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So why may I ask are links to other sites allowed, not meaning to sound dumb, but perhaps it’s an age thing that I don’t understand.

Lit’s owners are especially stringent on images that are uploaded to their server. My assumotion is that liability is on the site where the image is hosted. That said, many images that are linked are removed as well due to copyright concerns, underage persons depicted, graphic sexual content.

I’m not sure where your image was posted, but I didn’t remove it so I cannot offer a specific explanation.
 
Not sure who she is but found this pic lurking in my hubbies favourite pics folder.

Picture removed by moderator, in violation with the Forum Rules. Please DO read the Forum Guidelines regarding posting pictures in the forum. Thanks! :)

I can’t speak for another moderator, but posting images with a qualifier that you don’t know who they are is definitely a red flag for posting pics of others without their consent.
 
So why may I ask are links to other sites allowed, not meaning to sound dumb, but perhaps it’s an age thing that I don’t understand.
You asked ....
Not sure if I am in the right place to ask. I recently posted a series of pics, one of my cleavage and pic of five of my girlfriends cleavages that were taken by my husband and stored on our pc and iPad. All my pics bar my own were deleted and not sure why, can you help ?


You apparently did not indicate that you had permission of those frineds to post their pictures. If TPH didn't delete them, my only guess is that Site Admin did for some reason. I didn't see them, so I don't know what happened. Apparently someone complained (reported) and Admin acted.

The pictures you see linked all over the boards are already on the web as professional models, or presumably with the permission of the subjects. Lit has no control over those, but when you yourself claim to have taken pictures of people you know and post them without their knowledge, that gets into potential legal issues.
 
I think I understand what you are saying but would think that logic must apply to well over 50% of the photos posted on here. If you take a look at the lesbian section I would hazard a guess that most of these photos have been taken from other sites. And the poster doesn’t know them at all.

I do thank you for your help and kindness in trying to explain.

Think I will revert back to just being a reader and not a poster.

Many thanks x
I post, but not pictures. It's just not worth the angst.
 
Hi. I have been a member for over 20 years, but I have been inactive for a really long time. My profile was a really old cleavage shot. It was me. However, it was me in my late 30s. I wanted to put up an image or perhaps rotating images which I make in night cafe which are funny, interesting, etc. I made a doll which has a whole lot of cleavage. It sort of looks like a dress up style doll like a Barbie or some others of that ilk except it looks more like a trophy wife, escort, you get the picture. Night cafe offers open license meaning there is no restriction on art created. However so far I've been unable to upload an image. Can you help?
 
However so far I've been unable to upload an image. Can you help?
If you are referring to a profile avatar as far as I am aware you can't add one until you have 100 posts. So after 19 posts in 20 years if you keep posting at that same rate well it may take a while.

You will also have noted on your return that the board has finally been updated. It no longer supports animated gifs.
 
Hi, I'm a new user. I've added some details about myself under choices but still some informations don’t appear on my profile chat page like Gender, orientation, status...etc. I appreciate your help
Hi, it looks like you have also posted in the Tech Support forum. That’s where I would have advised you to ask, so hopefully someone comes along to that thread with some insight for you.

Welcome to Lit :)
 
How to change currently online status? I’d like to reduce some of the pms I get from men who are clearly just spamming any women online at the moment.
 
Upper right corner of any page, click on your name. In the dropdown box, click Preferences, then:

Privacy options
  • Show your online status This will allow other people to see when you are online.
      • Show your current activity This will allow other people to see what page you are currently viewing.
Some people have been reporting they can't change it, or the changes don't take effect however.

You can always Report troublesome PMs and/or Ignore the sender(s).
 
Since the new format doesn't make it easy to find the forum moderators, I wanted to create this thread to encourage members to reach out to a moderator when needed. I am the moderator for the How To and How To Cafe forums. Feel free to ask questions here or via P
 
I had one question answered. I have another one now. I have had a story in my pending file for over a week now. Is that normal?
 
I had one question answered. I have another one now. I have had a story in my pending file for over a week now. Is that normal?
I can’t really answer any questions about story publishing as I’m not involved in that. There are threads in the tech support forum and author’s hangout regarding publishing time. Seems like it might be common to take longer lately.
 
How do I search by zip code please?
There’s not an option to search for members by zip code. You, I suppose, could search the forum for a zip code. Do keep in mind this is not primarily a dating site… maybe start by making a personal ad in the personals forum if you want to search for someone close to you.
 
How to find out why a story wasn't published. There is nothing sent back or does it take more than a week to publish?
You could potentially ask in the Author’s Hangout or Tech Support forum. There are other posts and threads discussing this. As a forum moderator, I don’t have any insight into the story side of the site.
 
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