessarily attracted to men. Need dominate men to use me for their pleasure. Being submissive to another man brings balance to my alpha side with women.

This is about where I am, except not necessarily submissive, at least not all the time…
 
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This is about where I am, except not necessarily submissive, at least not all the time…
I just go with it. With women I totally straight and enjoy the physical and emotional connection.

With a top I am a fem sissy and as with women I enjoy the physical and emotional connection.
 
Same, I always dream of sissy and trans fantasies but I might eat and lick the rare pussy and arsehole if the woman likes sissies.
 
Same, I always dream of sissy and trans fantasies but I might eat and lick the rare pussy and arsehole if the woman likes sissies.
Love to eat pussy and her ass before and after a hard fuck.
 
I was introduced to bi sexual sexy by older men when I was 18 in the 70s. It started off jacking off together and then blow jobs. Then it ended up being MMW threesomes with their wives. That was my favorite. Sine have married and didn’t really have the desire until about 10 years ago and I started thinking about it again and wanting the MMW.
 
I know I'm Bi-curious, but I just can get over the male factor. I fantasize about cock but when I see it attached to a guy my desire quickly disappears. My fantasies I have of sucking a cock or being fucked do not involve the male persona, it's like my camera is focused on the sex act. Of course I like a Trans woman with breasts or even a passable sissy to help me fullfill my deepest desire. I practice with a dildo, think I can deep throat a cock reasonable well, and taking one analy balls deep will not be an issue
 
I know I'm Bi-curious, but I just can get over the male factor. I fantasize about cock but when I see it attached to a guy my desire quickly disappears. My fantasies I have of sucking a cock or being fucked do not involve the male persona, it's like my camera is focused on the sex act. Of course I like a Trans woman with breasts or even a passable sissy to help me fullfill my deepest desire. I practice with a dildo, think I can deep throat a cock reasonable well, and taking one analy balls deep will not be an issue
For me I have never had an emotional attachment to my top but when I see his cock and feel it get hard in my mouth my fem ways takes over.
 
I know I'm Bi-curious, but I just can get over the male factor. I fantasize about cock but when I see it attached to a guy my desire quickly disappears. My fantasies I have of sucking a cock or being fucked do not involve the male persona, it's like my camera is focused on the sex act. Of course I like a Trans woman with breasts or even a passable sissy to help me fullfill my deepest desire. I practice with a dildo, think I can deep throat a cock reasonable well, and taking one analy balls deep will not be an issue
I can assure you, you are not alone.
 
I still enjoy sex with my wife, but other than her I have a strong preference for gay sex. Even with her I prefer cunnilingus over penis in vagina sex. She also prefers cunnilingus.
I am in the same boat! Not sure how I would perform with a different woman but I know how I respond to men.
 
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